I have been a shoulder to cry on for a lot of friends

Aww, doesn't that just make you feel so good? It's such a nice feeling to know you have helped some people along the way. Everyone is here in this world for one reason or another, and they also meet different people for one reason or another. You made a great impression on these people obviously. What I like the most is that they took the time out of their day to thank you. You don't hear that as much as I'd like to hear it. This is really nice and you have some great forever friends. I'm sure you will sleep good from now on just knowing this and all I can say is good job jugsjugs!

You are such a nice person. It's rare. Most wants to talk but never listen. Only once I've been a big shoulder for 4 years, I'd tell her to call me anytime and I might add SHE DID and I even offered her to live with me and bring her kids and I'd afford for everything until she could walk on her shoes. that was the most ungrateful friend I had, 4 years later I needed her and she didn't even wanted to hear a little through the phone. I went through a big life changing down phase and learned I was a great friend but needed to value myself more. So you are rare, I like your type of people. I'm glad you found recognition.

Unexpected niceties are great aren't they? The best surprises and they really warm your heart and make you want to continue. Sounds like you have done some good in several people's lives. That is really great! I try to answer young people's questions on here. It is good to help them as they begin to experience life.

I am the person who people seem to turn to whenever there is something that is going wrong in their life. I don't know why that is, but I suppose that I should be glad about the fact because I know that there must be something that they think is approachable about me or they wouldn't be able to come to me at all. I have a few people who I can go to as well so I know that I always have somebody that I can talk to whenever I need some help. Having good friends is essential to everybody and I know that I am lucky that I can say that my friends are so amazing.

I have several friends that tell me that I help them. I never know how much I help them, but I try to. I am aware that many times it is just a matter of being there. But other times they need advise or looking together at a problem so that we both try to understand things. It`s very nice when they actknowledge it and I am sure is is really nice for you. Congratulations for being there. I have some friends who have been there for me too.

Hi jugsjugs, That is real kind of you, not all people can be that caring. God bless, I am sure it must have felt so nice to be able to help others in their bad times, I have done it a few times myself and all we need it is to give time to the other person, that is all they need, our sympathy. I have sweet friends like you, one time I was badly hurt and cheated and it felt really comforting to spend time with them and that is all it took to realize that my friends were a greater gift to me than my girlfriend. Now I have come to value my friends more, because no matter what happens friends don't back away soon. God gave me such great friends. This world needs more people like you. Have a nice day.

Oh, that is so nice. When I first came to MyLot I often felt as if I helped people and I know that made me feel good as well. It is good to hear that this nice bit of appreciation is happening for you.

You are right there is no greater feeling than to know you helped someone. Sometimes all they did is someone to listen. I say thank you for being someone who cares and will be there.

Oh, that is really touching. You must be a really good friend to them that people really take time to call and say thanks.. There is no better feeling in he world than be wholeheartedly thanked and helped otehrs.

hi, actually being a shoulder is not that so easy,because you need to listen and to accept or absorb there problem that they will tell to you,but on the other side it will give more comfortable that to you because you let your friend release those problem she shouldered.

That it great that your friend called to say thank you and that you have also managed to help her sort her problems out. I am also here for my friends no matter when they need to talk to me and they have all been good to me in my hour of need. Its nice to have true friends.

Sounds like you did help out quite a handful of people. It s true that while most of our friends would come to us seeking for advices, more often than that they just need someone who will listen to hem more Han the advice itself. It helps a lot that there is one one who cares enough for you to listen to your troubles, and who always supports you in times of need. Your friends are lucky to have you.

I strongly agree. A simple thank you from a friend you held a hand feels rewarding. I can relate to you. I have been through lot of situations when all I can do is to listen Listen to my friends' dilemnas towards their heartaches, listen to my sister's problems about her schoolworks, listen to my mom's worries towards our family, listen to my colleagues frustrations about their calls. All i can do is listen, respond and offer a shoulder to cry on. It sounds simple but if yopu really care you listen not using your ears but your heart, You respond not only with your mouth but through your emotions. I admire your kindness towards your friends and other people. In due time God will reward you for that.

You are right. It really nice to feel that you are able to help other people. They are lucky to have a friend like you. I am sure it would be really frustrating if there was no one to listen to them. Sometimes, between friends, what we want is really not someone who will solve our problems or carry our burden. We only want someone who will listen and tell us it will be okay.

Hello my friend jugsjugs Ji, Well, anything done without any selfish moto, and rewrded in forms of thanks phone calls, will elevate you. You are pious gentle Lady. keep helping others to get help automatically from Almighty. May God bless You and have a great time

It is nice when you know you have helped someone. Sometimes, we just never know and trust God to take care of them and hope we did give them what they needed. Sometimes people just need a shoulder to cry on, and that makes all the difference when you find a willing shoulder and an ear that will listen, and lips that do not judge.

It's always nice to be appreciated! I've had friends that I have given advice to and you think it is just going in one ear and out the other. Then they finally come to their senses and realize they should have taken your advice in the first place. I like to say, "told you so." It makes one feel good inside to know that the person has acknowledged you help and are thankful. Sounds like you are a really good fiend?

That's great. You're really into helping others. That's a great gift to know how to extend the warmth and sincerity to others who need help emotionally.

That's a very good thing to be a friend, a shoulder to cry on. That is great being there for friends who needs someone to talk to, to be able to share what they're feeling knowing that you are there for them willing to listen to their hurts and pains.

that is really nice jugjugs least they know you are only at the other end of the phone when they need a chat i am the same if they need a shoulder to cry on i tell all my friends i am only at the other end of the phone