Is it a big deal when it's the Woman who protect her Man ?
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
Philippines
September 21, 2012 6:09am CST
Is it a big deal when you see/hear/read something like this?
.........A woman who protect her man?...........
I am sure everyone knows the game "chess"
It's the queen's duty to protect the king, isn't awkward?
I am not a chess genius so I don't know what's behind every move and rules of this game.
However,a woman protecting her man happens in real life do exists.
Either physical or emotional, for sure there is a good reason why it is the woman who protects her man and not the other way round.
Maybe you can help me understand more with your responses dear mylotters.
Have a great weekend ahead everyone
jaiho®- wish to protect someone
9-21-2012
7:10pm Friday PT
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16 responses
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
21 Sep 12
Hi Jai,
Protecting her man from other girls???? Of course I am a Karate champ so who dares….. (just kidding)
A relationship is all about protecting and supporting each other emotionally, physically, financially and morally. When a man can protect a female, why not the other way? That has gifted us house-husbands too.
Ps: can I be the coach for Chess ?
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
hello viju,
Oh my, I am sure no one dares to go near your partner
I know everyone has different reason and view regarding this matter.
Anyway, I am glad to read every responses and thoughts.
I am learning and understanding a lot of differences
Yes, can you be my chess coach?
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
21 Sep 12
Dear sister,
Queen and King, is an old story for us. But in reality, wife is supposed to share everything with her husband. I mean, she is responsible to care her husbands and protecting him is considered as her duty in the old time. She will be with him for good and bad time. However, this may not be the situation at present any more.
I heard the story of famous poet's wife, the poet was playing but trapped in some place, but his wife was aware about the next move but she can't interfere as it is against the rule of game, but she sang a song for making her son to sleep by hinting what to do next in game, the intelligent hubby got her song's meaning and done the same and won the game.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Sep 12
I wish to hear the song....sang by my dear sister
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
dear sis
Great explanation and a very good example.
I wrote an article about this subject.
I believe that a woman must protect her man/husband/partner because men are weak when it comes to the woman they love.
A woman can make a king bow down and kneel.
A woman can melt a warrior's stone heart.
A woman can create and can destroy a hero.
Nice to see you again dear sis and have a great weekend
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@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
23 Sep 12
A woman might have to protect her spouse if he is disabled, either physically or mentally. Things do happen. I see that here in this communit¥ where the men come home from the war in bad shape. It can be the other way 'round, also, but this discussion is about females taking care of their male spouses..
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
hello bellis,
You are right, that's one of the best reason why it happens that way.
We know very well that men should and must protect the women but with what you have wrote- you justify a good reason
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
hi jai,
I also want to protect someone
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
Protect someone from the rain or sun?
Well, an umbrella is good enough
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
21 Sep 12
I protect my husband and he protects me. When you love someone weather your a women or not your always going to want to protect the ones you love. People always assume because a man is stronger that a women needs a man to protect her because females are made out of be the weak ones. When women are not week we are just as strong as men if given the chance to. Protection isn't a gender thing its a life thing, you would risk your life for the people that you love. I protect my husband from some of the crazies of my family and he protects me from his or I protect him from his family because my parents didn't a raise me to take crape from anyone. I might be a women but I can still kick a$$ if I have to and this mamma won't let anyone her her man or her babies.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
hello shybear,
I agree that woman thu considered as weak compared than men have all the ability and capacity of protecting a man in every situation.
Being strong doesn't always mean, physically strong but emotional strength sometimes is better than using physical strength.
I know what a mother and a wife can do when it comes to her man and her kids
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
23 Sep 12
That are some women that are physically stronger then guys. It's the beauty of being human each every person has different strengths and weakness. I'm emotionally stronger then my husband he is physically stronger then me but I can hold my ground if need to be. My parents raised me to be a tough girl.
@FerretSAGE (10)
• United States
25 Sep 12
nope not at all. love when my lady protects me ha ha its kinda cool every now and then to see the reverse roles kick in.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 Sep 12
Protecting the spouse means protecting the family. No one wants their family to fall apart. Love is another reason for protecting your spouse. Your spouse may be vulnerable in someway and protecting is necessary.
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@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
21 Sep 12
I think the other way around, too. Ideally, men protect women, right jaiho2009? Emotionally, perhaps, women protect their men.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
hello yanzalong,
I agree that it should be the other way round.
But we can't deny the fact there are instances that, it is the woman who protect the man.
Emotionally, yes as always.
It seems the woman is always stronger when it comes to this aspect.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
21 Sep 12
ahah i guess in chess, even i dont know how to play it, its the queen that protects the king bcs actually thats what happened in kingdom's time. the king had a lot of mistresses and the queen, even knowing about it, just shut to protect her king. i think that was a very sad life but thats what happened. i know the story about henry the eight and his wife catherine, knew that he was involved with mary and
with anne boleyn and she still been beside him till he expell her from the kingdome. she always protected him even he just didnt care for her feelings. so i guess thats why maybe in chess its the queen that protects the king and not the other way around. actually if this is the reason, im happy that at least, someone appreciated the sacrifices queens did for their kings
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
hello Kat,
I've read and watch the movie "Another Boleyn Girl".
It's a very sad story of love and bravery
That's one of the best example of true love and what does a woman can do when it comes to love
@rambansal (574)
• India
21 Sep 12
A woman completes a man and vice-versa. This way, they protect each other too. Else both get shattered under burden of their half personalities..
In physical terms, the man is made to protect the woman and take care of her in all respects. She is a flower to be appreciated and enjoyed..
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Sep 12
hello ram,
A woman completes a man, I agree and that is the reason why a woman can also break a man
Thanks and have a great day
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
22 Sep 12
Jai, in most of the places man protects the woman, there is nothing wrong if a woman protects her man, woman have lot of powers lies within her and she is capable to take care of her man as well as protect him like a chess queen
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Sep 12
hello vidh,
Women can do wonders especially when it comes to her loved ones.
I agree, like how the chess queen protect her king, women in real life can do more than that.
have a great weekend my friend
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Sep 12
hello Shavkat,
Definitely, both must protect each other from whatever circumstances that arise in between.
It's nice to see couple/s who did everything to save their relationship no matter how hard it is..
Have a great weekend
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Sep 12
hello romzee,
You are right, it is about family and not just individual
have a great weekend
@randomarts09 (1405)
• Indonesia
22 Sep 12
I think since they're are partners so there is nothing wrong for a woman to protect her man of course to protect each others may be a better terms.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Sep 12
hello randomarts,
Yes, there is nothing wrong and like what you wrote, they are partners and must work together with the relationship.
thanks and have a great weekend
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
hello savypat,
Partners
I consider this word "partners" a complete definition for this situation
@riyauro (6421)
• India
21 Sep 12
i have had it alot. there is nothing bad in a women protecting her husband. i do protect my husband. Emotionally i protect him everyday. We are there for each other and to encourage each other and there is no harm. if man can protect the wife why can't a wife protect her husband. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
hello riya,
I like the way you wrote , emotionally you protect him everyday
Nice avatar