Having in a bad relationship or not having a man at all?

Every relationship is different. If the first try failed then you can still try for the second time. Maybe the second try is another failed relationship but it doesn't mean that it's a bad relationship. I agree that, it maybe the person- maybe you haven't found the right person. Every failed relationship leaves you something to learn- until it comes to perfection.

That's a good question! One can decide by weighing the good with the bad. The question here should be more like this; bad relationship vs good relationship. How far is too far?? Some women love being treated badly while others like being treated like they're fragile. I guess u have to ask urself some questions like how would u like to be treated by the other person? Is it worth it? We r strong individuals. We have babies, if we can do that then we can do just about anything! I personally would be single then in a bad relationship. I haven't been in one parsay but I have seen it and I didn't like it. Sometimes the right person for u is right in front of ur face. It could be that best friend that's always there when no one else is there...the one that loves u for u even tho ur already married and have kids... I wish u well on this second hubby! Just remember these things ok and ill do great! 1) communication;always talk to him in a calm manner and consider his feelings. 2) no one is perfect; everything must be give and take; don't go to bed angry! And always find time to snuggle and kiss :) I have noticed that when I kiss my habanero the mood changes in him and me and I feel better. However if u find urself doing everything and he doesn't help, say something about it. 3)a man always loves a woman who is strong and independent and smart. And if he hits u and says he's sorry u better smack him back and HARD! Otherwise he's gonna keep doing it.. Sorry about that last part but its true!

Well my friend for me all i can say is true love waits. You wait for the right person who will be your companion for life. The one who can stick on you whatever happens because he/she loves you very much! Love is kind and pure so if you dont have a botfriend now maybe you did not met yet.

I've been there and done that. Too many times. I'm going to assume that you are fairly young. So after you get down the road a bit, I think you'll find that it's much better having no man at all. (Remember this when you get to about 60 yrs old.) I've been happy now for over 30 years now without any cluttered up relationships.

Wow this is something difficult for me to answer. I don't know your exact situation before so I couldn't react that much. If that will happen to my marriage, I guess I will try to save it first. I'd do everything for my son not to have a broken family. If I couldn't save it, I'll just stay single as long as I can. I don't wanna get involved with another relationship again. If I would be given another chance, I hope he'd be the right one already and be my partner for life. I hope my son would accept him and he also would accept my son. That's all. LOL. Happy mylotting.

hi ofz, I have a friends who had a broken relationship they choose to try it again and few choose to be alone along with their kids. I had my first bf and things did not turn good after 7 years of relationship but still I am willing to try another relationship but no man is enough to prove that they are not the same welcome to mylot

i have been n a bad relationship myself but i am cautious... Never have i told myself i wont be having any man because of the bad experience. I still believe that not all men are the same and some are worth our times and some does need to be given the chance.

Well right now, I think you are still opting for getting someone in your life a partner to be with. First thing to know about relationships is conflict. This cannot be avoided since both of you have different lives, habits and values in life before you got hooked together. That is the risk you have both have to take to live together despite your differences in points of view. If you can live with that then I guess you have answered your first question. For the second option, still depends on you. There are person that can happily live without a man or woman on their side to support and love them. They can survive life without it and live a better life. So choosing that would depend on the situation you are in. If you are happy despite that difficulties and conflicts then just stay there but if you can live happier alone then choose this one. It will definitely differ from people to people since they have their own stories behind the choices they made in life.

I never thought I was suppose to have a man in my life at all. So to have a guy that likes me and loves me is wonderful. I say keep looking for a man to love that loves you.There is a guy out there.

Having no man at all is better that having the wrong man. In a lady's lifetime she might have a few different romantic relationships. Lets imagine a lady having one man from 1989 until 1995 and next a short relationship that didn't work out from 2007 until 2008. Then the lady might think that no man is better than her last awful boyfriend. She would want to find and keep her soul mate. In dating the two men she might have a better idea of her ideal man. One of my friends says there is no such thing as a perfect man for her. She thinks that there are advantages and disadvantages to every man that she had dated in the past. Sometimes a lady is single and intends to stay that way then her ideal man comes along so she begins dating again. You should write a list of the qualities your ideal man would have. My ideal man would be vegan, love animals and be keen on traveling. He would be polite, intelligent, honest, caring, thoughtful, interesting to chat to and charming to spend time with. He would be gentle and kind to me. He and I would enjoy going to the same sorts of places. Looks wise I like black, brown or ginger hair and cleanly shaven. My best ex-boyfriend I dated to eight months and so it was a shame that relationship didn't last forever. When a relationship is bad the lady is better off single. Good luck.

Hello friend Before asking this question, you must have some positive energy and you should realize that what went wrong with first relationship and what is going wrong with another. It might not be easy to live life alone and we are human beings who can make mistakes in choosing people but it is completely up to us that to whom we chose so we can't blame any one for that. You never know that when you will find the right guy for you as initially every guy seems good and they behave very gentle but with time you realize lot of stuff. To have a healthy relationship both needs mutual understanding and should trust each other. In your case, I will say you should not think that you should give up on going for another man or you should stop looking for next man, life does not end here dear... you might find a better man in future. Just be positive with your life and everything will go right. Instead of thinking of more future, better concentrate on your present relationship and try to find out that how both of you can make it better and provide it strength. Good luck with your relationships, Be positive and you will not have to think for more relationships if you can strengthen the same :)

Hi! In a sense I did the same thing you did; I had a bad marriage before that did a lot of self-image damage. Fortuneately was in a position to leave it and get myself back together. Not wanting to go through anything like it again, I took my time and really thought it through before acting. I was still in touch with a good friend from high school; the kind you can really trust and we visited for a few days at a time. Eventually we moved in together and despite a few skirmishes, it has worked out for the better. So it's not worth being in a bad relationship. If you're in one and you're becoming the kind of person you don't want to be, get out of it!

Definitely relationships take a lot of work, but if both parties work at it, a relationship can be very rewarding. But, when it comes to finding the right relationship, I believe that how we see ourselves is very important. If a person learns to love him/herself and learns to be happy on his or her own, then I believe one is more likely to attract the right person. The bonus is that if one doesn't attract the right person, you will have a happy life anyway.

Relationships are not expected to be happy at all times. There is always and always hard and bad times. It only depends on the two persons on how they'e going to handle things. I'd rather be with the one I love and face problems together as it is part of everything. It'll makes us stronger and inspired.

I say forget about your web search answers or theories because you are in a real relationship which does not follow anyone else's experiences or theories. With your experience, I am sure you would know whats and the hows to know when the other party is not right for you and that it is time to cool down and walk away. It is not a failure but rather another lesson from your crossroad of life. Exercising your choice does not make you a lesser person but an important step to self preservation and most of all, self love. Sometimes we need to follow the traffic lights in life just like driving, stop when the light is red instead of beating it and get into more dire consequences. Perhaps that is the reason how people just fail every now with their choices of their partners repeating the same mistakes and ending with the wrong partners to fail the relationships. Remember, the first lesson of love is always about self love.

In my opinion not having a man at all is not a good idea. Have bad relationship is unforeseen events that we can't predict without trying it. Better to open all the time and don't close your heart even if you suffer a lot of bad relationship.

When we engage our self to any intimate relationship, we are also taking the risk. The risk of a broken relationship should not hinder us to take another one. It simply because it teaches valuable lessons in life in which we only learn through experience. Better to take the risk than not taking at all. Otherwise, we will missed the opportunity to be happy. And if everything goes as planned, you will ended up having the happiest moment in your life.

Well, i think if i were on your shoes, i would really work hard to keep this second relationship a lasting one. But if it doesn't i would welcome another relationship again and again, because to love is to be ready to get hurt.

"But it's al-right now, I learned my les-son well; See ya can't please an-y-one Un-less you please your-self." Do you love yourself more if you're living for someone else, or if you're living for yourself?

Loving someone and at the end of the day you find out that the love was never mutual is really something for anyone to break down and feel they don't need to fall in love again.But i tell you is not bad in trying and trying till you find the right one okie let me say if all the successful men we have today gave up we will never have heard of them cos after every disappointment they kept on fighting. so my advice to you is never keep your heart from loving all you need to do is try and see what happened to your 1st marriage and try not to make it happen in your second. wishing you all the best.