What does it take to finally Enjoy life?

If you know how it feels to be really poor, to be alone, nobody will help you, if the world stabs you in the back, if people betray you and abuse you and find it normal, if you get out of this mess and discover the only thing you need is you. Just yourself. If you are strong, can manage yourself, then you enjoy life.

You are the one who can create your own world to enjoy life. You can control the things you wanted in your life. Try to reflect, you will find the desire from your heart.

What does it take? You have to DECIDE that you are going to enjoy it. If you haven't then you never are truly happy. When you decide that you are going to enjoy life, then you enjoy nearly everything, even the bad things, because you know without the bad things, you never really appreciate the good ones.

If you never expect more than you have and are thankful for what life gives you, especially when you notice those less fortunate than you, then your life will be enjoyable. If you go through life thinking that the grass is greener on the other side, you might well be disappointed when/if you ever get to cross the fence

It is much about taking part in life. Find something you enjoy and take part in it. The taking part is perhaps the most important part of life. You can sit on the sidelines and look at the things that other people have accomplished then in your old age lament about how life passed you by; the truth is though that you allowed it to pass you by. It is almost impossible to say "I haven't seen much in this life". You will have experiences that are unique to you. You do not have to know all the answers. It is about living life. There are no excuses - you only have one life to live and you have to experience it. It is true that not everything is for you. This is true for everybody; it is what makes us, each individual, unique; what works for me does not work for you no matter what you decide to do, the truth is we have to find our own path. When you are young it is important to learn and understand. Yet at a certain point it is necessary to forge your own path. It is true that you continue to learn and adjust during the course of your life, but the very thing that matters is struggling through life's challenges and finding your own identity and making that uniquely you. Some people take part in a form of hero worship, they latch on to things said by certain influential people and take these as the one and only true path to follow. Trouble is they are not forging their own path, they are not bringing their own talents to bear. This means they can only be destined to follow, not become a shining star.