Are you going to beg for love?

Dear Ms. Bingskee It depends how you define begging for love. Mostly it is a kind of begging when love is involved and the other person needs to be convinced that you are in love. Some also misinterpret the tall tasks that one does to win the heart also as a kind of begging. In case my son or daughter is going to be begging for love... well, I can only tell the one that instead of begging make yourself that important to the other one that s/he cannot deny when you propose to her... but all that only if the love is genuine... I had mentioned all I could to her when I proposed her - my ill health, the fact that I have to live with it and much more. It could have been interpreted as begging if she did not accept or see the love for her.

For some people who are in desperate situation, they used to beg to survive. The life can never be fair if people will scrutinize or criticize them. It is so unfair, what if life will overturn to them.

I did experience where I admire one girl. She is the kind that don't like to be in love with anybody due to her religion practice. I like her very much and if it's not wrong, I really love her. Since I knew her not going to get involve in love, I just place no hope in myself to win her heart. But I do met her once to tell her that I like her. She just quite and never look at my face. After that, I notice that she sometimes looking silencely and smile at me. But I never talk to her again about my feeling to her.

I have been the person that has begged for love in the past and because of that experience, I will say that I would really feel sad for my children if they were ever in a situation that they were doing this. The reason that I would feel so sad is because of the fact that sometimes doing this does make the relationship continue, but it takes a different course than it had had in the past. For example, in my situation, the relationship that I was in became a very abusive relationship. I don't think anyone should have to deal with that kind of a relationship either.

I don't think so. I am quite the proud person so I don't think I can or will resort to that. But if the guy is right, maybe I'll eat my own words in this response.

well it depends if it matters a lot i will surely do or else its out of the bounds

It seems that chances are; "Knock and you shall be opened, Ask and you shall receive." For me, it'a all about a wonderful force that would make people drive nuts and beg for it. Have it their way, if you're going to ask my opinion. If they're seeking for it, let them be; for they will find it in other places aside from you (in case you don't have any) Happy mylotting :)

I always feel sorry for people who have to beg for love because I don't think that love is worth having if you have to beg people for it. However at the same time, my current partner had do persuade me to enter into a relationship with him at the beginning and I wouldn't do it, but he didn't give up and now we have been together for three years and everything is great. If my child was begging me for love then there is no question about it, I would give them that love. I think that every Mother loves their child no matter what might have happened.

I would not beg someone for their love. Love is something that can not be forced. It is given freely or it is not given at all. If love needs to be begged for then it is not worthy of the feeling.

If i have a daughter or son, I don't think I can control them if that is what they like. Sometimes love can make us do something we really don't want to - that is because we are in love. As for myself, I don't think I would like to beg for love too. If it not meant for me then I would just accept it too.

Well I promise to myself that if someone whom I really love leaves me, I won't beg him to stay. Because I don't want that person to feel guilt rather than love. Its wrong in my opinion to beg for someones love because you are just cheating to yourself. :)

In order to keep a child from begging for love, I think that it is important to teach a child as much possible, as much as we can about what we know about love. Of course they will never really know about it until they experience it for themselves. Love is very powerful thing. It can make people do many strange things, things that they would never do if they were not love. Love can take a person over because love is a very strong force. That being said, like I said, I think the answer is to teach a child all that one knows about love, how it can make you feel crazy and sad and mad and angry and happy...all in one day. I would also teach a child that love is not something that you beg for, love has to be felt. You can't force it, you can't order it, it either is there or it isn't. I would teach this to my child over and over again with all of the other life lessons that one has to teach a child about, like--not to lie, or not to steal. I would make sure that I teach this lesson often because that is how kids learn, by repetition. Repeating something over and over again, not in the same day, but throughout their life.

No not at this point in my life that I have reached. I have done it before though and it was not worth it in the end. People might just end up using you because they know your weak point when you beg for their love. Love should come naturally and it definitely takes time to finally convince someone to love you, but begging is a bit too much eh? But in the end it depends on each individuals ways of thinking when it comes to love. :)

figure out what they needed and give it to them. love is the easiest thing we can give as humans. but the hardest thing to find. finding the right person is a challenge. If we do the work, we will be rewarded ten fold.

I think when there are some miss understanding and the person is leaving that is different and I would tell him not to leave me or in other words as you said beg him. But if the person has no feelings for me and does care about me, I would never beg him for love. So, if i have kids one day, I will teach them the same and if it has to happen it will happen. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.