"The past is where you learned the lesson"
By prashu
@prashu228 (37524)
India
August 29, 2012 2:24pm CST
hello friends,
I often think about the mistakes i did in the past, whether it may in choosing friends, impulsive behavior which hurted my near ones and many more, which i feel i wouldn't have done it, and really i learn't a lot from my past. As they say "the past is where you learned the lesson, the future is where you apply the lesson , don't give up in the middle", friends what do you think , please your views and add some more
23 responses
@STOUTjodee (3573)
• United States
29 Aug 12
"That's what life is all about... learning from your mistakes."If you don't learn from you're mistakes, "history will repeat itself." Another saying and my favorite, "Every thing happens for a reason", when you make a mistake you learn from it and that can effect other decisions in your life.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
29 Aug 12
yes, we should always remember the lesson ,which we learned from the past, it helps us, in making our foundation strong, and a better person
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
29 Aug 12
yes, mistakes should never be repeated in life, which effects our future, i also say doing a mistake is not a mistake at all, but learning nothing from the mistake is a mistake in life.
@Inderjeetkaur (944)
• India
31 Aug 12
Absolutely right... Every person commits some mistake at one point of time or another. It is so because life doesn't come with guidelines. People who learn lesson from their past and determine not to repeat them in future are good learners. Realization of mistake is very important, but equally important is the wisdom to not repeat it in future.
Whenever I do something wrong and realize it, I make sure not to repeat it. Also there are things which I have learnt from other people's experience and I take care not to commit those mistakes myself.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
1 Sep 12
yes , no one is perfect and mistakes does happen, knowingly or unknowingly, but we should always move further with the lesson.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
Yes, our past is always related to our present and future. Without our past experiences, whether good or bad, we can't look forward to our future. We always get our confidence from the mistakes and achievements we've made. We are ready to face our future because of our past. However, there are some experiences that we'd like to bury in the past and wouldn't want to be remembered. LOL. Happy mylotting.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
1 Sep 12
yes nothing is in our hands actually, we should be ready to face any situation in life when ever it comes
@marguicha (223776)
• Chile
29 Aug 12
I agree that our past experiences teach us to deal better with our present and hopefully with our future. If fact I think that the only place where we can apply lessons is in our present as we dom`t know what our future will bring.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
31 Aug 12
yes, dont know about future , and we can apply what ever we want only in our present, from what ever we learned from the past, life is a journey, we should go on and everyday is a learning experience
@Trustyguy (69)
• Thailand
30 Aug 12
Hello prashu!
I often think about my mistakes too. I think mistakes which we did in our past help us to do right things in our present and be confident about the future! The past is an experience and every experience (good or bad ) helps us to make our life much better. As for me I don't regret about anything I did in the past. It made me stronger and more careful!!!
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
31 Aug 12
absolutely true, we should learn from our past and move further in life, we can never change the past
@carlfrancisregala (95)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
Indeed. Just like the old saying, experience is the best teacher. At first, we really hate bumps in our life but as time pass by, it'll be one good lesson to us. Every bumps on our journey will only mold us to be a better person, so let's not give up when they come. Optimism will help us on those events.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
1 Sep 12
yes no one like bumps, but we cant ignore them too, that's the truth of life, only we can is learn the lesson and go further
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
30 Aug 12
Hi prashu, We have all made mistakes but it's important that we forgive ourselves and move on. Many of us have a more difficult time forgiving ourselves than we do forgiving others but it should not be that way. As you say, learn from the past but I would apply the lesson today because that is how we create a better future. Blessings.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
I do agree with that... The past should be the time that you learn the lesson and you should never repeat it in the future, or it'll just be a worthless lesson if you do the same mistake over and over again.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
29 Aug 12
prashu:
good point. we always learn from past experience. some experience will make us wise. But in a few cases we cannot undo easily.
For example joining a company -- if we commit error in taking a wrong company and come out of it without much blame on our part fine. otherwise it may spoil our reputation.
similarly choosing your life partner--again this depends on luck to some extent -- if we make a wrong decision life will be spoilt and rectifying that is very tough. I know many boys become 'devadas" after falling in love and making a wrong choice.
be careful. select good friends.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
31 Aug 12
yes, experiences play a vital role is everyone's life, not only life partner and company there are many more things , from which we learn,selection of friends also play a role.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
29 Aug 12
Yes i feel that whatever has happened in the past should be left as it is. We should think of a new beginning and how to make our future safe and secure. Thinking about the past in some cases might cheer you up but in some cases it might come hard. What say?
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
29 Aug 12
yes , there is nothing we can do , about the past, only to learn from it, and move further, in life,is the best thing we can do
@Gracia2010 (282)
• Thailand
29 Aug 12
Experience is the best teacher! That perfectly states that, everything you are in right now success or good things was because you learn many things from your past experience, whether it is good or bad. Yes, there is no body perfect in the world as everyone commits mistakes but we can also learn with other people experience and serve it as a prevention for any unpleasant circumstances.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
31 Aug 12
yes definitely experience is the best teacher, we should learn from our mistakes, and never commit them again, past is past, never ever should think of it, but should learn the lesson and never forget it, yes , there are so many people around us, from whom we can learn many things in our daily life, should never leave any opportunity which will help us to make things better in life.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
30 Aug 12
Hi friend, you are right, we can learn a lot of things from our past,. our past lessons are our experience in our life, we can forget about past, but never forget the lessons you learned from the past, they are your guides
@41CombedaleRoad (5954)
• Greece
30 Aug 12
The saying 'you can't put a wise head on young shoulders' is true and one that older people quote, often about their children. Of course we are sorry that we must sometimes watch young people make the same mistakes as we did, but we didn't listen to our parents and they don't listen to us. Well not very often. However the good side is that a lesson learned the hard way is not easily forgotten.
@happyblack123 (17)
• China
30 Aug 12
there is no such a person who is perfect,if you want to grow up,you must make some mistakes.The key to it is that we must learn from the mistakes,when you meet with the same situations,you can void it.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
The past is what has made you to become what you are now and what you will become in the future. The mistakes you have made serve as pillars of strength for you to hold on to and become a much better person.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
30 Aug 12
I couldn't agree more and you are right that we can learn from the past no matter it is good or bad experience, that's the lesson that everybody should take during their personal development. And this sentence definitely suitable for people to realize.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
30 Aug 12
Hi,
You are right. We can learn from our past mistakes how to tackle the problems today for the betterment of future. We cannot change our past but we should not make the mistake again which is done in the past,
@blinjk (617)
• United States
30 Aug 12
Mistakes will make us learn and be more mature. This teaches us a lesson that will make us a better person,choose the right directions and not to make the same mistakes again. We should learn from every experience that we encounter for us to have a better life.