What would be your choice? A smart partner? Or a good partner?

dear anna I am still searching I am looking for someone who can tolerate me

hi vijaya, I want to have a wealthy partner so he can feed me very well If I go with smart or good one uuhhmm.....but he can't feed me well never mind happy mylotting

The best choice would be a partner who has both qualities. I happen to be very fortunate since I chose a partner who has both. On the other hand my partner chose a wife who is good but not a whiz. That would be me. I don't consider myself smart but have common sense which is beneficial to our relationship.

I'd go with the good. I have a lot of flaws, which only a good one can put up with. A smart one, on the other hand, would leave me for greener pastures. So good one it would be for me. Ideally though, I would not want either of the two. I would rather the good one be in my list of friends. The smart one I get to ape..lol

hmm.. I prefer the good one. Because in my surroundings, smart people are usually boring. Not all, but most of them. And in my opinion, smart people have a terrible sense of humor. They're not funny at all, always serious. I think it is more enjoyable to live with a good partner. Not really smart is OK, but please do not be really fool so that s/he will never understand what we say and cause missunderstandings. :p

If the choice is just between the two, I'd rather go with the good person. A good partner will give me a good relationship and a good life!

If I had to choose one or the other, I would choose "good". As long as he wasn't completely lacking in smarts! Yes being good is a better quality to me than intelligent. Besides sometimes people who are intelligent think too highly of their selves, or they embrace all man's high falootin theories and they become unsmart after all! Besides if they lack goodness how smart are they! (Though of course no human is all good or all that good, but certainly faithfulness and kindness are great qualities in a mate.)

vijayanths why on earth cannot a s mart partner also be a good partner, one surely does not preclude the other.I have known many good smart p eo ple as opposed to smart bad people. so my choice is a good and smart partner always. there are also bad smart partners. goodness can go well with smartness.

I don't think that people have to be smart, as I don't really value that kind of thing in people. Obviously being smart is never a bad thing, but I wouldn't rule people for not being smart. I would much prefer a partner who was good for me, because this means that I would be happy. There is no point with being with somebody who is smart but not nice, because you're not going to be happy in your relationship. They might be able to get a good job but that isn't always the thing that will make a relationship last for longer.

Hi vijay, I am going for the good partner, because I know whatever she will do she will make me happy. I don't want a lot of money or a lot of fame I want a loyal, loving and caring partner. It is even better if she happens to be smart as well, but I want her to be God fearing, that is a very big thing for me. I believe the nature of the person is the foundation of the person and a good personality is so much more attractive to me that a good looking or smart lady, my honest opinion.

If you are a woman it is good to have a man who is good and smart. If you are a man you are better off with a woman who is less smart but good at heart. A smart man may take pride in his smartness and so he needs a good woman to cope with him. No one is smart at everything so it is necessary to find out their strengths and weaknesses. They will be intolerant of themselves if they do something stupid, no one is smart 100% of the time. So you need someone who is smart enough to take an honest look at themselves. I don't think a person who is materialistically smart is necessarily good at relationships.

A person with a good heart, someone who respects, cares and loves the partner. A family is happy when they share a good equation with one another. He/she should not listen to third party advice when it comes to their marriage. Be it a newly wed or one with a few years in the relationship- they should find a way to work out their issues on their own.

were not perfect.... no ones perfect... even rich has a big problem... what they do? small become big problem in this world. thats why they get a good partner. we know first each other until ur be a good partner... sometimes a couple of month u live together or as we call fall in love then after that your consider at one... after a days its become big family

i choose a good partner. as for me a god partner is a sacred relatioships between couples and their kids he knows the resposiblity of a being father of their kids ,as a housewife i can give all the best of our family, sometimes we got a problem thats given to all . we all encounters that but we have a solutions as far i concern, i encountered that but we still survive until now, its god given to us. as good partner u trust n understan what we have done too.but not all theres always a solution. just give and take so that ur family will happy together. dont any one bother to you. just always pray and think our futre...be possitive always.

I would rather have the best of both worlds.. I have been finding in life too much one way or the other is not good.. Life becomes unbalanced, ending up over comverstating for what is missing.. Would rather have a good mixture that is willing to accept me for who I am and I would look at that person the same way..

I too, would rather have both. But if pushed for only one choice, I'd take a smart partner. A not so smart partner can lead to arguments and misunderstandings.

as for me, i want a good partner in life because that is the only way to live a successful, fulfilled, and happy marriage or relationship. it is true that a lot of people get attracted to smart people, but in the long run once you get to know that person deeply and really well what makes us fall for them is the good character and personality they have inside.

Honestly speaking,I would go for a good looking partner rather than smart and non-good looking ones,because man will be man you cant change that.

I'll choose a good partner. A good partner will love his family from his heart and not from his mind. He will not underestimate me because he is not that smart. He will understand me because a good person has an open mind. And he will not choose his career over me.

I would choose a smart partner. A smart person supposed to know what is bad and good though.And sometimes good one consider smart in their qualities. But for a good reason, both will have the same qualities just depend how they think about themselves.