If you find the dark side of one person?

If that person is your friend and you are not like her you will bring out the best in her . We normally end up with friends that are opposite to us so we can change them or they change us . I have never had a friend like that but I would not end our friendship because of that ill have to find out why she do it and how many times .

For me, it is just only a hearsay from other people. If you have enough courage, then confront your friend about the issue. No need to drop names, just be a concern friend.

If you have proven that it is true then you need to tell her about it if you really care. It might hurt her, but you can always speak to her in a manner that she can feel you care and not to hurt her. It's not easy I know, but at least it give a try.

Don't judge someone by listening to others opinion. If I were in your position, I will not listen to that someone. I mean, I don't see it with my own eyes so why should I believe? There's always two sides of every story.

Dark side? But in that case, even you haven't verified the info yet. If I were you, I wouldn't believe it so easily. Even if it was the truth, I'll just pretend to not know about it. I'll be more careful though, but I wouldn't show it.

I make my own opinion about people. I don't care about what others say. If someone is good to me, I am good to that person. Who says the one who told you about your collegae is saying the truth? That person is not jealous or doesn't have his/her share in how your collegue behaves? How come you believe so easily what someone else is telling you? Are you someone who easily falls for gossip? Do you have any prove. To be honest, if I would be your collegue I would not like to have you for a friend anymore. As you said she was a good girl to you.. and what are you doing? You put her on the internet just because someone said things about her.

I had a best friend once who turned out to be very dark, and it turned out that the only reason that she had ever been friends with me in the first place was because I would help her out with her work. It was very sad to find this out, because I had treated her as a close friend and thought that she would be the kind of person who I would be friends with forever. This happened four years ago now, and it still hurts, and I think about her most of the time, but it is gradually getting easier and I am now trying to find other friends who like me for who I am and not just what I can give to them.

Don't judge her. I hope you will find out if it's true if you will try to get to know her. If you are worried about her taking advantage of your kindness, then you shouldn't allow her to do that. You should set a boundary. I hope she'll change for the better. People learn from their mistakes. I hope she'd realize it sooner. Goodluck. I hope you're the one who could change her from being a bad person to a good person. Happy mylotting and thanks for sharing.