single!!!!
By shansavy
@shansavy (171)
Jamaica
8 responses
@olliekobra1 (1825)
•
23 Sep 12
i dont think that being single is all that bad i liked it because you can basically do what you want when you want so its good. Being in a relationship is nice because its nice to be loved.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
6 Sep 12
Think of all the things a single person can do that he/she could not do if they were married. A single person does not have to answer to any other human being. You can get an animal companion if you want one and not have to discuss it with your spouse. You can eat or not eat whatever pleases you. You can go where YOU want on your vacation, etc.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
4 Sep 12
Hey, I am still single, even though I been through a failure relationship, a terrible mistake I made I have to tell you that. Anyway, being single sometimes won't be so bad, you got your own freedom, and you won't have to worry the other - half feelings. Being yourself, and do whatever you want is your privilege too. So, actually, there are advantages and disadvantages to be single.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Sep 12
why should single be considered a bad thing? this status has it's good parts..you can do anything you want whenerver you want without thinking that you might hurt someone, you don;t have to give any explanation, there isn;t anyone that would question you, your telephone it's not getting checked for new messages by anyone except you and so on
but at the same time being single for too long could take you to desperation. how to avoid that? simply find other things to focus on...things that make you happy
I've been single for quite a while. single in the idea that I couldn;t establish a serious relationship. and now I"m with a guy but the problem is that I got used to being single so it gets me angry when he askes me all the time were I've been and so on
so being single has it's good parts
of course no one wants to be single forever
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Sep 12
Being single isn't that bad. It takes being with a person for awhile,or being married to come to realize that though. Unfortunately a lot of us dread being single when we are in that position. But later we start to appreciate how good things were when we didn't have the stresses and anxieties of a relationship. I think a person should enjoy the opportunities that present themselves when they are single. They will be thankful that they did later on.
@katieMaldita (14)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
Being single is not bad. You should enjoy the time while you are still single because once you get married, everything will change and would be different.
@prasanta (1948)
• India
4 Sep 12
Spiritually speaking, everything is 'Maya.' If you are a part of the creation, then how can you be aloof or single? You are always a part of many. Think that.
Go to temples,churches -- if you like. Go to theaters to watch films. Join a health club, do exercise -- if that gives you peace.
Nothing is bad or good. These are all false creations of weak minds.
@mrsroxas (78)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
I'm married but I think being single is still a great thing! Don't worry too much about not having a boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't rush. Enjoy your life being free of commitment for now. Maybe you can travel the world, do anything that you please. You don't need permission to party. You can spend your own money without the need to consult another person. There are a lot of things that you could do. You are free in the first place :)