What do you do when life seems dull?

Philippines
August 29, 2012 4:05am CST
We won't usually have exciting moments in life. Most of the time, one's life would be monotonous and repetitive. Sometimes life could be so dull and boring you want to escape from it all. How do you deal with boredom?
10 responses
@leateagee (3667)
• China
29 Aug 12
Life is like that, it has ups and downs. I was a total nightmare to others when I feel bored but now I have found ways to make my days better when they seem not good. I do myLot. I listen to music while I read article from the magazine or the usual thing do housework, be a wifey. We don't escape with boredom, we face it and eal with it. It shouldn't win. Life is good and beautifuL!
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• Philippines
29 Aug 12
I like your spirit, leateagee. Yes, life is meant to be beautiful and we won't let boredom take over. I do find mylot as one great way to get rid of boredom as there are hundreds of topics to choose from and participate in. Another one of my favorites is listening to music. I'm a music lover and I find music as very entertaining and one which affects your moods very much, so I play music that raises my moods more than the others. Romantic music also keeps boredom away as you absorb yourself into those romantic feelings and imaginings.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
29 Aug 12
Cool! I like music too, just listening and humming with it. I'm a terrible singer. When I feel so down I really go for rock or loud music, for example Linkin Park's music. But sometimes when I feel just to have some peace, I meditate with a soft music and search for my inner me ... maybe a piece by Beethoven or Mozart is playing ...
• India
29 Aug 12
Hi friend,.i am a sp0ortive person and take every things as normal, life is full of challenges and we must try our maximum to get victory in it
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• Philippines
29 Aug 12
I agree.friend. We must always try to end up victorious in all the challenges we meet, including victory over boredom. There are already a lot of good suggestions in this topic discussions we could make use of.
@namiya (1718)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
i usually turn to reading or doing cross stitch works (angels designs) which is my favorite past time. Reading however is my best therapy whenever i'm not in the mood as this help me become oblivious of things around me whenever i'm into an interesting material and it usually boast up my spirit. Cross stitch likewise helps me forget time as I feel whenever i'm doing one that i'm into a jigsaw puzzle solving process as the image i'm working at slowly unfolds.
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• Philippines
29 Aug 12
I heard a lot about cross stitching and it seems like a very popular hobby, but I never tried it though. Speaking about reading, it does makes you absorbed for some time in what you're reading and you often lose track of time. It's good I have some collections of books I really like to read over and over again. This reminds me to collect some more books that I have in mind that I wanted to buy. Soon I would be adding more collections to my bookshelf.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
Hi BetterDaysMe, when I am bored I usually search new recipes online or watch TV series. Most of time I stay alone here at home because my husband is busy working but i always find a way to keep myself busy on cooking, online job and watching TV series to ease the boredom. I am just glad now that my husband bought me a new TV series that I can watch until friday.
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• Philippines
29 Aug 12
Hi Bhebelen, it's good to hear you manage your time well and know how to enjoy yourself. Yes, I think when a person is bored one of the best ways to get rid of the boredom is to do things you enjoy. You have mentioned some of the enjoyable things you could do in your own home, but in my case I wouldn't know how to cook except for fried eggs or anything fried. I would say a busy body have no time for boredom.
• China
29 Aug 12
Yes, we always become dispressed with no reason sometimes.If boring feelings block you, any force is helpless. Everytime I got tired and had no willing to do anything, I followed my inclination, by which wacth movies or sleep until the time I want something to do. When I'm a little active, I always read some motivating books. After being inspired by the famous successful man, I become excited and continue what I worked on before.
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
It's good you mentioned about reading books because that is another hobby I have that I find interesting and that removes boredom. The books that motivates me are those self-help books, books about the potentialities of the mind, success stories and books on how to improve one's financial state. Reading books could really be stimulating and would really release boredom.
@themaven (60)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
What i do is play with my friends and family and it just seems better.
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• Philippines
29 Aug 12
Yes, playing any games and sports would surely take the boredom away. When I play tennis which is now my favorite sports, I always feel a lot better after the games...it gives a natural high, and when you play with friends or people you're close to like brothers or any relatives it makes your games even more fun.
• United States
29 Aug 12
Boredom? I have three cats and a boyfriend. Between the four of them, I can be certain not to be bored. They keep the household active. Whether it is the youngest cat trying to use my head as a pillow while I'm trying to sleep, my male cat wanting chin scratches, my boyfriend needing me to proof his writing, the middle cat head butting me for attention, the phone ringing or a deadline looming for my own writing, there is almost always something happening.
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
most of the time boredom strikes me during weekend. why? maybe because am staying with my in laws. and every time that happens if not am listening to music particularly hail songs, i asked my hubby to drop me at my parents house. cause there are times that my hubby goes to work on sunday.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
29 Aug 12
Hi, I always feel boring, too, especially my summer holidays are not over yet. Every day I have enough time of my own, I don't need to work. So I watch movies online or I download some movies and copy them in my cellphone, I watch these movies, lying on bed. I really feel not boring anymore because I have many interesting movies to watch, I even don't want to cook for the family, but at the same time I found my eye sight got worse than before.
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• Philippines
29 Aug 12
I could imagine you're probably using a really nice cellphone. When it comes to cooking, maybe you could order by phone in fine restaurants to deliver fast lunch and dinner. When the bill comes and your husband looks for the person who gives that suggestion, don't expect me to be around :D Sorry to hear about your eyesight...I hope it gets better.
• United States
29 Aug 12
When life seems dull to me I usually go online and look for a good book to read. I have an e reader and you can download the first chapter of a book free. I go looking to see if there are any must have reads out there. I usually can find one and will spend my time reading a new good book.