A Bad News For Me
By ARIES1973
@ARIES1973 (11426)
Legaspi, Philippines
September 14, 2012 8:23pm CST
I am already packing some of my thing in the boarding house yesterday because of the thinking that we are soon to go home by the 19th. I am already planning the things that I have to do, we will be celebrating my mother's birthday, I will open another account for my online earnings, I will clean the house, I will update my children's accounts. But all of these things will just be a plan... We received a phone call that our stay in this place will be extended until the end of the month. I started to cry. I don't know ho I felt that time. It's been three long months of suffering on my part.
I really wanted to go home and stay there. But we cannot break the rule. I am almost done and this it not the right time for me to be sensitive or to be carried away by that news. I checked the calendar and counted the days. If I was able to stay for three long months, what is another ten days? Perhaps this is another kind of test of patience. Hope can we cope up with changes in plans and everything.
Thank you for reading my dear friends! I am still glad mylot is with me everywhere I go.
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16 responses
@Annchan1983 (25)
• China
15 Sep 12
Hi,Once a plan was decided,It is really hard to change it,Anyway just take it easy,It is great to share in mylot,I like it....
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
15 Sep 12
Hi Ann! Yes you are right, we cannot really change the decision of the management. Thank you for sharing!
@toniganzon (72533)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
It's really disappointing when you have already been expecting and planning and then all of a sudden you find out it won't push through. But like what you said, what's a matter of a few more days compared to months.
Just hang in there and soon you will be home before you know it.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
15 Sep 12
I was really disappointed upon hearing the news and cannot control my tears. Thank you for sharing.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Sep 12
hi aries you will cope as we all can do more than we think we
can. just tie another knot in your rope and hang on. you will get there in due time and be happy in your new place, when the going gets tough we tough people will get going to cope and make things better too. I have learned to cope too and to survive in spite of things being turned upside down and feeling like we had been hit by a freight train,You can cope for just one month'and it will not be too hard.
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@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
15 Sep 12
That sucks you have to stay longer then they first said! Hopefully it won't be more then 10 extra days! I know you miss your family but I am sure will understand. I bet the extra days go fast and you will be home before you know it!
@41CombedaleRoad (5954)
• Greece
15 Sep 12
Hi, I don't know your circumstances Aries, so all I can suggest is that you take those ten days one at a time. I am glad that Mylot is comforting to you and I hope that your next move will be a better one.
Yesterday i was watching a film about Nelson Mandela, he said a poem helped him through the 16 years of hard labour he had to endure on Robin Island. One of the lines was ' I am the captain of my fate, I am the master of my soul.' The physical reality was the opposite, but he kept believing in himself and that got him through.
@moshishibie (252)
• China
15 Sep 12
for the people who have to leave hometown just as you and me,hometown is the warmest place in the world.Network as mylot can make a lot of friends together,to relieve our longing for home.
@phillip_shiny (2330)
• India
15 Sep 12
Hi ARIES1973,
Just like that, more or less the same thing happened to me just 2 days back. I bought a house recently and I got it from great struggle with lot of financial problems. I applied loan and it got delayed and at last my house was registered and everything got set on the right path. I thought I will get my house renovated in few days. So I planned with the right kind of mind set and started preparing for the new one.
Later the builder said that it will take atleast a month for the renovation and I was worried and started moving as time passed. So just need to wait for a month and a half to get into the new house.
So I mostly believe that when something takes time, it is going to be good.
Good luck.
Cheers, Have a nice day always.
Cheers, Have a nice day always.
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
15 Sep 12
It's ok to cry because of your disappointments. But the best is to be able to pick yourself back up and pass those feelings. Once you move on beyond your disappointment, everything will even be much better as you pass yet another, like you said, 'test' in life...
@wuweideshan (24)
• China
15 Sep 12
I hope you can cheer up,i want to tell you ,life is like this ,always according to your wishes to develop,but we must like it,work hard to change,if not,is optimistic to face,in any case,you must maintain a pleasant mood,only in this way,life will become better and better,only through true,i wish you good luck~~~~~~~
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
15 Sep 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, i am following your topics and know how much you are missing your family members, really this phone call made you terrible. What to do? as you mentioned you can cope this, don't worry, surely days will fly and you will go to your house soon.
@RSantos026 (288)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
Oh, sad to hear that my friend. We can still wait just hang on there is a right time for this...
I know this is really hard especially when you already planned it, this is another test of the almighty just be patient. You are right, myLot is here and we are here! ;)
have a nice day. :)
@linda0302 (53)
• China
15 Sep 12
Changes always go faster.
I'm sorry to your situation.
it's OK you feel bad,bore and disappointment,cause all of us tend to behave like that.
Take a little break,and then let go the passive mood,arrage your new plan,enjoy your time.
@mohdilman (1)
• India
15 Sep 12
Dont get upset , it is bad when plans go out of order but, some times it is said whatever happens ,happens for gud , so u may or may not understnad presently what is gud about it , but soon u will understand that yes whatever happened happend for gud, as we expect then we plan, but GOD plans which we can`t expect :-)
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
Don't feel bad my friend 
Relax and everything will be fine.
Yes, sometimes we cannot avoid feeling that way when we are already prepared only to know that it's cancelled etc..
It's just few days ...
Relax and everything will be fine.
Yes, sometimes we cannot avoid feeling that way when we are already prepared only to know that it's cancelled etc..
It's just few days ...
@riyauro (6421)
• India
15 Sep 12
yeah you are right to have it the positive way. Must be hurting at first but it is just the matter of a few more days. we must not start expecting things like that that hurts like this. Be cool and all good will happen. everything happens for good and who knows God made this changes so that he might save you from some accidents. never know. So what ever happens, happens for good. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
