would you keep a relationship with someone in the videochat business?

At times some one can be doing something and do not think what he is doing is wrong, so since he never told you and you finally got to know it, just advice him that what he has been hidden from you, you now know it and you don't like it and if he don't stop it, it can cause the divorce of your marriage and if still he continue that way, then you can call it divorce.

My opinion is biased as I am a model in that business. Many people keep it from new partners for awhile. There are many reasons for this. Society judges alot and if you tell every person you have a few dates with they tell their friends and your whole town knows. Also, its for safety. If the guy gets mad at you they can come into your work chat and tell all your real info (name, own, ect) and that can be very dangerous for you. Most models date someone a year before they tell. Does it change how you feel about him? If so talk to him about it.

nope. you should dump him. it means he can't commit to you because of his....profession.....

i dont know. i guess i would need him to explain to me why he was in that business. cause models in cams have to show their body and do some things right? i would feel bad about it cause i wouldnt like my bf to be doing that with other people. i dont know also if i could trust him cause he didnt tell me right away. he could had ask my opinion first. when you are single you can do anything you want. but in a relationship if you do that kind of business you should ask your lover if he is ok with it. so i think i wouldnt be able to continue the relationship. unless he stopped working in that right away after i find it out maybe i could give him a second chance. but im not sure. and sure if he continued that business i wouldnt be with him any longer. i think that cam models should be single people. or people that have open relationships. cause if you are in a relationship is very hard for your lover to accept this situation.

I think we need to be calm and don't judge to a conclusion to busted someone. We need to clarify things, what made him do it?