Chubby or skinny?
By challs12
@challs12 (548)
Malaysia
September 3, 2012 8:09am CST
Hi friends,
I have read a lot about women or ladies talking about how too loose weight. They are very serious when talking about it. They even willing to spend most of their earning just to by slimming stuff like pills, exercise equipment etc. For me, if I see a women at weight about 60 kgs, they look just fine in my eyes. I mean like chubby I really like women like this instead of skinny (you only feel the bone). But they don't feel comfortable with that average of weight. When they wake up or when they back from office, they will look at the mirror and try to pinch out that fat from their body. I think chubby is better than skinny. What do you say?
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8 responses
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
I guess not all men want slim women. We can see some couples with chubby partners and they are proud of them. They don't want too skinny women. Happy mylotting.
@chuchaibugoy (79)
•
4 Sep 12
To all chubby or skinny just be yourself and be happy as long you find yourself
comfortable and have self-confidence. If not, its not too late try to do something which you cannot spend big amount of money and at the end it would be fruitful and you feel you reach your goal to be physically fit and healthy. To myself i have to disciple my eating and tried to run at least one hour everyday and even participated fun run and do dancing just in my room. Join me Now! and have fun...
@narnia007 (1050)
• India
4 Sep 12
I would say that chubby is better than looking skinny.Because skinny makes someone look unhealthy,tired rather than giving them a fresh and appealing look.Sometimes,even looking at them makes us lose our enthusiasm and feel empathetic towards them.It appears as though they are deprived of food.I would want my partner or my children looking healthy and fresh and thus to be a little chubby and not too fat.Happy mylotting.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
I have always been the chubby side since I was a kid. I tried losing weight when i gained about 40 pounds after birth. I thought I look good coz I get to wear a lot of great clothes. But when I looked at myself real well, I looked old and haggard. And so now i just maintain my weight at around 60kgs. It is not the ideal weight for my height, but I am happy the way I am now.
@challs12 (548)
• Malaysia
5 Sep 12
60 kgs is a range of chubby. But you cannot exceed it if your height less than 5'5". But if you taller than that, you gain some more weights without worry.
Another thing, you must accept yourself as you are, then only your lover will accept you as what you are. :)
@blinjk (617)
• United States
3 Sep 12
I mostly hear that most men like chubby ladies but most ladies like to be slim.I am a bit chubby and my boyfriend always tells me to reduce and lose some weight.I always tell him that it is hard to be reduce but I also have taken slimming teas and pills.It worked at first but when I stopped, I am chubby again. Losing weight is so hard.
@challs12 (548)
• Malaysia
3 Sep 12
My opinion, you try what ever you can but don't exceed the limit. Cause at the end if you fail, you still have the answer to calm yourself, this is me, why bother what people look or say. Right?
About your bf, if he really loves you, then he will accept you as what you are. That's true love is. Chubby is always pretty.
@vanessa11 (296)
• Philippines
3 Sep 12
Before,I don't like eating too much (breakfast, lunch and dinner is enough and no more) but lately I eat too much when I am with my bf. We used to eat a lot like when we are done with lunch next would be cakes or biscuits and even pizzas.
My colleagues used to tell me that my I maintain a good shape but now :/ from eating too much I have these baby fats (although I like it because my cheeks looks cuter (O^_^O) haha)
But I guess in the end, Im fine with skinny or even if I become chubby as long as my bf loves me no matter what tehehehe.
@challs12 (548)
• Malaysia
3 Sep 12
I think there's something too much right in your relationship vanessa. It's seems like it makes you are happy in your life that's why you feel like to eat and eat. Well, when people happy, their appetite to eat will grow.
Yeah you got the point there, what ever you are, if he loves you, he must accept you as what you are. But chubby is pretty. :)
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
I also like chubby people. I am a bit skinny so I admire chubby people. They look cute for me. I hope they won't be that conscious. They look fine. It's hard for me to gain weight. I hope we could exchange bodies. LOL. Happy mylotting.
@mac0308 (24)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
I was skinny before, it was ok but i wanted to gain weight. Now i gained weight i wanna lose it but some of it only. I dont wanna go back to the old skinny me but i want to lose the excess fats i have. You know, it has something to do with pleasing yourself by being able to wear all the clothes that you want and eat all the foods that you crave.
For me i want to be in the middle, not too skinny, not too fat. But actually as long as you are healthy, who cares?