When you are misunderstanded by others,will you explain to them?
By xiaopinggai
@xiaopinggai (483)
China
September 15, 2012 9:07am CST
It's not easy to be a good listener,as for the reasons,i believe ,you know there are varieties.
For instance,either you are too busy to listen,or you are so tired to concentrate on the topic.
But we have to give a response,though it seems a little perfunctory.
At that situation,if you are misunderstanded,will you explain to them?
5 responses
@pestengbata (180)
• United Arab Emirates
18 Sep 12
I hate explaining. I prefer to stay reserve and let them discover why/what/how.
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
18 Sep 12
Me too,if you explain,sometimes,they misunderstand deeper.
haha
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
16 Sep 12
Well,that's a good choice.
But i don't know why,i just dislike to explain.
haha,have a nice time
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
16 Sep 12
Wow,i wrote a wrong word ,it should be misunderstood,but ......oh,i feel........Forgive me.
When i realised that they prefer to misunderstood,i would be silent,explain to them just waste time.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
15 Sep 12
Hi xiao! I usually explain my side if I have been misunderstood by others especially with sensitive data. I know it will cause further trouble if I don't.
@xiaopinggai (483)
• China
16 Sep 12
Hum,you are right,but sometimes,the more you explain to others,the deeper the misundersood will be.
@randomarts09 (1405)
• Indonesia
15 Sep 12
I'm not a talkactive person, so I almost always keep a silent measure. But I always envy people who can explain when misunderstood... I think it's better to explain it when you misunderstood
