heart desire is too much different from you mind's logical thinking sometimes
By missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
Philippines
September 3, 2012 9:57am CST
sometimes your heart would say, you want to do this. and apparently, your mind would somehow opposed that no, it should be and do this. for example, a person might want to buy an expensive jewelry but it is not the most important thing for her to buy and that she needs to go to the supermarket to have something to eat for her family. in that kind of situation, good for her that she had let her heart ruled over by her mind by choosing the second option to do (shopping for necessities. even from her heart have this kind of feeling of wanting a thing like of thus jewels.
let us reverse the situation. you love the guy much but you did not gave in because you thought that the guy is just playing at you. so, there is no love story to be told because of your wrong thought pertaining to the guy. from your mind then telling you what to feel.
there were many times that my heart's desire and thought's logical and radical thinking had clashed. i mean, my heart would say, i want to see and to be with my boyfriend. but because sometimes he is busy, i cannot do what i want. it irritated me for i will admit that i am a little bossy and i am spoiled brat just for him. but it made sense for the reasons that me, myself have something important else to do like making my assignments, research, projects in school. if we will just stare with one another throughout the day
, i could not finish what i needed to finish. to say, it is one of my priorities in life, to finish schooling and to have a good job thereafter.
there are really things in life that you need to be prioritized and that if you will listen to your heart alone, sometimes your first goal has stoppage because, radically and logically, your heart's dictations have a great difference from doing the right thing from what you felt in your heart. also, wrong expectations and belief would affect the person's feelings, enough to be a restraint not do the thing correctly and triumphantly. how many of us would say, that - if i just listened to my heart or if thinking things in a balance way, i should not have any failures in life now. but we all knew that regretting comes after doing a mistakes. so better use your heart and brain and weigh things more before doing or believing it.
what about you, had your thoughts and feelings split differently? and who won, your heart's desire or your brain's logical thinking? thanks
, i could not finish what i needed to finish. to say, it is one of my priorities in life, to finish schooling and to have a good job thereafter.
there are really things in life that you need to be prioritized and that if you will listen to your heart alone, sometimes your first goal has stoppage because, radically and logically, your heart's dictations have a great difference from doing the right thing from what you felt in your heart. also, wrong expectations and belief would affect the person's feelings, enough to be a restraint not do the thing correctly and triumphantly. how many of us would say, that - if i just listened to my heart or if thinking things in a balance way, i should not have any failures in life now. but we all knew that regretting comes after doing a mistakes. so better use your heart and brain and weigh things more before doing or believing it.
what about you, had your thoughts and feelings split differently? and who won, your heart's desire or your brain's logical thinking? thanks1 person likes this
4 responses
@yiart65 (146)
• Singapore
4 Sep 12
Yupps, agree with you. I guess it depends on each individual situation. At times, we tend to let our emotions override us but the outcome wouldn't be good. So, we need to learn how to prioritise the things in life. Sometimes, I feel the same as you but in different scenario. For example, liking someone whom I know is not compatible but you let your emotions take over and refuse to give up. I know it's bad but somehow you just can't force yourself to give up. This is a situation where emotions take control but not having any good outcome.
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@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
oh yeah.. sometimes not to get hurt, we are following on what our heart might saying. because the pleasure if succeed with the dictation of our heart is priceless, inspite and despite of the radical thinking our mind is dictating us. yes, right that even we have been hurt badly, we cannot dare to give up the person because we cannot think the pain upon loosing him and cannot see him again for someone owned him already. that is why we are living in life full of lies.
thanks for joining in here :)
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
3 Sep 12
you have written a lengthy paragraph. good. nicely written.
In nut shell it amounts to our adjusting with others or making others adjust with us. sometimes we adjust. sometimes others adjust, that is good.
adamancy is to be avoided, 
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@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
hi there sir ravi ") thanks for the compliments
oh yes, i should stop being dominant, and started being an understandable person, well at least with others, i am making myself to be nicer. but if with my bf, i will feel upset if i cannot get what i wanted from him. so bad of me. 
. i did this because of all persons in the world, he is one i trusted and depend upon. and that i cannot act with anyone i barely know myself.
by then, you are right for most of the time - to avoid conflict, adjustments must be needed in oneself and so humility as well. thanks thanks thanks again
. i did this because of all persons in the world, he is one i trusted and depend upon. and that i cannot act with anyone i barely know myself.
by then, you are right for most of the time - to avoid conflict, adjustments must be needed in oneself and so humility as well. thanks thanks thanks again
@freedang (320)
• China
3 Sep 12
hi..
yeah,you are right,and everytime i meet those situations i would tell myself that after all,human are emotional animal.
love can never explained by logical.everytime i feel heartache i will tell myself that it is meaningless to do that,but it is useless.
hehehe,that is the reason that we still love someone
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
hi there... sometimes what we felt won over the race of confusion. we follow our heart even we do not know the consequence after doing what we felt doing. that is why many of us failed. but if the two senses would tag along, i mean, think what to do first and then feel it if what you are going to do is right, i guess, a little success takes its place. so thanks for dropping here
@tsingorchid (39)
• China
4 Sep 12
As my experience tell me, the message from heart is apt to make yourself comfortable, in your life and siprit, however, the mind thinking always preventing the temporary enjoying from what you should do, which is usually responsibility from reality. The mind thinking comes from considering of your certain condition, which may benefit your future as a long time interest, while the heart satisfy your impulse on comfort. The two may be contradictory sometimes, but if you can adjust yourself in the two thoughts, it will be harmonious, because mind thinking controls the rule of life going strictly, while heart desire is a lubricant. Whether it brings struggling or restraining, it gives right direction and I'm enjoyed in it.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
right at that - these two should go hand in hand to have a desirable output. but sometimes we are giving much weigh to what we felt and gave in just to make ourselves happy. and yeah right, there would be times that what you felt is different from what your mind is dictating you. either way of the two; your feeling and intuition - listen to every detail of it then make a decision on which is right and what is to be done correctly.
thanks for joining in here :) God bless
