Money has turned her into a greedy person
By micha5088
@micha5088 (554)
Malaysia
September 25, 2012 9:29am CST
I have a friend who is quite successful in her career as a freelance property agent. I envy and also admire her when she shares how she easily hit it big, earning four to five figures every month selling and renting out properties. So, I tried to learn from her, I want to know her business tactics and everything about the ins and outs of becoming a successful property agent. At first, it was okay, I learn she even had a humble beginning, and I admire her even more after that.
But slowly as I learn more from her, I begin to see her 'imperfection'. I know what you're thinking, you'll be saying...so what! no one's perfect! I absolutely agree with that statement. No one is perfect! And so is my friend. Her success, unfortunately has turned her into a very greedy person and I also see the nasty side of her in running her business. So, the "Love for money is the root of all evil"...do you agree?
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@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
good day micha5088,
for me, the love for money is not really the root of all evil. hence, it is just how the people handles the money and the situation where the money involves. if people will just learn how to handle money appropriately, then, it will not be tagged that way. as what you have mentioned, your friend became greedy, so it is the attitude that is at stake here. it is how she have handled the situation.
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@GemmaR (8517)
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25 Sep 12
I do think that money can do bad things to a person, and I am unfortunate enough to be able to say that I am the one who has become slightly obsessed with money of late. One of the reasons for this is because I work writing articles and I earn money based upon the number of views that my articles get. Because of this, there is technically no limit to my earning and this means that it is all too easy to let my work take over, and spend an hour extra here and there trying to get views. I am getting a little better now, and usually manage to switch my laptop off after dinner, but unfortunately there is still a part of me that gets completely taken over by the prospect of making more money.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
25 Sep 12
I disagree just because she want to earn more money in her successful sales profession in property industry should make her a greedy person, if she is working extremely hard and put in extra effort trying to make more than what she already have doesn't her a greedy woman, she may have her reason for wanting to earn more in addition to her four to five figure monthly income. I refuse to judge her base on her willingness to work harder to make more as driven by greed, it make be a symbol of success or prestige status for her trying to make more compare to other sales professional in her industry that turn her into such a money hungry sales woman. In property business, a sale person ability usually is measured by the amount of sales value she can generate from customers, and also her earning capacity is closely related to the total value of property she can sell, there is no limit on the income she can earn a month. Of course, she is in the sales profession, she is not into a Miss Universe competition, i can't blame her for not being 'perfect' in your sight and in your mind, that is the least concerns for her right now as far as she is the top sales associate among her peers, she is feeling good. You need to chill and see it from the bright side on her instead of expecting perfection from her.
@micha5088 (554)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 12
You have slyly described me as someone who is "jealous" of my friend. Believe me I am NOT. My friend is already doing well in her property business. I know that sales people are trained to be "greedy" so that they will keep on selling and selling. But if the business offer is out of her expertise, and the money generated is not as lucrative as selling properties, why would she risk accepting this type of business? It is best to just say NO and pass that business to people who have the knowledge and expertise to do it. Isn't this action just plain greedy and stupid? I should add that last word...The love of money is also the beginning of stupidity...
@lampar (7584)
• United States
25 Sep 12
NO, my friend, sales persons are trained to be 'driven', not 'greedy'. Most part of their high income came from commission from closing sales. From this perspective, they are motivated to sell more and more in order to earn more in addition to their small base salary. From your description, it may be stupid on her part to risk accepting business offer that is not within her expertise, and involve herself in business deal not as lucrative as selling property. But without knowing the full circumstances surrounding her action and decision, i can't blame her for that. She may have her own personal reason to divert into a business that is not related in her traditional career, i don't want to be harsh on her. I also believe you are not a jeolous type too, you have a wrong assumption from my response.
@micha5088 (554)
• Malaysia
26 Sep 12
Hmmm okay lampar, I got your point. She is the type that will pursue even to the one digit profit, I guess that's why she is good in selling. But I think she needs to fix her public relation because she doesn't always treat her customer right. She is the dominating type and speaks as fast as lightning, only certain customers can keep up with her. And I'm sort of partnering with her (unofficially), whenever there are opportunities that benefit both of us, we will help each other. Thanks for responding to my thread and happy mylotting. *BIG smile*
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
Its one of the many definition of money as the root of all evil. But sometimes, money can really be your friend if you know how to handle it. Simply because it can also be use to help other people. And I knew many people who had done that already. Most of us maybe do not know this simply because these people doesn't want to publicly announce that they are helping other people. All we heard are the negative aspect of having money but the positive side of it will never be known to many.
And for the love of money, greediness will surely followed. But for the righteous people, money is simply a material thing in which one cannot bring to the grave nor to heaven.
@micha5088 (554)
• Malaysia
26 Sep 12
Philantropists are people who give out money for a good cause. They have a lot of extra money but they do this not because they are kind, they're still greedy. They 'donate' solely for the purpose of increasing the reputation of their business and of the leader that represents the conglomerate.
Those who donate money but keep quite about it are the 'real' donater, they do it without expecting any kind of rewards and they are the ones that we should imitate. These are the smart rich people who are NOT greedy.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
hi micha,
I experienced the same too........I know some people who become rich and changed their attitude because of money and it is so sad.
happy mylotting
@Jatelo2 (166)
• Nairobi, Kenya
26 Sep 12
I'll vote with you on this. However, I would like to know what you meant by 'Nasty Side' of her business. You can't just brand someone greedy with out a genuine reason!
@micha5088 (554)
• Malaysia
26 Sep 12
Hi jatelo, she can be nasty with potential customers that she doesn't like. A few weeks ago, we had a customer but she didn't like him so she 'kicked' the customer out by being nasty, the most obvious dislike scene that makes any customers flee at once.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
26 Sep 12
people don't turn greedy. They are greedy. they are greedy becuase they fear that there isn't enough for everyone so they have to hoard it, in this case money for themselves.
Money is not evil, but people do to get it and keep it is evil. Money is a thing, how you feel about money will determine if you will have any or not. If you think money is evil, you will do everything to not be able to have and keep it. because why would you want to keep something that is evil to you.
Don't think of money as evil. it is as important as your arm or air or love. you need it to be able to take care of yourself and your family. Respect it and do what takes that makes you feel happy and comfortable to make it
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 12
Almost every sales person are like that. I have met many of them, and working for them too, the way they approach you at the beginning is very good in manner but later on you will find them doing nasty things for money. I don't like that either.
@micha5088 (554)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 12
So true. Sometimes I feel like she treats me as if I am her employee because she talks to me like I have failed resolving the matter that she has asked me to do. But I am NOT her employee. She accepted the offer of business, bragged that she could run just any kind of businesses only to find in the end that it is an impossible undertaking if one has no knowledge and expertise in that area. Then she starts becoming nasty and her public relation is one of the worst I have ever seen and I start wondering how on earth did this woman become successful??? Work hard, nasty and bad pr equal to success???
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
28 Sep 12
You hit the nail on the head. I hope you can learn from the good ideas your friend has and discard the bad.
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
We all love money and there is nothing bad to love money. Money can be a symbol of power over other people so maybe that is the reason why people wants to be more greedy. It gives them great power.
@Otanetix (508)
• United States
25 Sep 12
I do not think that love for money is the root of all evil; it might entice someone to change how they commit to certain actions, but it does show us the nature of a person once they are exposed to such success. I have some friends who have started their own tech businesses. From their humble beginnings starting their companies, they themselves started to change and not become so humble. Some of them had their personalities became a bit more egotistic as soon as they made some profit, but some of them did not really change their personalities.
I think it's dependent on the person themselves. If you allow money to corrupt your mind, then you will become more dependent and might reveal a darker side of yourself. But earning lots of money does not always mean people will change for the worst. This can be observed on how they spend their money. If they spend their money more frivolously than they should, they are being manipulated by money; however, if they hold their composure and not allow money to change them by making smart decisions about spending money, then money is being used for good.
@micha5088 (554)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 12
Yes otanetix, you are right. In other words, more plainly explained, is that, don't love money too much. There must be a balance because if you love money too much, you will become a "changed" person, but changed for the worst. Money is only good when you know how to put it into good use. Happy mylotting!
@AllThingsJuliet (15)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
ABSOLUTELY! As it is written in the Bible "For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil; which some reaching after have been led astray from the faith; and have pierced themselves through with many sorrows" (1 Timothy 6:10) Money can make our life comfortable, we are able to buy the comforts and pleasures in this world. But if one will love money more than their neighbor, in other words, if one puts money on a pedestal and set aside doing the right things, then no good will come out of it.
@micha5088 (554)
• Malaysia
26 Sep 12
Well said, juliet. I absolutely agree with you. There's more to life than just chasing after money. Happy mylotting!
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
25 Sep 12
That does happen, especially if someone is suddenly making money too quickly and too easily. They start to worship money. It also happens if someone grew up in poverty, and even though they are now making money hand over fist, still they feel as if they are not making enough so that feel that even if they make about lets say, a thousand a day, they will lose it in an instant. With business, however, you may have to concentrate on it, but she really should not try so hard.
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
I think not all person becomes bad when it comes to money. However, most people I know really becomes greedy in terms of money. I guess having money on their hand wants them to have more and more money even they stepped out someone in their way.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
25 Sep 12
nowadays that is the problem,people are becoming so jealous and quite greedy for sure because of only one reason which is money,so it is the root cause of social problems i agree
@41CombedaleRoad (5952)
• Greece
25 Sep 12
Sometimes it happens that people who have started poor are unable to handle money when they get rich. It goes to their heads. I hope this has not happened to your friend and that she will come to realise that money is spoiling her relationship with you.
As you wrote, it is the love of money that is the root of all evil, not money itself. Many wealthy people has proved that they can put their money to good use by helping charities and people in need. Those people are great examples of the good that money can do in the right hands.
@blinjk (617)
• United States
26 Sep 12
I really do not think that money is the root of evil because we need money in order to buy things but what make it evil is that other person being so greedy in having a lot of it.The people do all things just for money even if they step on other people or even if they do bad things are the one who is bad.
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
her rags to riches story has made her confident in her business sense, which is good. but it does not mean that it can be applied to all types of businesses. that's when you learn to hire experts if you really want to venture in it because you can sense the potential. what i think has happened that you're reacting to is that she is becoming unethical and has started to see everyone and everything as "objects" to benefit her.