This chick needs to get a life
By 911Ricki
@911Ricki (13588)
Canada
September 5, 2012 12:26pm CST
Long story short this girl is so insecure, and jealous that she thinks I am trying to steal her useless boyfriend. I was interested in this guy, until I found out he had a girlfriend, and here he was trying to get with me.
I've ignored him since, he will pop up randomly. I was walking to work, and he turns the corner, almost going in the ditch watching me walking by. Not even a few hours later he drove by when I was going to work, he slowed down to see which way I was going.
I was at work, and he would walk by checking me out, or talking really loud to get my attention, his coworkers always come up to me and say things like he's interested, etc. He talks to me to people Im related too (Im sure he doesnt know Im related since Im related to about 80% of the population around here).
This stupid tw*t he is dating who I dont who she is keep talking about me. I just ignore her show how low she is and the fact all she has in life in a boyfriend she clearly cant trust and she's just that low she blames everyone else for her faults.
I was annoyed the other day, because my cousin texted me saying this tw*t is talking about me at her work. It's been about 6 months to a year since I found out he had a girlfriend, and ignoring him so she needs to get over it already.
I texted one of my friend who her boyfriend knows these two morons. I just told her how low this girl is, the fact she saying things about me, and my 65 year old coworker. The fact this girl is so insecure, jealous, has nothing to show for herself but some guy who clearly deep down arnt happy together. She just need to get a life, and I dont want any part in their little drama I would date him anyways knowiing he touched that dity b*tch, she's slept with half the country side. Clearly, I'm 50x better than her because Im not willing to fight for a man.
If he wants me that badly he will find a way. Clearly, he doesnt want either of us because he's off trying with other woman. I even said if I lower myself to her level I would rather jump infront of a truck, because I have no use in life, if I have nothing but a man, and depend on him.
I hope she says something to one of them, and they get a dam life.
10 responses
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
Way to go girl! That's exactly how a lady should behave. Never stooping down to the level of that woman. You certainly don't deserver that man and he doesn't deserve a single attention from you. You're way out of his league! 
@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Sep 12
Sound this insecure little chick. has got black spells done on her by this useless boyfriend of her or may be she just can't let go of him even though she know that he is cheating behind her due to personal reason like severe emotional /financial dependancy, or just plain stupidity, instead of dump him, she seem like blaming you for his action in chasing all over you in the neighborhood. 
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
7 Sep 12
I know that this is something that is really sad to say, but I have come to believe in my life that drama and relationships are two things that definitely go hand in hand.
As far as this guy goes, I do think that it is in your best interest to continue to ignore him because he is clearly not the kind of man that you want to have in your life.
As for the girlfriend that he has, I think that if she is that unhappy and insecure in her relationship, then it would be in her best interest to end that relationship and move on with her life.
@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
6 Sep 12
LOL...she has slept with half the country side!! Oooh, that's rich!
Well, my take on the situation is, even though the girl is talking alot of junk about you, I think that her boyfriend really is the one to blame, him and the co-workers.
Obviously, if his co-workers are telling YOU that he is interested in you, surely the co-workers are telling HER stuff, like that her boyfriend is interested in you. Her olny form of relatiation is to talk back to those co-workers and say some junk about you, but the bottom-line, those co-workers aren't her friends. They are just trying to keep her upset and off-balance, clearly because THEY need to get a life. The co-workers seem to be the ones keeping the whole thing going.
I feel sorry for the girl
, she must feel like she is the laughing-stock of the town.
!! Oooh, that's rich!
Well, my take on the situation is, even though the girl is talking alot of junk about you, I think that her boyfriend really is the one to blame, him and the co-workers.
Obviously, if his co-workers are telling YOU that he is interested in you, surely the co-workers are telling HER stuff, like that her boyfriend is interested in you. Her olny form of relatiation is to talk back to those co-workers and say some junk about you, but the bottom-line, those co-workers aren't her friends. They are just trying to keep her upset and off-balance, clearly because THEY need to get a life. The co-workers seem to be the ones keeping the whole thing going.
I feel sorry for the girl, she must feel like she is the laughing-stock of the town.
@superstar88 (15)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
I feel sorry for the girl who runs after a guy who is NOT worth it.
I had the same story, almost same as yours. I dated a guy who I thought had no girlfriend. One day, I received a text from an unknown number saying that i was a sl*t for dating his boyfriend. I actually did not react on the text but I became worried that the guy I was dating was lying to me. So one day, I asked him if he has a girlfriend. He said NO. And so, when I got home, I tried to call the unknown number who texted me to confirm if maybe she just got the wrong number. Upon talking to the girl, i knew that YES we had the same man. I actually MADE FRIENDS with the girl and honestly told her that I had no idea that she is his current girlfriend. I stopped dating the guy right after talking to the other girl and then that same day, this girl texted me again and told me she broke up with the guy already.
@Pale_moon (98)
•
6 Sep 12
What a long story.It's a little difficult for to understand the whole story.According to my understanding the man is a polygamous one?If so,he is what a bad man.Such a man is unworthy of attention.
@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
5 Sep 12
Yes, she is insecure. However, why worry about her or what she has to say or who or what she has or has not done? If you don't want anything to do with him, none of this should be anything that troubles your thoughts. Simply live your life and ignore them.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
5 Sep 12
I would stay clear of him, like the saying goes once a cheater always a cheater. If she wants a low life like him then she deserves him. I wouldn't worry about her. She needs to depend on herself first before anything. Then decide wether you want a relationship or not. He might be cheating so he can get with someone else who works and has more money who knows. I have seen guys and them ditching a girl cause she doesn't work (like my cousin) or asking if I worked before they would consider dating me (online without seeing a photo yet).
My mom seems to think she has had everything by depending on a man all her married life. She even told me once in one of her vile moods a long time ago (maybe several+ years or so back now, but no younger than when I was even in my 30's)that I don't have anything. I have had my savings and my dignity, plus I'm much more kinder and nicer than she is. I wouldn't be agreeing or sticking up for people who abuse others when i say how much of a scumbag I think abusers are, I am also more of a hard worker than her. She had never did anything to contribute to the household moneywise. The list goes on. Ironic how she goes on about things that she is more guilty of than me.
@night01watcher (259)
• Italy
5 Sep 12
Whoa!!!
That's insane. I think you should confront both of them and tell the girl what the guy had been trying to attain from you!!
She may be acting like this either because she doesn't know the whole situation that it was actually that guy's fault, or may be the guy has mentioned this to her that he likes you.
Anyways! this is totally immature of both of them
