Once a cheater, always a cheater

I think that people can change. It's not an easy thing to do but it can be done. I think that I would perhaps forgive the person if they cheated on me. I say that now but I haven't been in a situation to where I would have to make that decision. My feelings may change if I were in that situation.

Everybody deserves second chance, not only second but third, fourth..... But of course we should not take advantage of the chances that we have. We don't have the right not to forgive despite the fact that we are bleeding inside. God forgives us so we can learn to forgive others. It's been said in the bible that we have to forgive seventy times seven not in one year but in a day. Yet, there are things that we should put into consideration and that is not to take advantage on it. If we commit mistake seventy times seven and not the same then it's okay but if we commit same mistakes over and over again then that's a different story. Chances is always there but we should not take advantage on it for there are a lot of chances but there is only few time. With regards to the title once cheater, always a cheater I am sorry to say that I disagree with this idea. If you are a cheater today; I believe that you can be a loyal person tomorrow for their is always a chance to change.

You are correct if any one cheated someone once then some sort of STAMP gets on that person. And even if that person try to lead a good life the society does not allow to do so. But there is no harm to give any one another chance to lead a good life

totally true...of course there are few exceptions I didn;t get cheated on untill now ( at least not that I know of) but I don't think I could forgieve the cheater. or no..better said I could forgieve him but I couldn't forget what he did. I don't think I could thrust that person ever again because if he was capable to cheat on me than it shows how much he cared for me and what I feel for him now about starting a relationship with someone who has a reputation of a cheater...I guess I would try to get to know that person better. of course it's said that you can't get to know a person well not even in a million years but still you could realise after spending some time with that person a few things about his/her personality. and if I like it than I guess I would take the risk. who knows...

Based on my experience in my past relationship I agree with this saying, although I gave him second and third chances but he never change and continue to cheated on me. I am glad that after a many cheating incident I woke up and realized that he is not worth it and don't deserved my love. Now that I am married, my husband experienced to be cheated too like me and i know that he will never cheat one because of the painful experienced that we have been through in the past relationship.

It's so hard to answer this question. But for me, giving chances to another person would be too hard. I think it depends upon the person whom I will give the chance. If I have a tight emotional attachment to that person, maybe I could give him or her a chance for our relationship to work out, but if I find that person easy to let go, I think I won't give any. I don't want to risk my emotions again to people who are not worth it with it. But still I don't know if what will happen if I'm really into the situation. :)

I do give second chances, Anyway, we are all sinners. If God can forgive us all over and over why can't us? anyway. Forgetting is a different topic. But I believe. It would heal through time and through love.

Some sayings, guys are polygamous in nature. I don't think you need to go for the second chances, it will be the third time, fourth time,etc. If you wanted that kind of life and accepted the fact. Then, go for it.