did you fall for your friend's bf?^^

What actually happened to me was a had a crush that none of my friends knows about. then one day i learned that my crush was already courting my friend and then eventually they became a couple. i dropped my feelings as respect to my friend. as i remember it noe, i think it happened to me twice. until this day both my friends didn't know about it.

That has never ever happened to me and I believe it won't. You see, love comes after attraction. If you are aware from the beginning that he is your friend's boyfriend, no matter how attracted you are, you should ignore that and never nurture that. So I don't think it's ever possible for me to fall for my friend's bf unless I encourage that. But I won't because I'm a very logical person when it comes to that. Cheers.

I too have never experienced falling in love with my friend's bf. That will be awkward being with them when you have a friend's bonding. I'm sure you the bond between you and your friend will really change even if your friend won't know since you will lay off just to think. I wouldn't wish for that to happen to me because it will really be hard.

It has never happened to me though Ive heard of many cases in showbiz where someone falls for her best friend's husband. Like Amitabh Bachchan, a famous Bollywood actor falling in love with his wife's friend Rekha. After a 8 year relationship he went back to his wife- men can be so stupid!

still i have not and want when i fall they i will tell you.

Thankfully it never happened to me. It must be terrible to fall for a friend's bf or gf. If it happened to me though, I know it is easier said than done but it will make a lot of sense if I won't take our friendship at risk because I've fallen for my friends bf.

No...I haven't tried falling in love with my husbands bestfriend. As much as possible, I'll avoid being in that situation, because it will really feel awkward.

Nope i never have, i think it's rude to date someone a friend or sister has dated before. But on the other hand my best friend always stole my boyfriends from me, like I would be dating them and she would try to talk to them and they would sneak behind my back and secretly date. But I am no longer friends with this girl because it happeend. And now she is engaged to my ex and soon marrying him. props to her she got my seconds. I find it so wrong though.

Hi sweet love forever: I have to admit that it has happened to me sometimes. I don't feel proud about it but things happen. However I know what's right and wrong and for me friendship is more important that a momentary feeling so I won't cheat even feeling this way. ALVARO

Thank God never, I don't know if it's possible to happen to me, cause I always see them as girls. As soon as I'm introduced I put humor into the picture and always talk 90% of the time to my girlfriend cause it happened once of a idiot hit on me while I was accointed to his girlfriend. But I know I would surely not act upon it, never.

No I did not and I will not also. You are correct some people have done such things and they are doing it also. I don't know the reason behind it. But once I had asked one of my friend why she is interested in her friend's boyfriend. her mere answer was she find something special in him and he is more enthusiastic and romantic then her own boy friend. Just for the change or to see whether he is so dashing and enthusiastic as he sees and romantic as his girlfriend claim to be. Other than this there may be some personal reason why people fall for their friend's girl or boy friend even when they are having their own boy or girl friend.

when I really love someone I don't see anyone else but him, no matter how good looking that person might be. it didn't happen to me to fall for one of his friends. and even if it did I wouldn't do anything...same as you said I woul try to forget my feelings. I don't know I guess I would try not to see that friend really often

No I never did, I doubt it will ever happen also. The less friends I have have a complete different taste if it comes to men as I have. Also I seldom meet them with their partner around.Same with my kids (daughters). I am still surprised about the partners they have found. I don't know what would happen if I would fall for the partner of my friend but if so I think I would stay out of the way and invest why I am (suddenly) that interested in that person. I think I would call my husband.

No, I've never fallen for a friend's partner before, neither do I know has anyone ever fallen for my boyfriend. Although I believe you shouldn't put any feelings into actions when it concerns the partner of your friend, I believe it would eventually be your partner's fault for opening themselves for such emotions, should anything happen.

It was my main drawback that once I become friend with someone, I was unable to divert the friendship to some other kind of relationships. Only because of my this nature, I had a lot of freedom among all my friends among boys and girls. Once we got already leaned to someone, we never think of someone else.

happened to me sow, and most people think that they happened. sometimes there is just one attraction to any girl who is a friend of a good friend is not pleasant. but the best is to forget or at least make sure you do not go out and gradually if only temporarily entrainment everything will pass. successful and enjoyable day!

It was actually the other way around. One of my friends fall for my boyfriend back when I was in college. And the sad part is, I didn't know because if I had known, I could have not answered the guy because I didn't really like him at first. It was his friend whom I like. I got into a relationship with him because he really pursued me and I said to myself, why don't I give it a try. When we broke up, that was the time my friend told me that she was secretly falling in love with my then ex-boyfriend. I was shocked at first but when she told me that she didn't have any intentions or bad motives or even wished for us to break apart, I totally understood her and now we're still friends. Though I don't see her much nowadays, I hope she's good and I know in time if ever we'll see each other again, we'll have so much laugh to share with each other. I suddenly miss her.

uhm yah! But the guy was friend first! but ofc , I moved away and hope it won't happen again in the future.cheers dear! :-D