Can A Dead Man Or Woman Receive An Award???

@kongno (431)
Philippines
September 18, 2012 10:36am CST
i always wonder why some people always bother to do a lot of good things like giving flowers or even paying a simple visit to a love one but only when she or he is already dead, isn't it more appropriate to do all of this when they are still alive?
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
21 Sep 12
They do so cause they miss their passed friends or relatives. It is a way of missing them to pay them a visit with a bunch of flowers or such. This August after I went back to my hometown, my siblings and I went together to see where my beloved father was buried. I do so cause I miss my father a lot. Take care.
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@kongno (431)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
with this kind of respect you have with your father i guess that you also have a lot of nice time together with him when he was still alive...
@atleya (946)
• Indonesia
19 Sep 12
I think that I have same thinking with you. It is also strange for me, why people give more love when someone already die. Why we can not give the best love to our beloved family/friend/whoever when they all still with us in this world. So, this life will be so beautiful in our heart. Best wishes,
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@kongno (431)
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
i think it is when we have the somewhat instinct to do something good to our love ones we shall do it right away, or sooner maybe too late...
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
18 Sep 12
thinking over your discussion. perhaps only when we lose some guy then evaluate its performance. I think so too. but it may well not be. Then maybe just give him an honorary award as a person. nice day!
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• Philippines
22 Sep 12
I think you are definitely right kongno. I am really puzzled with people who bring food, flowers and stuff like that when they go to the cemetery especially when I know for a fact that they're not even in good terms when that person is still alive. It is hypocrisy and just a show to others that they care.
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
22 Sep 12
this is the situation where giving do not have it's true value anymore...
@SRSaba (1128)
• Chennai, India
25 Apr 18
hmmm... that is our ego and laziness!?