they are textmates first and soon became lovers

@missjahn (4574)
Philippines
September 9, 2012 9:14am CST
how many people in the world become lovers because of texting over cellphones? well, i have known plenty of them. like one friend of mine aired his number in the fm station and many girls were interested and texted him. but yes, he selected whom to trust with and feel delighted - so they had met. until now, they held each others arm still. it all started in a cellphone and examined each personality then decided to meet personally. what about you, know a story like this or you as a living witness as their love life blooms? :)
22 responses
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
yep, there's relationship starts with textmates, some are starts with social networks, but do you think that Long Distance Relationship will last? I think maybe yes maybe no., cos so far i'm on LDR or Long Distance Relationship., we stay on relationship because of "LOVE and TRUST" that we give from each other., I dont know if this relationship will stay forever, or has limit., no one can tell about the ending right, just enjoy life, enjoy what you have, and Love those people who Love you, specially a person who treat you more than everyone..
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@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
happy for you. once had a relationship like that but it did not work. i do not want to busy myself thinking what he is doing across the oceans and sky. i guess it is because i do not give too much confidence in believing him. hard that way. you are right that you need to have love and trust but been to many miseries because i hate unfaithfulness. but i guess fate has something to do with it. and that no matter what, it has something to do to bring you and him together one day despite and inspite of the trials encountered along the way of the relationship. thanks for joining
• India
13 Sep 12
The main problem with friends over phone or sms we always push in a confidence level in the relationship. We are never ready to trust them completely because we only know them thru messages. Life is never made in messages, may be you might find happiness for sometimes, but afterwards it turns into agony and sadness.
• Italy
10 Sep 12
I am the living example of this. But my story is a bit different. Me and my ex-boyfriend met on internet, exchanged numbers, were madly in love, wanted to marry when his parents didn't approve of me and we broke-up.We broke up a year ago, after relationship of 2 years. And few days ago, he kind of raped me. It's fate, nothing else. I would never have imagined it and him being an animal
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
heck with that man. but what happened? why he gets near you? sorry if being so nosy but if you do not like telling it to me, kindly disregard the question. my deepest sympathy
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
gosh! i hate rapists and who would love them. they must be jailed and must suffer for the misdeeds and inappropriate animalism barbarian act. . even we fought back, what is the strength of the woman compared to a man. forgive my words for hatred struck me for this. according to what you said, that is quiet annoying.
• Italy
10 Sep 12
You are right, me and my current boyfriend have filed a case against him. But I am so broke right now, can not even tell.:(
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
This truly happens and i find it cute hearing stories like these. it is hard though to find a real love blossom from merely texting. i guess it could be the start of a friendship but you should still take yime to know the person better by being physically together.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
No problem! Have a nice day!
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
it really is happening. knowing each other first through texting then meet and another phase in life happened. this trend became part of the teenagers life and their other way of having fun and of communicating and knowing other people. thanks for joining in here
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
have a nice day too:) enjoy
• India
18 Oct 12
I had heard many such news from others but not through my eyes. Still now I did not see or find such lovers who had meet through messages, from my friends or from some one else.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
i heard it on news and known some people who was successfully tied their love because of cellphone communication. thanks :)
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
Its pretty much increasing in our society now given many high-tech methods of reaching one another. So its pretty the same to having textmates, only that its usually accompanied with high risks and uncertainty. However it is really possible. I even heard of couple who just started meeting up in online games and eventually ended up marrying one another.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
right at that. it is not happened because of cellphone communication but of course through chatting in the internet. i talked to many people who are being married with foreigners and it all started in net. and yes you are right, that many were harmed because of talking to stranger and meeting with them. it cannot be denied that many became successful partners because of texts, chat but we must be careful because many were being harmed and deceased because of this. we must be wise about the matter. thanks for joining in here
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
ahaha yeah, I have a classmate, then she has a boyfriend, she met her boyfriend on online game named "o2jam" :DD
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
I met a guy online. He said he's in love with me. And I'm even beginning to like him too. He's from California though. So I don't know if I can take the risk. I don't know if this will work. We were in contact for months now. He wants to come here in the Philippines next summer.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
hello Ary... if the man would visit you here in the philippines, the advantage is yours. well, this is your country and at least you can know where to run if things will not sticking to the plan. just be careful and be vigilant. guard your safeness by studying his behaviour so and so. give him the chance but be sure where and when to pull the strings during hard times. bring a friend when you meet him, i suggest. maybe too, he is the one you are looking as your soul mate or the love of the life. well, it is not impossible. ask God for guidance and He'll show you the way. that is the best resolution to be made by yourself if you are scared to take the risk. thanks for joining here.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
at ciolo - hi there confuse with your statement. can i clarify it? you and aryz will meet the same person? disregard the question if you do not feel talking about it. thanks for joining in here too ;)
10 Sep 12
wow! you did not mention this to me! way to go girl. your an actuarial science major, i say take the risk but be careful.. all of us are excited to meet him! :)
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
28 Sep 12
I think there might be lots of people who became text mates and then became lovers. I think cellphone had made people to get closer in life.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
hello there oh yes, cellphone is one major of communications to contact or love ones. in this gadget too, we can make new friendship and would be able to cross the line from friendship to something special or more. lots of things happened like that nowadays. but connected to it is to exert more carefulness not to be hurt by anyone we barely knew on the other side of the line. as much as we can send messages and even reaching people with sweet nothings, attached to it are risks too for cellphones are being used to do nasty activities and criminal acts. so let us all take our precautions and must take good care of ourselves to communicate strangers. thanks :)
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
10 Sep 12
I am not and I don't know anybody from my friend list. Also, of someone already have, they never say that their love started after text messaging and phone calles. Anyway, I think I already crossed this period and never got a chance to get attracted through a text loving situations. I think I didn't even texted anyoen? Do I? No. I don't even send text messages now also! ahahahah
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
:) of course not. just not interested that was why. yes, if for me, if do not have some important matter and messages to relay, i should not be sending messages. thanks for joining in here :)
@toyota4k (1208)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
I know a lot who became friends thru texting and eventually got married. I have been taken as a primary sponsor to a few. A pair soon named their child Nokia and another pair, Ericson Sounds great but not a few fell prey to swindlers and thieves.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
hmmm what a puzzle. just be careful when you engage yourself to this kind of activity.
• Indonesia
13 Sep 12
My college friend was also experiencing the same thing. One girl use my friend's mobile to miscall her crush. When the guy know that the number which often call him is my best friend's number, he thought that my best friend has crush on him. After I explained to the guy thats it was not my friend who did miscall him many times. They then texted each other and they end up dating.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
wow interesting love story there... it cannot be questioned if that kind of love story appeared in so many ways nowadays. it is because, it was a replacement of having phone pals as of before. well, experienced that one too. teenagers are fond of using cellphones to contact their crushes like what you stated above. cellphones are part of life to anybody as of this generation. even a toddler would like to have cellphone for communication. and to youngsters best for having a love of their live - :) thanks
• Indonesia
10 Sep 12
i never witness the real one. all i know is from a love novel. lol but somehow i want to become like that until married and have daughter/son. so i can tell his/her sometime that her mom and daddy once become textmates before married , although its kind of funny.. LOL
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
:) really like a story over dramas. it really exists. i am a living proof =) uhmpt.. you cannot tell how each pair put their feelings over texts and saying it in person. curious about that on how they manages to deal it. for you know, it is really different when you talk the person personally from texting him/her over cellphones. whoa, if you know what i mean. :) thanks
@elsino91 (440)
• Poland
11 Sep 12
I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and we met by chance on a skype forum. I had just installed skype and was looking for people online to talk to. Had no idea I would meet this person I'd spend 3 years of my life with. Technology nowadays has become just another form of communication so bet it chat or texting or meeting someone in reality, its just as easy to meet someone and become lovers.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
good for you... congratulations! sometimes we need to risk what we believe on what we need to guard to see and to observe what are the things we can find yonder, if it is bad or good. as to say, no guts, no glory. but of course, we need to pray God for guidance. thanks for joining in here :)
@nhieleiko (109)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
I think, in some cases, we should be careful on whom we text. we should first know their motives and their personality as well. Here in the Philippines, there are several cases that someone got raped by a textmate. So, be careful, specially for women. You should know what is the right place to meet the guy. Don't be careless.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
yes, right at that. though there are living proofs that could share their stories, still we do not know some of the people's intentions that might harmed us. we must be careful and be vigilant about it. if you want to meet the person, better set it in a place near your residence and bring a friend with you. do not agree when the person would bring you in a silent where there would be less of people roaming around. bring him in public for your safety. stand a distance always and do not get so near with him, so that no matter what happened, you can easily escaped yourself from him. thanks for joining in here :)
@putete13 (15)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
i believe in that because sometimes our feelings was developed even though we haven't seen the person. because our HEART can feel if the person he/she's communicating is the right one for her/him.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
exactly for really happened in this recent time. first, it would be used for fun because you are making new friends and would be able to meet them in person. just let us be careful whom to meet and planning for a kind of place to go during meeting. it should be crowded so that whatever would happened, you can ask for help easily thanks
@godwinnv (58)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
my wife was my textmate before. she was referred by my hi-school classmate during college. I became interested to her because she has the character of a girl that i'm looking for. She was very entertaining, sweet and not boring to talk with. Until we developed chemistry and i courted her. years goes by we turned out to be lovers :) and now we're parents of our son :)
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
wow, congrats! it worked for you. you are lucky indeed to met your wife through texting because not all of the people got the chance to succeed in that kind of relationship. yes, when one can entertain us and fun to text with, it will caught our interest and would be given a happiness inside. thanks for joining in here :)
@toniganzon (72554)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
I'm not really into texting. Unless texting would include, bbm, whatsapp, kakaotalk, viber, etc. I hardly use sms service at all, unless i get one from a friend. I usually call or use the messengers included on my smartphones. However, I have witnessed people falling in love through the internet and it worked for them.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
right at that. my appetite and time of being crazy of cellphone had gone already. if not so important, i will not load my cellphone with prepaid loads. but if need to contact the person for some important matters, i will call him/her. better than texting because you can really communicate with person two way around unlike texting that there would a time a person cannot reply you because of some matter. thanks for joining in here : )
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Sep 12
Hi, Sometime ago, I acquired my first cellphone, a Nokia 3210 (old by today's standards) but then a lot story revolved around it. First, I have an expanded line of comm when I could reach and be reached by everyone anywhere. Then out of the blue,an unknown number sent me a text message. Exchange of message soon developed to more intimate greetings, albeit still unknown then. Until it came to pass that my unknown textmate became a friend then, a lover and now my wife (eight years and 85 kilos ago).
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
wow... what an inspiring story of love in there. a living proof that love exists through cellphone communications. first, from mis-sent messages then developed a story and finally she became your wife. you found the love of the life across the line and so lucky of you meeting her in there. thanks for sharing your love story :)
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
well as technology is rapidly invading nowadays, its not a question anymore if relationships will be created through texting as the means of communication. I'm not against with it but safety precautions are also needed especially for those who are minors and still new in entering into a relationship.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
yeah, agree with you. deal this thing with control and versatility. because the person you contacted is a total stranger unless if knew them already. a hindrance of studies too that might wrecked the future of the youngsters. instead one should study the lesson well, their, one is facing the cellphone and spending the time texting with somebody else. we need to be careful to the stranger person too or else, we might get harmed thanks for joining in here :)
10 Sep 12
i think the texting romance is sweet but the downside here is that, you really can't see the true feelings of the person. just like what happened to one of my friends, they're are really sweet in text messages but everytime the two of them are in the same place ( well they knew each other and also textmates)they just glanced at each other as if there's nothing going on between them.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
:) oh maybe they are too shy to show some affection. there would be an instance that there you cannot uttered words personally but by then it is simply being said through text where faces and emotions cannot be seen. when so angry, i used cellphone to reach and to let the person knew am upset. thanks for joining in here :)
10 Sep 12
I guess it's another way of meeting other people. Though I personally engage in texting after i have met and dated a guy, it's sure is a medium to get to know each other more.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
yes a medium. but experienced a relationship through texting but never lasted for a year because both of us were so busy and no one gave up to visit one to meet. so how could we be able know each other personally if we will not meet in person. lucky those couples find their partners over cellphones. i guess fate had something to do with it. and that they are meant with each other like that thanks