I often change boyfriends?

Bulgaria
September 9, 2012 9:50am CST
I have many friends who are not married and quite often changing boyfriends. whether you think it is right and just that the way to find the right man for them. I think that sometimes, however, be careful!
13 responses
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
9 Sep 12
fOR THIS discussion -- youngsters will say yes. But elders like me will say NO. Elders have seen your age, crossed your age and know the problems involved in various issues. Decide what are your priorities. Try to identify a person who can match all or majority points out of it. Then make one sincere friendship and marry,. Otherwise if you go on change you may get boy friends who come to you with an idea of going away after a few days. take care.
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@ash777 (40)
9 Sep 12
sir,i am agreeing to your answer.But not all youngsters will say yes.there are many youngsters including me with a view that changing boyfriend or girlfriend is not a good act.I am totally agreeing with your view.
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@suraj7nov (1736)
• India
9 Sep 12
i will also say no
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
9 Sep 12
ash77/suraj7 Yes. it depends on the value system embedded in you by your family. You two are hailing from a place where such a culture --changing boy friends frequently is not encouraged. But in western countries parents also do not bother and they also conduct in such a way that changing boys friends or girl friends is not an objectionable issue.
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@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
My ex-GF does, so I split up with her. I guess of the differences, that's why it didn't work out.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
9 Sep 12
differences is the reason means before including her as girl friend and moving with her as boy friend one must understand fully. Also less tolerance may be one reason for this state of affairs,
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• Bulgaria
9 Sep 12
very true when there is no understanding and understanding many links quickly disintegrate which somewhat does not mean that the other will regard the case but can be repeated. should match the character has to have a very strong love. thanks for the reply.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
9 Sep 12
I hate girls with a bunch of boyfriends, it means they are flirtatious and immature, those who are mature and stable should have only one life partner.
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• Bulgaria
9 Sep 12
there are different kinds of people guys and girls all have boyfriends certain many others do not. but they live their life and I do not judge anyone. sometimes it is just nice to live in a romp, and then to muzzle stable. nice day! Thanks for the replies.
@ash777 (40)
9 Sep 12
You are right.i too hate such girls.but all have their own freedom.we can't make them change.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
10 Sep 12
I don't understand how people can be so self-centered as to think they could ever deserve the love & devotion of nezavisima. We lowly men are honored to have even stood in the Holy Princess's presence; how dare any of us demand that he be the only one who brings her the pleasure she needs? ... ... I'm kidding---mostly. Just as I cannot see how any men can be so selfish, I can't see how YOU can be so self-centered either! The truth is NO man loves 'you' (i.e. they may say they do, but that really doesn't matter unless they support you in whatever you're doing---THAT is what they truly love, 'what you are doing which they support you in' ... (And--while they may support you in almost-everything you can do--there comes a time when they have to choose between 'supporting what you do' & 'supporting what they think is right.' As long as 'what you do' remains the same thing as 'what they think is right,' they keep supporting you.) So that's what you need to do: "Do the right thing." Devote yourself to 'that,' and either you'll find a way to 'support' a man who is doing that (i.e. meeting him, getting to know him, marrying him to become his 'better half') or a man will find a way to 'support' you the same way (although you will still be the 'better half'! )
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• Bulgaria
16 Sep 12
I completely agree with you. determined in many cases is true. sometimes have to experiment with these things. Thank you very much for the reply.! nice day!
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
11 Sep 12
Thanks for this constructive advice and i think mylotters will do so. A good partner definitely accompany by your side and plays a very important role supporting you in daily life, so i will keep the rule and find my right person.
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• Bulgaria
16 Sep 12
Thank you very much. everyone deserves to find its half and be happy. should be able to find their man in our lives. thanks for the reply.
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
I have read this article in the web that if you had 10 or more relationships already the more like you will be unmarried in the future. I only remember that the reason for this is that when you had already experienced changing relationships, you will be immune to future fights and break ups, and changing partners will be like changing one's shirt.
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• Bulgaria
16 Sep 12
I completely agree. this is true. should be able to find a suitable one for us but also does not change the men as handkerchiefs. you just have to know when to and how to change their partners and be able to compromise. thanks for the reply. nice day!
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 12
be seriously when you are making relationship with another people.. Trust them if you want them trust you too.. Give them space in their day and week, and not only with you, so they can make the same things for you...
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• Bulgaria
9 Sep 12
this is very true. it is very nice when you have confidence discretion then links remain much longer. Thanks for the reply.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
9 Sep 12
this is so hurting to hear,this is not like changing mobile phones often,have you ever wondered what your buddies or guys would think about you,you must try to be in the safe zone at times for sure
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• Bulgaria
9 Sep 12
oh this is so. I have such friends and I do not think they just change them and live their lives by not thinking about the future but it's their life to get better. I have a family and go for some time to drink something with them to diversify but never meddle in their personal lives. thanks for the reply. nice day!
@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
9 Sep 12
I'm not sure how people who change their lovers start a relationship, I just assume they start it like "let's see how it goes" without making sure the affection is mutual? Maybe not all of them. I think changing boyfriends often doesn't guarantee that they will find the One, because nobody is perfect. I think it's better if the couple makes efforts together to make the relationship work, instead of just breaking up when it's not perfect. I often hear that if you didn't solve a problem that you were supposed to solve in a relationship, then the same problem will follow you to the next relationships as well. Of course there are cases, like abuse or dishonesty, when someone can't avoid breaking up.
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• Bulgaria
9 Sep 12
You're absolutely right. sometimes you have to compromise in order for a relationship to last long if you have a love relationship will fall apart. to some people it is easy to quickly leave their half but not on others. It all depends on the people everyone is different. Thanks for the reply. nice day!
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• United States
9 Sep 12
I fell like if your current boyfriend or girlfriend is someone that you are not happy with why would you want to stay with them. I think where people go wrong is putting a label on a relationship to fast. There is nothing wrong with dating more than one person as long as all parties are honest with one another. I also feel like if you are not ready to be serious about someone don't become their girlfriend or boyfriend. How can you really know what you want if you don't know what you don't want. That is what dating is for to get to know a person to see if you might have a future with them. I can see why people may say that you are unstable if you do this but I don't buy into it. As people we do grow and change over the years and our taste in partners will change as well. Just be honest with yourself about what you are looking for in a mate and be honest with that person. Once you become a couple know that nobody is perfect and if they make you happy do all you can to make it work.
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• Bulgaria
9 Sep 12
Nobody is perfect but you have to be compromised and this is very important because when there is a compromise between two people and they understand love continues unabated but when they did not have a whole division. thanks for the reply. nice day!
@ash777 (40)
9 Sep 12
hii nezavisima, i dont think often changing boyfriends is good.its all consider about your future life.changing boyfriends is a character of girls showing non stability nature.they always change their decisions according to their happiness.they never give priority to relationships.so i suggest its always good to have a true relationship which lasts forever :)
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• Bulgaria
9 Sep 12
It's nice to have such relationships that last long before my husband had a friend with whom he had three years but he was lying to me a lot and I left after I met my husband and quickly made ??a decision about marriage. so you just have to let your heart lead us. Thank you for your kind reply. good day!
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
I'm 18 but even I'm a teenager I don't agree about changing boyfriends more often. I would say, you have to take a relationship seriously. Not just you'll have a boyfriend every time you want.
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• Bulgaria
10 Sep 12
This is true. it is very important to have a relationship because when our boyfriends changed often not bode well for us. It speaks of how unserious we are so very correct thinking. nice day!
@Winike (65)
• Hungary
10 Sep 12
I totally agree with you , change them until you find the perfect one for you! But be warned there are some people who just want to use you out!
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• Bulgaria
10 Sep 12
There are many people who benefit from their relationships. I personally never had such intentions. cause the packages are nice to find perfect but it is difficult simply to raise sometimes dream man or woman is nearby. thanks for the reply. nice day!