Make your personality louder.

Yes, only when we do or say something reasonable, people will respect us. However, if we just pay attention to what we feel and ignore others, our ideas can hardly be accept because people may think they are ridiculous. If we dare to speak out our ideas, that does mean we are confident. But if we think we are omniscient, we are completely wrong, and people will also regard us as an arrogant and ridiculous persons and ignore us thoroughly.

i dont know why some people feel the need to get angry and shout to get their point across, all these people do is upset other people and if the they think that there right its worse. If you want a proper dicussion it should be civilised and friendly.

I do believe that if we use a loud tone of voice all the time and we act like we know all that there is to know about everything then people will have a tendency to not really listen to what we have to say. With that said, I do think that the best thing that we can do is to try to make sure that we use a softer tone of voice and use more positive body language and then people will listen to us more than they would have listened to us otherwise. I don't think the size of our personality so much matters, I think that it really has to do with the way that we say things.

Nice discussion, congrats, shouting in public places, meetings, works at times; but it has more effect if your personality is impressive

The member you have mentioned here seems to be aggressive.I have also encountered such persons several times and my experience says that nobody listens to them.People dislike such behavior.We all like polite and soft speaking persons who don't tend to force us to accept their suggestions and toe their line.People who speak loud try to dominate others,but nobody wants to be dominated.

Hi friend, you are right, if we are living in an apartment we don't disturb other persons with our activities. We must keep quite and do our talking activities without disturbing other persons, sad to hear about that noisy person. Hope he will change his activity soon

Some people are loud because they don't hear very well. Others are loud because they were raised in a boisterous family. The important thing is not to judge people by the sound of their voice, but by the content of what they say.

Very true. In order for one to listen, you need to explain yourself in a way acceptable and not imposed.

That's true roshigo. Sometimes when a person is outwardly arrogant and so vocal, people wouldn't want to listen to him anymore. So, sometimes we have to tone down our personality so that people will be interested to listen to what we have to say. Let's be considerate of others too, not always Me, I, Myself.

I agree with you. Most of us don't like this kind of person. The sad thing is that they don't know that there are people who don't like them. They continue acting arrogantly.

i agree, some people feel that way, they think or have this misconception that they are the ones who have the whole knowledge on this earth, such people are always avoided by others , but poor people wont realize this, yes people should know about us through our works .

Making your personality louder does not solve anything. Make your personality likeable, warm and not stand-offish. People soon recognize the person in charge if you are diplomatic rather than bombastic. Listen without interrupting the person, give information that can help the majority. Never shout back; it makes you one of them.

Hi.. thanks for sharing. Yes, I agree with you. The consistent personality will speak louder. People will see, who is behave as his/ her words. And vica versa. Good luck!

we can find these people all the time.neglect always make it worse from my experiences,despite it's my first reaction.people of this kind are always tough to get along with,so communication has to be the last card to be played.i really don't know what to do confronted this situation.just run away? it's worth a try...