I got dumped today
By captinjack
@captinjack (788)
China
October 2, 2012 7:19am CST
Several days ago, my cousin introduced me a girl who was described beautiful and tall. Since i have been through a couple of blind dates, in which girls are exaggerated, so i didn't take it seriously. I have to admit that my cousin really care about my emotion life. Without my eager response, she arranged me a blind date with the girl at her house. At the first glimpse of the girl, i gotta say she was as beautiful and innocent as an angel. Maybe it sounds crazy, but i fell in love with her at that moment. After some red tape, we were led to a room where we had a conversation over one and a half hours, which i regarded as a positive signal. To my mind, i performed properly when talking with the gorgeous. In the end, i escorted the girl to a bus station. By the way, i live in China, where not every one can afford for a car. I was so happy when returning home that wedding scene appeared in my mind. However, in the afternoon, my counsin came to me and told me that the girl had no feelings to me, which made me pretty disappointed and sad. In other words, i got dumped today. My cousin is really a good relative. She consoled me and said i still had chances if i try my best to pursue the gorgeous. I am not sure whether she was right or not. But i am sure that i am very depressed now.
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8 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
Your cousin says that you still have a chance, so don't lose hope.
maybe on the second meet-up the girl will see the positive side in you.
It's a common thing that girl/s may feel some doubt with the first meeting- sooner or later the girl will see the best in you when you pursue your intention and prove that you are serious.
@captinjack (788)
• China
4 Oct 12
Maybe you are right, Jinbinlai. I am gonna play it slow. Though it is uncertain whether it works out, i think it worth a shot. Thank you for your advice.
@JinBinLai (52)
• China
3 Oct 12
Yeah, maybe the girl is too shy to express the good feeling to you. Maybe she is testing your eagerness. So just try to make another date with her, keep acting positively . Good luck to you and also to thoes on the way searching for love!
@youless (112570)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Nov 12
I am sorry to hear that. But anyway you just saw this girl once and therefore this feeling is not so strong yet. Some people judge others by the first impression. If she is not the right one for you, don't be upset. After all, there are still quite a lot of good girls in the world. There must be your right one.
@yoyo1198 (3641)
• United States
2 Oct 12
I don't understand how you feel you 'got dumped' when there wasn't a relationship to start with. It was just a conversation and the supposed relationship was all in your mind. I don't think you should be so eager to get into a relationship. In my experience, it will come when you aren't looking and when you are least expecting it.
@captinjack (788)
• China
2 Oct 12
Actually, in my country, i was "dumped" definitely. There is nothing doubtful about it. I can't agree with you on your last sentence. To my mind, luck like those try their best to create opportunity, rather than those wait for it.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
26 Jan 13
Try again. Put in just a little more effort. Now don't go crazy, and ask a million times. If she dumps you 10 more times, that's pretty much the end.
But don't give up so easily. Try a few more times. At least 2 more. Put some effort into it. Pursue your target.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
Hi,
Don't take it seriously my fellow captinjack. Just be thankful for what had happened this day to you.I felt bad to the girl because she did not even gave herself a chance to know you better.Of course, for you to feel better, I would say, She doesn't deserves you.Do not lose hope, may be she isn't the right girl for you.Do not stop to explore and meet other girls out there. The right girl will come soon.
@captinjack (788)
• China
2 Oct 12
Thanks, kokomo. I won't stop looking for my Mrs Right. May you find yours !
@JinBinLai (52)
• China
3 Oct 12
A first dating is like a job interview, both sides seek to find out the most of each other. We care a lot about our date's feeling if we feel nice about her/him. I'm sorry that you can't suceed at this relationship, but don't feel down, there are lots of girls better than her. If you can't get what you want, you will obtain the better. Good luck.
