@tsingorchid on myLot

moshishibie @moshishibie (252) • China 6 Sep 12

Today my girl friend very serious said to me that she do not want to live with my mother after marriage ?I want to know why?who can tell me ?

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tsingorchid That is a common phenomenon in modern society. Sometimes it's a difficult problem for a girl to live with her mother-in-low, because she should get along with a women who isn't her mum as her mother. Although they will be memebers of one family subjectively,...

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leateagee @leateagee (3667) • China 6 Sep 12

I plan to have a quiet afternoon here in the office. Then as I was beginning to start the tasks I have to accomplish someone came and ask me something. After awhile, someone just said hi then related a little about her day. In an...

talk to people

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tsingorchid There some possible reasons I can guess by noticing the people around me. The most common cause of this phenomenon is that you are a kind or humour women so that others enjoyed talking to you. Another reason may be that you behave excellently which make others...

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Ley @dsw313 (320) • Philippines 5 Sep 12

If only.. But that's not possible isn't it? If ever we have the chance to bring it back? what would you do? For me, I should be very careful with my decisions, sometimes I am too weak making a good one, especially when it comes to...

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tsingorchid Many people want to go back to change something, however, it's impossible and dispensable in my opinion. Maybe you want to correct what you have done wrong, which can happen if you can go back, but every makes mistakes while young and all your errors buid...

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prasanta @prasanta (1948) • India 5 Sep 12

The thought processes are different in males and females. I think sometimes we need inspiration for fighting then we need males as friends. At other times when we seek peace and calmness we need females as friends.

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tsingorchid In my life, there is no significant difference between male friends and female firends, in which we help and communicate with each other. The diffrences are from the characteristics of every people, bring me different kinds of relationship which means...

5 Sep 12

shawon25 @shawon25 (49) • Bangladesh 4 Sep 12

Are you know two types people are happy in this world . 1) those people which one don't thing what will be happen next day and 2) others are who have more money but in legal way and having no pending on account . And other are...

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tsingorchid There is happiness, difficulties, grieved time in my life, which, however, I enjoyed. Hard work fill my life, bring me challenge and achievement.The excited or sad mood make my everyday life colorful. Otherwise, I spend the time after work to do what I am...

5 Sep 12

ARIES1973 @ARIES1973 (11426) • Legaspi, Philippines 3 Sep 12

We are on our last two weeks in this place. There are still things to be done as part of our required outputs. Everyone is busy. I am happy that I am about to finish this training in a few days. With all the obstacles that I was...

job

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tsingorchid I am infected by your positive attitude , as well as your grateful heart. That sounds incentive that you make full use of your time everyday. Your words is a gust of fresh wind blowing into the boring life. I believe that your active life and energetic work...

4 Sep 12

jingjingxiongmao @jingjingxiongmao (4) • China 4 Sep 12

if lover is gone, don't be defeated! I cry when the picture showing rose enjoy everything jack had described: riding a hose. some people think rose has forgotten jack, they just can't accept rose is so happy without jack. what do...

titanic rose jack

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tsingorchid Rose never forget Jack, because 'Enjoying what you have once done, travelling in where you have once gone, and living as the way you want, means that we will still live together forever.'At the ending of the movie, Rose realize the life as Jack has told her,...

4 Sep 12

rubyroy @rubyroy (824) • India 4 Sep 12

Without travel you are like a frog in a small pond.Your ideas will never go beyond your community and their lifestyle.As you grow you will become more conservative regarding other cultures and location.There will be no growth...

expand

outlook

restrict

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tsingorchid I can't approve of your idea more. In the past, I was not interested in travelling, because tour means that you go to some different palces where many people travel, and take some pictures then come back, except which I cannot get anything else meaningful. But...

4 Sep 12

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Juliyan23 @Juliyan23 (600) • Indonesia 4 Sep 12

I woke up this morning with my head full-filled by many ideas . Cooking - Life - myLot - Education - Health - etc. I have so much to share , aaannnndddddd it's gooonnee! =D I've just killed so many ideas I had just been...

ideas

typo

writing

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tsingorchid That sounds like a kind of delay, the reason of which is that you want to complete everything perfectly. So you consider too much, prepare too much, and hesitate too long to begin to write. It waste you time to think about which one should be done first, which...

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missjahn @missjahn (4574) • Philippines 3 Sep 12

sometimes your heart would say, you want to do this. and apparently, your mind would somehow opposed that no, it should be and do this. for example, a person might want to buy an expensive jewelry but it is not the most important...

thought and feeling split differently

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tsingorchid As my experience tell me, the message from heart is apt to make yourself comfortable, in your life and siprit, however, the mind thinking always preventing the temporary enjoying from what you should do, which is usually responsibility from reality. The mind...

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betterdays @BetterDays4Me (3777) • Philippines 31 Aug 12

You probably know this song where it says "to dream the impossible dream" and in the end "to reach the unreachable star". I forgot the title of this song but it is very very popular ( I think it is entitled "The Impossible Dream"...

dream

impossible

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tsingorchid I have heard that success is an unusual thing which need your uncommon hard-work. So impossible dream will come true if you try your best to do what others are impossible to do. Some may appear only in your sleep, more can be true in the life. I have a dream...

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bondali919 @bondali919 (118) • Canada 2 Sep 12

The father has a very major rule to perform in the family. It is the duty of the father to cloth,feed,provide shelter for the wife and the children. It is his duty to make sure that he always see to it that, the wife and the...

good father

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tsingorchid A father is the economic support first, and the model of behavior secondly, the habor of every member at last. All the children even the wife need is applied by father. In a family, the performance of the father affects the children deeply, so he is the...

2 Sep 12

besweet @besweet (9859) • Ireland 2 Sep 12

Having control of our lives means that we need to take a lot of choices for ourselves! Having to choose for our future is difficult because when we et to make the choice we also have full responsibility for the consequences. I try...

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tsingorchid Sometimes there is a thought in our mind: It has been better if I chose the opposite at that time? However, we all cannot know how it will become if the other choice was taken, which may bring worse ending. So donot have a meaningless suspect, just face your...

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velentina @velentina (891) • Mauritius 2 Sep 12

Sometimes you have to help a friend in difficulty. But when these friends forgets you when they are well-off then you feel really hurt. I have a friend who once took money from me when she was going to work abroad. I told her not...

money

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tsingorchid In my life, I always make it clear to both how much money you want and when you return it to me, because any vague in money between friends is possible to produce gaps. If he is difficult indeed, the money cannot be returned, however, all of which must be...

2 Sep 12

alidaim786 @alidaim786 (4) 2 Sep 12

smoke is not good for the health becox smoke damage a liver and affected for your kidney so kindly dont smoke becox smoke is very bad for health !.......

smoke

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tsingorchid Smoking a bad habbit that everybody know. Otherwise, because of your smoke, it is disgusting to let others have to breath in the secondhand smoke, which may be more harmful according to the research. So one should prevent themselves from smoking as possible as...

2 Sep 12

alidaim786 @alidaim786 (4) 2 Sep 12

Give me a way of enjoy life what m enjoy my life !.....

enjoy life

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tsingorchid Do what you like, and enjoy what you do. If cannot do either, discover and develop something you interested in after your job. Or, you may try to chanllenge yourself, which is ,I think, must be excited.

2 Sep 12

tsingorchid @tsingorchid (39) • China 2 Sep 12

Having forgotten from which day, I began to easily lose my temper, which often make me feel regretful later.Sometimes just a trivial matter could instantaneously light the fire in my heart, that is becoming hotter and hotter if...

books

temper

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tsingorchid @tsingorchid (39) • China 30 Aug 12

I'm always upset with my awful performance in formal occassions. However hard I practice myself, once standing before people, there's only little thing left in my mind, as a consequiece I just could say something incoherently.My...

logic thinking

practice

speak

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tsingorchid Thank you for your sincere encouragement. In the following, I will watch the movie "The King's Speech", which may be helpful to me. Thanks again, excellent man!

30 Aug 12

tsingorchid @tsingorchid (39) • China 30 Aug 12

I'm always upset with my awful performance in formal occassions. However hard I practice myself, once standing before people, there's only little thing left in my mind, as a consequiece I just could say something incoherently.My...

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tsingorchid What you questioned awake me, after thinking clearly, I arrest the key problem of me. I always persue of perfect myself, as a consequece, I am often dissatisfied with my work, which,I think, make me feel inconfident with my preparation everytime. The...

30 Aug 12

tsingorchid @tsingorchid (39) • China 30 Aug 12

I'm always upset with my awful performance in formal occassions. However hard I practice myself, once standing before people, there's only little thing left in my mind, as a consequiece I just could say something incoherently.My...

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tsingorchid I'm appreciated that you spare your own experience with me. Indeed, I once had the similar problem with you, improving it later, which I think may be never solved thoroughly. I get a appropriate method by your story, in which I treat myself as the one to help...

30 Aug 12

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