Boyfriend's Friend
By MoonGypsy
@MoonGypsy (4606)
United States
September 10, 2012 8:26pm CST
why do friends of boyfriends try to put them up to going out with other girls. i hate this so much. it is one of my pet peeves in life. is it that the friend doesn't think the girlfriend is good enough for him? is it that he is afraid to go out and aget tail on his own without his friend's help? is friend his friend jealous of the relationship and wants to break it up? why don't friends of boyfriends realize that they are in relationships and respect that. back off with trying to get him to go off with other girls. i hate the friends of boyfriends. they are nothing but trouble. my husband has this best friend that he hasn't seen for a long time. i am glad, too. this friend of his is loose with women and his body. he has no shame and will be playing different women at the same time. my husband looks up to him ever since he was a kid. i don't know why. i hear he is gangster like, rough, rowdy and a player. my husband's family members have been trying to get them back together ever since we got back into town. i hope he stays away. i don't need that kind of trouble in my relationship.
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5 responses
@JAYMAR777 (840)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
It's important for people to be in the right company. Your husband's friend is a typical man that desires respect and attention in the wrong way. As a man (myself) we have this tendency to brag or be "known for" of having the most beautiful, having the biggest, the most number, and etc. It is that respect from other peers that we desire to have. But when you get older and been with the right people you have the paradigm shift of such things. It really feels good to be satisfied and contented with what you have, making the most of what you own or with now. Besides beautiful things and ladies never ends so if a man chase that, he is like chasing a cheetah he never can outrun.
I understand that you don't want complications but you need somehow to pray and hope for that your man will know somebody of good influence. I don't think nagging and let your man choose will have a good effect.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
11 Sep 12
oh, i definitely have no choice but to let him choose. he is a grown person. i just don't want to be played with or experiment with in the process.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
11 Sep 12
well, that certainly doesn't mean that he needs my husband to help him, but trying to hook him up with a girl, too.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
11 Sep 12
Um, I do think this is guys in general, I think it is certain guys who think that this is how they and their friends should have fun. My husband's friends are all married and wouldn't encourage each other to cheat. They mostly do stuff like watch sports together.
@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Sep 12
Because friends are usually jealous of the girl/boyfriends and want to get the guys away from their friend so they go have fun like they are used to having. I think I would choose a guy who isn't with his friends ALL the time and there for you have a better chance of finding a good guy. And one that will concentrate on you and not their friends.
@Juliyan23 (600)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 12
It reminds me a movie titled "The Change Up" , a gigolo is a best friend of a loyal - husband . But the difference is the gigolo never tried to induce his friend to do the same or even to do something bad. They have grown up , they has their individual principal and bussiness. They just tried to respect each other's life. Even the gigolo always respect his friend's wife so much that the gigolo even took care of her children.
So, in your case - that "friend" should be stay away forever . I think maybe he just a lonesome boy who never had a true love and started to ruin anyone else's life , but the terrible thing is he did that to his friend. Shame on him. Karma should warn him to not ever make the nice people around him be hurted.
Have a wonderful day, dear
