Time and love is not enough for a relationships

Philippines
September 28, 2012 4:22am CST
A man usually do lots of fun while in a relationship. Doing great things for the one that they love. Almost giving all the time just to make a woman happy and make her special. But how can you make a woman happy if she needs more than love and time? How could can you give it to her? Even you doesn't know how to produce that what she needs. And the things that she wants, can be achieve through other people. That's why love and time is not enough for a relationship to last long.
8 responses
@GemmaR (8517)
28 Sep 12
There are lots of things that you need in a long term relationship, and time and love are just two of them. This might be all that you need in a sort term relationship because you're getting to know each other, but once you've been together for a while then you need to start thinking about things such as what you both want to get from your life and whether you want to have a family, buy a house or travel the world. Whichever you do is fine, the most important thing is that you have to make sure that you both want the same thing.
28 Sep 12
I agree! I think that time and love are definitely two things that build a healthy relationship but in order to keep up and maintain a happy and healthy relationship it takes more than time and love. Goals, hard work, decision making and effort are required to keep a relationship moving and growing. I don't think that a successful relationship can thrive on just time and love alone. There's definitely something to be said for the idea that relationships take a lot of hard work...the good ones do at least.
• Philippines
1 Oct 12
For more than 3 years I give her my love and time. but still it won't work on her. For her love and time is not enough. That's why I feel sad why she acts like that. hmmmm... Maybe we are not for each other.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
28 Sep 12
Well must say thanks for the above discussion. Being in a relationship does not mean giving only love and time to your partner. In fact it needs a lot more things other than time and love. u should have the capability to keep the relationship growing without letting any misunderstandings or outside elements interfering in your relationship. u have to know about how to face the challenges and overcome them with your partners. U also need to keep your partner satisfied by complementing and supporting him/her all the time. What say?
• Philippines
1 Oct 12
yeah..you're right..I did everything in order to keep our relationship strong,but she's different. For her love and time is not enough.More than that I can no longer give. I feel sad..
@ChoukseyMK (1045)
• India
29 Sep 12
Hi, a real love doesn't need any thing more. today's lifestyle is different inspite time and love girls need money. but depends. all fingers of a hand are not equal in size.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
29 Sep 12
Well, in love both are fair, it means both should give their love and they will receive what they give. Love and time are enough for being in relationship, what do you want to have more? money? expensive gifts?
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 12
Looks like you are asking me to gaurd my partner lest she should flee away from me. I dont like being into that relationship that exploits my love and time only. Its the duty for both of us, the two to sustain the relationship. We have to understand that relationship should not be so flint enough to be broken within a second. Its the duty for both of us to restore the relationship at any cost if it gets colapsed or tired. The two partner will have to work hard to build the building like relationship and help it rise upwards. Actually we ll have to need enough philosophy to love each other.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
I think my friend, you yourself only knew that the time and love you are giving to your girl were enough already but for her it's not.Better to talk with her and ask what she really needs and what should you do to satisfy her with your love and time. Girls are really demanding with time. Me myself really demanding with my boyfriend. I want his attention always.I do not know maybe this is already the nature of a girl.haha..
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
29 Sep 12
Time and love cannot be the only thing a person bring to the table . You should grow together and if your growing in love then all the other things will fall into place . You spend quality time , go out get to know each other . I dont think if they are in love they will want anything from anyone else if that is the case something is missing and it maybe "LOVE" and all the other elements that come with love . People sometimes mistake what they feeling for love and love is not always mutual
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
29 Sep 12
i agree with you on this entirely for sure,since time is not at all enough nowadays for any kind of work and relationship.we must take space and do love i believe