Betrayal of trust and love has caused hurt in the family.

In our lives, there is always some flaw in relationships to other people. Some friends will remain loyal and others will betray you. Eventually, they might our worst enemy.

After every action that a person perform that we might preceive to be a 'betrayal' of sorts, the first thing we always do is ask 'why?' I think we need to dig into this 'why?' A bit deeper before labeling the person a backstabber. Especially if this person is someone who is close to us. So best is to ask the person directly why they did whatever it is they did first and clear out any misuderstandings. This will give you a clear picture as to whether he/she did backstab you or he/she did it for your own good.

I have a perfect example for this, and this is about my father, who have broken my trust - the trust of his family because he has actually left us for another woman. What kind of a man in his right mind would go for a woman he barely knew and leave his 3 kids and wife who stood by him for about 16 years? Well that is my father. The thing is we were never able to talk more about this anymore since he left us and after he told us he is already choosing this woman over us - who looked up to him as our father. =( i guess we will never really know about it anymore. God is wonderful and he has been really great and supportive and is forever showing his grace to us. I just think that this is perfect betrayal of trust and it was never, nor will it ever be regained. I think Life is always like that and we can never really be with perfect parents... but we should at least try to appreciate what our parent/s is trying to show us when or while they are still able. if effort is there, i believe that everything will be put in its right place... =)

if someone does bad to us, we definitely, will hate that person, but first you need to find out the reason why she did that. if she has a valid reason for that... than may be she can be forgiven.

betrayal between Child and parent is bit complex to digest. But to my knowledge parents never betray their children. But some times they hide the pain that they have to make us to have a peaceful mind for our studies. Try to make out why your parents betrayed. Probably the reason will be a valid one! Just understand them so that it never happens again! Happy lotting!