Telling him/her your DARKEST SECRETS?

Yeah! It was deleted due to duplicate post. Had problem with my internet connection and hit the key twice. I already assume one of it will be deleted soon, but i didn't expect the most participated was the one omitted. Anyway, you can post another one here.

lol okay. well, as I said in that deleted post, I would tell him my secrets as I don't want to feel heavy when I looked at him or having him around me. I don't share my feelings easily to people but I do feel needy to tell my significant other how I really am.

lol okay. well, as I said in that deleted post, I would tell him my secrets as I don't want to feel heavy when I looked at him or having him around me. I don't share my feelings easily to people but I do feel needy to tell my significant other how I really am.

In some cases that a person pretending that she's still a virgin, he definitely going to find out soon. But, I'm not telling that she must tell every relationship she'll commit. Anyway, I believe that there are secrets are okay to share and some is healthy to keep things to your self.

Because there are secrets that are actually no use.

Continue..opening the can of worms might not get sympathetic ears from the other party and worse it might be used as a weapon everytime when arguement arises. Think about it.

Yeah! It could be a potential harm... Relationships are very important when coming to the topic of marriage it’s really important to be honest about the things that need to be told. Some secrets are worth telling as a way of strengthening the relationship, but others are the kind that should be drawn out in time as long as they aren’t ones that have the potential of ruining the relationship. at the same time but life isn’t supposed to be easy.

In the best of all possible worlds, we can tell each other anything and everything. But the dilemma is whether to tell him/her all or not. In general, in most instances, it's good to be open and honest with your partner but the consequences might hurt them, nothing positive would come of it, and it might just damage your relationship or worst damage you permanently. On the other hand there are secrets bearable?

But you didn't regret those moment when you open up to him? Why not doing it again? Any bad experience? We, actually cannot expect they'll accept our secrets a hundred percent but at least it was a relieve.

Not even a embarrassing memory, shameful facts, or simple scheme? Everyone has them— Many secrets are harmless though. If you do decide to tell, steer the conversation toward an issue surrounding the secret, to see how the person responds initially. It takes courage to let a secret go. If you do, be ready to work out any conflict that follows.