Girls always wanted to be treated special, what about the guys?

@rhodzptc (1317)
Philippines
September 17, 2012 10:17pm CST
In a relationship there would be times that both partners will loose both of those intimate feelings their have. This is common in most relationship and girls mostly blame it with their guys because when a guy gets what he wants from us in time he will became insensitive about our feelings. The question is why? Why do most relationship turns that way, the longer the relationship you have the more he became uninterested to you? We girls always want to be treated special? But have you ever had an idea how do our guys wants to be treated?
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11 responses
@blinjk (617)
• United States
18 Sep 12
Basing on my experience,you are right in saying that girls wanted to treated special.I really wanted my boyfriend to treat me the same way when we are still new in our relationship but things really change when our relationship is really getting longer.He is not that sweet anymore and sometimes I feel like he does not seem to care about me.I always tell what I feel for him but he always tell that it was only I who was thinking about those things.I really do not know what boys really feel but I just try to understand him or whatever he feels.
@rhodzptc (1317)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
Just like us boys love to be treated special but not the way we wanted instead they are longing for our care and caress.
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
3 Nov 12
I think both girls as well as guys want to be treated special Thanks for sharing.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
18 Sep 12
i find men are always treated specially. most women come home from work only to do more work like laundry and cooking and when men come home from work all they do is sit and relax.
• Indonesia
18 Sep 12
I think all couples want to be treated special. Men just like women want to be treated special but they never show it, that's what I learned from my relationship with my boyfriend. They do not say it because they do not like to say things that they think are not too important to talk about (?) They want to protect and make their partner happy, as a general standard that men are simple creatures and rely more on logic than feelings (I do not mean to say that women do not rely on logic)
@ronyang (52)
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
Guys also wanted to be treated special by our girl(s). Hihi. No. We just want to be treated fairly as we should be. To be treated as a responsible, loving and caring person.
18 Sep 12
is what you got to understand is women are alot more affictionate or how you speel it lol and some men dont show their feelings but 9 times outta 10 they love u with all their heart but just dnt show it
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
Well I guess for a guy like me, I do not require many things just letting us know that we are cared and loved is enough for me and no more special treatment is needed for me. I think men are less emotional on many aspects that is why we are misinterpreted to be not caring especially when we stayed long in a relationship.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
I guess that depends on each individual. I am the kind of the person who treat my man special. I am not showy but I have my own ways of treating my man very special. Actually, I am the one who treat my man more special than he treating me that way
@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
Guys also want to feel special, not just girls. What we want is appreciation the most, when we do something for girls, girls should make sure that they give the credit to us because we feel bad whenever our efforts are neglected we want it to be something appreciated by girls. We love to work hard for you so that we guys can make you girls happy so make sure that you notice these efforts or learn to appreciate it no matter what it is because it is from our hearts. Goodluck and Happy mylotting!
@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
Guys wanted to be respected. And feels they are the man that can handle a relationships.
@romzee (937)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
Who doesn't want to be treated specials? Mostly when a relationship ended blames are always pointed to us(man), its unfair! As a saying goes " It's easy to fall in love but hard to stay in love". Staying in love requires hard work between the two partners, the burden is not on the man nor the woman alone. Woman must understand his man, and the man should understand his woman. Man is not as expressive as his woman counterpart that always causes frictions in every relationship. I believe that a relationship is a partnership between two people in love and if ever this relationship break out, both should be blame for not trying hard enough. Cheers!