do you hate weekends too??
@night01watcher (259)
Italy
September 9, 2012 12:49am CST
I know I know, I am crazy. But right now I have started to hate weekends, when I am home. Why?? Because many guests come to our place on weekends, I don't get time to pamper myself at all. U don't get Time to spend with my family and I hate. What's the point of weekend if you are more tired than you are on weekdays with full time job. And why of why guests come unannounced?
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12 responses
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Well dear if that is the problem then go somewhere else where no guest can find you and where you can relax and enjoy solitude. There will be no guests if there is no host to welcome them isn't not? So if you do really want to enjoy your weekend then go and spend your whole day out to give yourself a chance to enjoy it all on your own.
@linda0302 (53)
• China
10 Sep 12
No,I don't! I love weekends,it's a time to relax,as well as to reunit with my beloveds.
I have had a lovly and amusing weekend
In weekends,my boyfriend always make me delicious breakfast,then we go out....do some working ,climbing,shopping or we just come to the college nearby to read some book.
If we happen to have some friend coming along,we come play together....
During this period, as I was planning to take an exam(some kind of important and difficult), you guys know how I appreciate my boyfriend's accompany while doing the pereparing work!
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 12
Hi night,
I totally understand what you feel. On the weekend, people like to come to our house and bring in their little children. Then when those children are playing there will be screaming here and there!!
I am so frustrated with that situation, really. While in weekdays, I cannot even lock myself in a room because I share room with my sister. I feel frustrated because I cannot lock myself alone...
Why people come unannouced? I think, they just like to come to our house and got the feeling that we will welcome them no matter when they come.
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
10 Sep 12
If my weekends were like that having lots of people over, I would isolate myself somewhere. I would never go home. I would hate weekends also. I agree with you on this. But maybe you could say something about this and have time to yourself. Everyone needs alone time.
@silverfeash (23)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
I usually love weekends. Heck, after long days of being slave driven by bosses, and numerous hours of running errands, weekends are supposed to be considered as hard earned perks, which, i believe, should mean, late TV nights and afternoon siestas. But, if I have the same reasons as you do, I might just start planning my weekends away from home.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
i do not like or is uncomfortable of these too when people come to the house unannounced. =( but since there aren't a lot of them that comes over... well i do not hate weekends. even so i won't blame whatever these people do on weekends. :P
maybe you can actually let them know you also have got something to do on weekends and cannot accept your guests everytime.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
now that is a good reason to hate weekends. i would not enjoy it too, a weekend like that. its okay if that would be one per month but every weekend? no that is not cool. weekends are supposed to be quiet and intimate. time to rest and to do personal chores. or a time with the people you love to be alone with. i think you need to have a place where you can stay at weekends where there is serenity. i can not blame on what you feel, but i myself will hate a weekend like that.
@jalucia (1431)
• United States
9 Sep 12
I hate unannounced guests, too. Your house must be immaculate because you never know when someone is going to stop by. Even when guests try to announce themselves, I often make a run for it. I appreciate my relaxation time in my house. However, even when I'm dreading the visit, oftentimes after my visitors leave I'm glad they came by. Me, I would plan to not be home for a couple of weekends or not answer my door or my phone. When people ask where I was, I would tell them that I had things to do or I was sleeping. They should get the hint and back off a little. Or, at least, they will call before they come so that they don't waste a visit.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
9 Sep 12
Now I totally understand why you don't like it because weekend is like being a guest house. I would be that mad as well if that is the case. It is like better yet to spend weekdays at home rather than no work on weekends but then there are other people that could disturb you.
May I know who is that guest? If that is your relatives, friends of your parents. To be honest with you there are really other people who do not really have sense of decency or courtesy to ask permission first.
@simplealvi (148)
• Pakistan
9 Sep 12
Well i totally agree with you. In my weekends i don't even want to get up from bed, I stay on the bed almost all day. If I were you i would have run away from home. lol
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
9 Sep 12
Hey u are absolutely correct. The influx of guests into our house without any prior information is such a headache that your entire day just goes for a waste. Besides, weekends are meant to enjoy and to have fun with your family and friends and not to stay at home getting bored for the whole day.
What say?