Do you add people that you do not know in facebook?
By blinjk
@blinjk (617)
United States
October 1, 2012 8:22pm CST
I have lots of friend request and sometimes I really do not know these persons.Some people add friends because of games.I have did that also but then when I am tired playing games at facebook.I have deleted the people I really do not know because there was a guy who is harassing me.So I have to block this person.Now,I just add the people that I know.How about you guys?
29 responses
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
2 Oct 12
I only add people that I know I don't add people that I don't know or have ever meet. When people send me friends request and I do know them and my husband doesn't know them I just hit the ignore button because I don't want strangers that I don't know having me as there friend.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
2 Oct 12
I too do the same. Why add strangers and be spammed. i dont take that risk.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
3 Oct 12
Yep and I don't add random people that I talk to online either as friends on facebook unless we have personally meet and hanged out a few times. Most of the people on my facebook is all family a few mom friends that have kids the same age as mine.
@getenotes (18)
• Canada
2 Oct 12
I dont add those whom i dont know in my real life. I am not interested in making virtual friend in facebook. Usually i message the person who send me request that if they know me or not, do i know them in real life.... You can try this.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
2 Oct 12
I think facebook is a medium to keep in touch with people you know. I too stay away from strangers
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
2 Oct 12
And that's the way I do it. I have always just had real friends on facebook. I have somethi ng like 15 friends. They're all people that I have worked with or friends that have moved out of state. You have to be careful these days.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
2 Oct 12
With so few friends, you can always be in touch with them. You easily get to know what happens in their life.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
2 Oct 12
I too have never added strangers. I did this mistake in orkut. Dont want to repeat it here.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
2 Oct 12
Since I dont use facebook apps, i never encountered these issues. I strictly keep off strangers.
@carloscourtney (17)
• United States
3 Oct 12
I also only add people that I know, mostly because I just think its weird let strangers view pictures and read statuses about my life when they dont even know me!
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
That is so true. I have this addiction before about playing facebook online games and I added people who are on facebook which I don't know who played the same games with me. But when a person added me I refused it co's I remember that it's not good having other people looking at my wall post and pictures. Then now, I stop playing facebook games anymore and yet those people I added because of the game is still my facebook friend.
It boggles me actually why other people just love it when someone they don't know added them and they accept it right away. Facebook is not like mylot that you need to build up friends to help you earn but on facebook your friends could go through your personal information and could copy your photos. creepy!
@jugsjugs (12967)
•
3 Oct 12
I do not add people that I do not know, as I can not see the reason for having strangers as friends.
Some people add for the sake of it, other people have fake ids and they seem to add the people that they want to spy on, sad but true.
I have not bothered with face book much, as it is the same old stuff, as well as the same old people on there and some are only on there to get all the gossip and add to what they have read, which causes trouble.
@SinfulRose (3527)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Oct 12
Yes, I've added quite a lot of people under my friends--known or unknown to me. But they don't really bother me...considering that I rarely visit facebook now. I have no interest with facebooking in the present time. Maybe later, I will, once I return to my responsibilities and I have to maintain a constant communication with the people I'll be involving with...and it'll be a problem then. But for now, I'll just leave them be.
Oh, I did once block someone. But that is someone I knew from school. I blocked him because he never fails to send me a chat whenever I login and before I can even look around. I mean, doesn't that annoy anyone? Well, I was and so the action. Anyways, I'm so happy with it. I'm at peace!
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
2 Oct 12
facebook is a social network. So people do use it for socialising too.
@igatiful_badass (1222)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
i don't just add anyone in my FB account. We have these group in during my HS and our officers just add anyone they think is our batchmate in which infact i didn't know who they are, so basically i delete them. Even though i know some i just don't feel to add them, i really don't add them to my friends list.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
2 Oct 12
I think you add only people who are close to you. thats good in many ways.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
11 Oct 12
I choose to add people I know. I want to have fun and talk with them. No need for me to add strangers.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
2 Oct 12
I actually never play games in fb. So i never take those requests.
@mutchy126 (317)
•
3 Oct 12
I sometimes add Friends of Friends that I have seen. But I never add complete strangers.
@mkenyadamu (2)
• Kenya
3 Oct 12
When I had just signed up in facebook, I would approve all friend requests. A few months later, some of my facebook friends started sending me lewd messages in my inbox. A certain lady had the audacity to ask me for a lesbian relationship without knowing that am not a lesbian. I was so offended. To add insult to injury, she started insulting through her comments on one of my photos. I therefore decided to be careful when approving friend requests. I have to be sure that at least I have interacted with you somehow.
@DarthJustice (2014)
• United States
3 Oct 12
Occasionally I'll get the random friend request from people I have absolutely no idea who they are. I used to but these days, no. I don't accept friend requests from random strangers I don't know.
I've long said it's kin of akin to, in real life, walking up to a random stranger in a store and saying, "hi! Let's be friends!"
Chances are, the person would look at you like you're crazy. It just doesn't work that way. It makes about as much sense online on Facebook.
Besides, I've heard some frightening stuff happening from people doing that, including that government agents have made fake accounts to spy on people (not as a rumor either, I recall actually reading about that on Yahoo or some news site once).
If I know the person to some real degree, sure. But otherwise no.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
I have used Facebook as my means of getting people to know about the products and services that I offer. And yes, I have added people whom I don't know because I want my online business to spread out within the Facebook community in our Country.
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
I normally wouldn't add people that I do not know personally but I need to maximize the use of this social networking site so I made another account where I do some marketing strategies and other things like promoting other sites to gain referrals and earnings while my old facebook account I use only for my families and people that I know or close to my heart. I manage them separately so I wouldn't really have any issues with privacy because I do understand that other facebook users use this site to promote or market something that is why they add every users/people as they can. It is because the more friends they have, the greater possibility that their posts would be noticed and seen.
@watchamacallitz (1171)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
I only add people as friends when I know them personally or if we share the same last name :), my surname is unique that's why.
@BabyGurrl (65)
• United States
3 Oct 12
When I was a BIG fan of SL (sorority life) on FB, I added any and everybody that played the game. Male or female..lol I never had anyone harass me though. The guys were married anyway and I had their wives as friends too. However, I always get random friend requests from people I don't even know either. Usually, it's from people who are friends with someone else I'm friends with already. Other times, I think its just because they want to be nosy. smh Lol. Otherwise, I don't add people I don't know. What's the point?
@romzee (937)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
Yes, I do add people I don't know personally in facebook. Most of them I added yes, through social games. This is cyberworld so I make cyberfriends in facebook even here in mylots. I don't delete friends unless I have a compelling reasons to do. So far, I have not deleted a single friend out of my 3,662 friends in facebook.