Do you make friends easily to persons that you have just met?

@blinjk (617)
United States
October 1, 2012 8:31pm CST
It does not matter how long your friendship is to one person.What matters most is that you are both true to each other.I have just met a girl in the library and she was really friendly and she was really known at our school.Then we became friends during the day we met.Well, she makes herself really close to one person whom she had just met.Well,we are really close and we always see each other.But not all people are like that and sometimes we should always be careful because there are lots of opportunists around us.
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16 responses
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
During my student days, I can't remember if I was friendly. I guess I only had less than 10 friends during those days. Now at my age, I don't easily make friends. For the length of time since then, some of these friends are still around. I have several acquaintances.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
Because of several editions for this response, the true purpose of the response is lost. Sorry, I intended to say that I don't easily make friend with someone whom I just met.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
11 Oct 12
I am kind but not so friendly at first. I make friends after I understand who they are.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
When you are friendly and you found someone whom you felt comfortable and at ease with- everything will turn easy. I can easily get along well with friendly people because I always want to make new friends feel comfortable on the first meeting.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
3 Oct 12
While i believe in fate sometimes.If we really have many things in common and i bet i will,friends are always starting from this but we still need to having more understandings about each other and i would like to do that.Hope we get a lifetime good friend.
@Zskyla (39)
• United States
2 Oct 12
I usually make friends very easily with the people I meet. Sometimes they start the conversation first, and sometimes I start the conversation first. Even though I end up being friends with the people I just meet, I wouldn't say that I become extremely close to them like I am with the friends I knew since kindergarten, but I wouldn't leave them out of a conversation me and my other friends are having either(I hate when my friends feel left out of something or that my friendships are exclusive). I don't know, but I don't think that all the friends that we make when we first meet them will be our friends to the end considering a lot of uncontrollable factors like moving to another country/state, going to different schools, or moving on altogether.
• Greece
2 Oct 12
yes its true.i used to make friends very easily a lot time ago but some of my friends heart my feelings.and finally i try to be now more cautious regarding friendships.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Oct 12
You are wise , not everyone is trustworthy . We really have to be careful especially online . I sometime become friends with people almost immediately but I dont trust them , my trust have to be built ...
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
Sometimes not, sometimes yes. I am very sensitive to people's personalities and I don't really bond well with people whose body language and expressions reek of being users or negative.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
2 Oct 12
i am a friendly ,casual person to hang around with,i easily mix along with people share thoughts ,because life is short.we must not choose people instead move along with people to make this world a better place
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
2 Oct 12
I don't make friends with people I just met. I don't use the word friend for everyone I meet. If someone will turn out to be a friend time can only tell. If you just met someone you can't say already that person is a friend.
@Austina (92)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
Yes, but it depends on a person first impression. Sometimes what you see first on a person is true.
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
For me, it takes time before I can feel comfortable talking with new mate. Basically, I do observe them first before moving to the next level of knowing that person.
@Otanetix (508)
• United States
2 Oct 12
While I am usually friendly with new people I meet, it does not necessarily mean I make friends easily. Instead of being very open, I try to get the know the person first. I do not recall an experience where I became someone's friend on the first day we met. For me, I am a rather defensive person who tries not to reveal too much of myself until I know more about the person. Basically, I am open minded to making new friends, but I wouldn't consider myself a open book to new people.
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
It depends upon the person, how he/she react,talk,move...everything she/he does shows here/his personalities as well...but it's not fair to judge them by that way, we should at least be observant and thankful indeed for a nice conversation at your first meeting,,,hoping it will be a good start...
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
There is some sort of aura or vibes that sort of make one to tend to feel easy or uneasy towards someone you just met, as if you have known him/her all your life and yet you just met, lol! but then again, sooner or later it is for you to find out if the friendship will continue or not.
@Jezabeth (82)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
I make friends easily with people who seems a good person and very friendly. If we meet for the first time I don't talk to them with personal issues. Just having a friendly talk and getting to know would be a wise and safer thing to do.