Sometimes we cannot avoid hurting the one we love (-_-)

hi jai, Until now I can't believe to what happened it was so fast and it's sad that after two years she will be back home because of this reason I know she really need a friend now aside from her family how I wish I can be with here.

Hey, Yes its true sometimes you have to hurt your loved ones, but you can't help it. Sometimes its some truth you have to tell them and sometimes for their good you have to lie to them. But you hurt them intentionally only when you you know you can't do anything or you want to be happy . Life is very strange and but one thing is for sure no one ever hurt his/her loved ones intentionally for when he/she has another choice.

yes she would be hurt but she definitely would want to know. if this news is kept from her the pain that she would feel will be doubled

This reminded me of the song, why do we always hurt the ones we love. Anyway, it's really difficult to break such a sad and tragic news to the ones you love because you only want to protect them from getting hurt. But there's no other way but to do it. Such a difficult task.

Truth hurts but truth sets us free , the longer truth be hidden the more pain it will be . She deserve to know everything. And it will be painful , expect that at first she will deny for dads lost but later on she will learn to accept it.

It hurts to say goodbyes! this was my son told me just a minute ago when i arrived from work. He asked his uncle whom he nursed for almost seven months to leave now from their homes. according to him he shed tears when he left their homes because He'll be missing them especially Tita and all members of the family who is very kind to him. He'll be missing them together in going to church every Sunday, their tsikahan, working together in their backyard driving them wherever they wanted to go and all their memorable bondings But, he has to move on, apply be exposed to any situation to practiced his profession. Just this morning I received a call asking me to inform my son to report to the hospital he applied for work, for orientation tomorrow. It is really an opportunity to work in the hospital. So, he has to sacrifice even he know it is hurting for both of my son and the family because of their rapport which they have developed among them. Thanks God for the honest feelings of my son which he shared on me. I pity him. Just offer them all to God and have trust in Him son.. that's all I said.. God bless you son! on your next endeavor...

If we hurt the loved one then real love ones generally don't matter as they generally understand. Yes but there are certain situations when we have to hurt our loved ones for their good and I think it is not at all bad. Rather than something worst happening to our loved ones it is better to hurt them.

Oh that must be painful on her part... and yes i do have to agree, as i sometimes also hurt the people i love and i do not mean any of it.

Jai sis, indeed it is the most difficult situation when come to hurting the feeling of the ones that we love and cherish. I remembered that when my grandfather of my father side had passed away, my uncle take a day to think and at last have the gut to informed my father about it. It really shocked my father and had made my father feeling down and moody for a few weeks. Because my father was so close to his father when he was still young. sometimes, it is unavoidable to hurt the feeling of our love ones. Hope by now, Bhaby and yours' friend had managed to settle and overcome this problem. Hope that friend of both of you not feeling very down by this matter.

Your informing someone because of bad news is really that difficult. Yet it is still ones duty to do so and you may not know that keeping it a secret might result in putting you in a negative aspect.

We can't avoid to hurt someone we love, we can hurt them not because we don't love them but it's because situation leads us to do it. Another thing is that sometimes the more we care about not hurting them unfortunately the more we hurt them. It's because we are human and sometimes we have differences and these differences would be the cause of hurting someone we love. In this situation that you've shared I think we can't avoid hurting our loved one but at least it's not because of our own will but it's the will of the fate.

In times like this, the support system should be intact. There are some instances that we lost somebody, but it doesn't mean that the world will end. My deepest condolences to you and your dearest friend.

There are times that we find ourselves in a situation like that and we really do not know if we can tell it or not to the one we love.We sometimes think that we cannot tell it because we really do not want to hurt them.When we love someone,we are just like in their situation and imagine the pain that might hurt them.I also do that too, sometimes because I really love that person. I really do not want to see them cry or be in that such painful situation.

We can't avoid hurting the one we love in daily for mang things can't be changed.What we can do is to make our love less painful

yes in situations like that it is true, we don't like to hear bad news but we have to hear it. Sometimes people decide not to deliver bad news to a friend or family member and that hurts the friend or family member even more.

Hi jaiho: Yes, it's hard but it's better to be honest with the person you love even if that means that you have to make him/her feel hurt. Lying always have bad consequences specially with important subjects. And we can't always avoid pain. ALVARO

It is not a matter of hurting but informing.. Hurting is when you mislead for gains..

Sometimewe have to heart someone for there good. So u don't have to feel bad as it is said we hurt the person we luv the most . If we hurt the person for there good so it is not bad at all.

You are right jaiho. We really cannot avoid hurting the one we love once in a while. But if it means telling the truth like in the case of bhaby to her younger sister, though she will be hurt of the bad news it is totally justified. What is not justifiable is that when you hurt your loved ones because of wrongdoing done against them.

hi can you tell me what is wanted to do if your lover hurt you so much for a small region or no region.