Have you ever returned a gift/Did you ever think of sending it back ? xxx

hi jai, So are you planning to return the house, the car and the entertainment showcase to your EX , well I never did this because I believe a gift is a gift unless they send me a coffin I will return it maybe it will be more useful to them . Seriously speaking I have plans to return a gift to end everything it means I don't want to communicate or to see them in any cause I AM FEED UP already love yah

Hi Jai! No, I do not believe in returning any kind of gift (even if it is not of my choice). I do not feel like hurting the sentiments of the other person, who presented me the gift. I won't even return a gift sent by you.

Hi jai, Nope I will not, its a gift that I would certainly a treasure. As long she did not ask to return it I will not return it. I think its an insult for the one who gave it. Only immature people might do that.

Hi di I wont lie. I have returned a couple of gifts back to the ones who gifted those to me. On one occasion it was a breakup with a friend (ah, not those love affair or anywhere near it, he was a good friend who and I broke up because of his girlfriend) and then there was another occasion when I did not have any use of the item which was gifted and as its size was big (monetary) I thought to return it so that the person could save some money. Today, no one gives me gifts anymore... not even chcocs

It's is so sad that I didn't got any gift (something special) so far and I'm sure that I won't return in whatever circumstances. A gift is a parcel of the giver's share of good will and a piece of their heart and we never to deney. Mostly if we go for some wedding, we used to greet with a gift. But in certain places, they used to mention that gifts won't accept. Once, when one of our manager got married, he already requested us not to get gifts but, we about 10-15 people contributed and got a nice gift. Any way, he didn't accepted at the wedding receiption and our friend had to take it back. But when he come to the office afte the leave, we given him and accepted it. He said that if he accept anyone's gift, then it will be a cheating to others and that is why he didn't accepted it. As we were aware of it, it was a small box which nobody can seet it easily and no one come to know that he denied and our friend managed it easily without noticing anyone, otherwise she would have felt bad on it.

Before, our youngest sister, whenever we have some misunderstanding would remind me of some gifts that she has given me. I felt like returning those gifts but i know that it's so immature of me to do it , so i didn't. And i was right not returning them, because when my sister has finally ranted and have realized her mistake , we will be at peace again as if nothing happened. Perhaps had i returned those gifts, it would deepen our hurts with each other.

no I have never returned a gift, I find it rude. Even if I do not like the gift I do not return it. I don't want to hurt the giver's feelings.

No, I've never returned a gift to the sender. Oh, maybe I did in a way. A friend has frequently brought my husband and me a sweet bread that neither of us really cares for. The last time she brought it, it was thrown out for the birds. This time, when she said that she had brought us more Mexican sweetbread, I politely asked her if she didn't have someone else who would appreciate it more. She thanked me for telling her and said she'd give it to a different neighbor. It must not have made her mad because tonight she brought us 2 pieces of delicious cherry pie. The pie, we made short work of. Thank you, Friend.

Hi jaiho: I have never done this because it's childish and stupid to have this attitude when you get angry with someone. However, my brother is the one who takes this attitude with me actually. When he gets angry he ask me to return me the things he has give to me and I am like, Oh come on! Take them cry baby hahaha ALVARO

hello jaiho, i think this is mostly experienced with people in a relationship. when they broke up, there maybe regrets why did they gave something that doesn't come from their hearts. I believe gifts are gifts. you can't just ask for return unless the reciever don't like it anyway. I haven't experienced such. though ex people may really feel this like my ex does. i just don't know what hings he regret to give me.....thouh i don't know if he gave me anything... I remember a time during christmas parties, there will be instances i don't like the gifts i have received. And bad of me to laugh at the letter provided cause the sender really loves the bag she gave me. it has a small creature serves like a keychain althouh attached and sewn to the bag. which is somehow corny for me and also to my sisters. i don't know why she liked it. she is good lokking girl but why does her taste seem to be odd... we weren't close so i never got the chance to tell her what i feel about it. anyways,it's the efort that counts. too bad it somehow get wasted...

I had such an thinking of sending the gift back to the owner itself. It was during when my higher secondary exams results was announced. Many of them had gave my many gifts and many wishes and my aunt game me a little huge amount of money in my hands as a small gift. I though never to have a gift from her because she was really in critical in her life. She had lost her husband and she don't have enough source of income but she had a small piece of income from her business activities. I can't really accept the gift from her how can I buy it when she stays critical in her life. I couldn't reject the gift from her because she will be mistaking me if I do it. So I just bought it and it is with me still now. I will not ever use it and I will just give her back when she needs. This is all what I can do

Once upon a time a coleague of mine has forced me and my boss to do a thing by the teleponing by her VIP relative. And she had gifted me a shirt. I aint refuged it. But I would think the gift is for an unfair work. I aint worn the shirt and gave it to one of my neighbours. Actually I dont tolerate unfairness.

thats a good ideas

i wont send it back, suppose that you will give it back to the giver and your misunderstanding will eventually perish so what will the giver do?give the gift back to you..and also it was a gift given to you whole-heartedly before the misunderstanding at least you will have a small remembrance from that person who became your friend once..

The only time I've ever given back a gift was during a misunderstanding on who the receiver was. By which I mean, it was given to me when it was supposed to be for my cousin, haha! In terms of a falling out, a fight or a misunderstanding between people though, I've never really thought of giving things back to whoever gave them to me unless it was specifically asked for. I've never asked for them to give back my gifts either since I bought those with that specific person in mind. I do have a friend who, after breaking up, asked if she should give back the phone her boyfriend gave her when they were together but for the most part, I think gifts were given with specific emotions and it depends on the giver if they want it back or not.

Hi Jai sis, another interesting discussion from you again. As for me, i haven't return back any gift that i had received since from my childhood. All the gifts that i had received are from the people who are still my friends and relatives. Because i seldom want to receive gift if i am not close with that particular person. maybe because of my this character, that's why i never have to return any gift to any person. Maybe in future if i do receive gift from someone that i don't really like, i think i will keep it and re-sell it online, to earn some extra cash. How you think, is it alright that way?

i never did, but surely thought of, but couldn't ,as i thought that wouldn't be manners, we may hurt the feelings of the people, and sometimes they may take this and would do the same in future, why stress unnecessarily and wasting our peace and strength, just keep it in some cupboard or somewhere else, don't bother about that.

Yes! Super duper yes! I think it became a habit to me., because, for some reasons, I think its only the gift which holds our relationship (with my past bf). its a usual thing already.,.,giving back the gifts they gave.,.,

Hi Jai, i never thought in this sort, as well as don't have any needs in my life to send the gift back to the giver. I don't have a great friend set, my friends are very limited members and have a good relationship with me

I never thought of retrieving back the valuable gifts that I've given, and vice-versa. It is not proper, since it was given wholeheartedly. Though I encountered someone had asked to return the gift. Obviously, I gave it back without hesitation.