My cat really wants to go outside

Australia
October 10, 2012 5:18pm CST
I have two cats, a male who is about 18 months old and a female who is about 5.5 years old. Because we live in an area that has a lot of traffic, I like to keep both of the cats inside. This also means that they are less likely to cause any harm and get us into trouble. Where we used to live, there wasn't too much traffic and I used to let my female cat outside for a couple of hours. This was okay for awhile, until she learned how to catch birds. Even with bells on her collar, she managed to catch them. She also used to beat up a dog, who is a Rotti X Rhod Ridgeback. Since moving, though, she hasn't been outside. Our neighbours on both sides have birds kept in cages. They also have very small dogs, which are smaller than her. My female cat wants out, I can tell as every morning she sits on my eldest son's window ledge and looks down on the neighbours yard (we have a 2 story house). She presses herself up against the fly wire screen as though she is testing its strength or something. The last couple of days it seems as if she stepped up her efforts. She stalks the back door and tries to make a dash for it whenever the door opens. It's starting to get a bit monotonous O.o Any suggestions on how to keep her occupied? Or should I just put 4 or 5 bells on her collar and let her go for it?
11 responses
@deazil (4730)
• United States
11 Oct 12
Well, if you don't mind spending a little money you could buy (or make) some climbers and tunnels for your cat. She's really anxious to get outside. But we all know what happens to kitties who go wandering. A few years ago I witnessed my elderly neighbor's cat get killed by coyotes about 2am. And I don't live in the country. My street runs off a rather busy kind of main street with businesses and schools on it. Cats can be very determined when they want something. They're sure that if they keep trying they'll get it. I wouldn't let her out, though. I think distractions work well with cats. You can buy a piece of concrete tubing at any hardware store. It's cardboard and a 2 foot piece might be cheaper than a tunnel made for a cat. I think one of those floor to ceiling poles with a few shelves on it might be good. I have one. My cats love to race up and down on it. Also Amazon has really good ones and the prices are unbelievably low. I know - I've priced them all over the net and in stores. Here's the link www.amazon.com and just search for cat climbers. Theirs might be the cheapest. I don't know how you feel about large cat furniture. I have it all over my house and I don't care. They have to live here too. They need their own furniture. If you have the time you might play with her for a little while every day (or night). Catnip is good too. If she likes it. Some female cats don't care for it. I used to take the top of a box, like a shirt box, and put maybe a teaspoon of catnip in it. Maybe a little more. I had a box for each cat and they'd start out eating the catnip then getting in the box laying in it and rolling around in the catnip. After a little while they'd all go to sleep for a few hours. Hope some of this helped. Good luck.
• Australia
15 Oct 12
What a fantastic idea! I was thinking of investing in a scratching post too but these tunnels sound even better =D She isn't too fussed with catnip but she LOVES brown paper bags and the rug in the lounge room (goes under it all the time). She even manages to get up on the ledge in the stair well - so long as she doesn't jump on one of the kids, I don't mind. Thank you SO MUCH for that wonderful idea =D
@deazil (4730)
• United States
15 Oct 12
You're welcome! I've had to turn several outdoor only cats into indoor only cats. It's not always easy. Another thing I have is called a cat porch. I bought it from a catalog about 20 years ago and have never seen another one. It is about the size of an air conditioner and fits in the window the same way. On the inside it fits flush with the window frame and there is a cat door on that side. The rest is like a screened in box on three sides with a solid top and bottom. I put a rug remnant in it. My cats have always loved it. A friend made me another one for another window so they have two cat porches with two different views. I am searching the web for one so I can give you a link. Not having much luck. Ha! I found one. here's the link, but I think mine are a little bigger. www.thecatandkittenstore.com/servlet/the-2705/Detail I hope you get to this response as there are no notifications going out.
• Australia
22 Oct 12
Hi Deazil :) Thank you, once again, for another fabulous idea! I have a friend who is pretty nifty at these types of things so I will ask them next time they pop over what they think ;) Allegro would be over the moon with something like that =D
@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
11 Oct 12
wall maybe you can walk her out I mean to put collar belt, or is that how you call it? like a dog collar but for cats that has rope you can hold while walking her out in the park. hm, I have a kitten well, he likes to play and I don't know if yours are into games to. but maybe you can try to put some cat's toy in the house and other toy that would make her busy at home if you don't wanna walk them out.
• United States
14 Oct 12
Yes, a kitty harness works well. You can find them at stores like Petsmart or PetCo. If you have a small kitty you may have trouble finding a harness that will fit. I know when I first got my kitty I tried purchasing one at Petsmart and it was to big for him. He could get out of it just like a little Hoodini. I ended up having to go to a local feed store to find a small one that would fit a bunny for him. He eventually grew into the one that I bought for him at Petsmart.
• United States
17 Oct 12
I think it depends upon the kitty. We had one kitty Leo when we were growing up that unfortunately got his jaw broken. While the jaw was healing we used the kitty harness so he could go outside in the yard to play. We would usually attach the end of the kitty harness part the leash to the garden hose then screw on the sprinkler head part so that he could move around the yard while we were outside keeping an eye on him of course. It did work. Keep in mind he still had a huge house to run around inside, which he completely turned into a jungle gym. I mean it he would tear through the kitchen scale the pony wall over the top into the den and back again. Even with all that he found his own little way of escaping out of the house one day for a little kitty excursion. My kitty Tigger will act like his little kitty paws are broken if you put a kitty harness on him. Generally speaking. I have gotten him on a couple occassions when we came home to walk with the kitty harness inrun the grass area. Keep in mind kittens go with the belief they walk us (not the other way around). I mean be prepared for your cat to say I want to go this way around and through the bushes. It is not like a puppy whom you walk. Then, of course there was the day when the neighbor kids scared Tigger. Well, the kids asked if they could pet him as I was holding him getting out the car from a trip to vet. I said yes. Well as they were getting off their bikes that had those noise making spokes. The bikes made a noise that scare Tigger. Well, frighten little kitty took like a 5 foot vertical leap out of my arms ran through the bushes, and headed to the downstairs neighbors door by where their was a puppy dog. I guess he figured that the puppy might help to protect him. It was our downstairs neighbors. Well the neighbor kids all thought that it looked super cool. I went to go find my little kitty. Trust me, he totally forgot that he had his kitty harness on that day. You see, I always use the kitty harness to buckle Tigger into the front seat whenever he goes to the vet or Petsmart. He totally hates the cat carriers and will complain the whole way if you put him in one in the car.He does not like the backseat. He likes the front seat where he can be pet at every stop light.
• Australia
15 Oct 12
HAHAHAHA!! Oh sorry, that was just so funny, picturing Allegro in a kitty harness =D It might not be a bad idea actually. She is a larger cat and a harness would fit her. Do they go nuts? Can the cat be a bit older, like 5? Might have to give it a go, just for the entertainment value =D We have lots of toys, which the younger one plays with. Allegro has to be in the mood for them. Her fav toy is a brown paper bag or a box with a hole just big enough for her to fit in. The only problem with these is that I also have two kids with autism - brown paper bags and boxes are highly sort after items in the house. Allegro isn't afraid to get "her" bag back though and just kinda jumps on the kids to get them away. Yes, she hunts the boys too, well, my youngest anyway - he loves it as he also has ADHD as well as autism. Kitty harness, what a great idea! Thanks!
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
12 Oct 12
For her protection, don't let her out. That will only make her want to go out all the more. Does she ever watch stuff on the TV. If she ever shows any interest, you can get a DVD that shows birds for her to watch. One with fish is also available. I hope that both of your cats have been neutered.
• United States
14 Oct 12
Try openning the blinds in the house for the kitty. Lots of times they just want to see outside and sun bathe. Many times they will be just as happy with the blinds being open. I know that when I used to live on the 2nd floor I would leave the blinds open all the time, and my kitty loved it! Keep in mind though that they will get playful, and sometimes not realize that it is a window. I know my kitty has jumped at the window acting like he did not realize it was a windo as he saw the birds flying in the trees outside the window.
• United States
17 Oct 12
Allegro sounds a little like my kitty Tigger. They have plenty to do inside but they still like to go outside. I think it is part of nature them wanting fresh air and sunshine. My little Tigger gets scared of people coming to close. If he is outside and anyone shows up he will come running inside. Well, personally I think you just have to negotiate with your kitty. Be creative to find ways that he can go outside with supervision. For my Tigger at the old complex, the rule was that he could go outside but had to stay on the top landing, which he did about 90% of the time. He just sometimes needed to be reminded. I could go back and forth and get the groceries, while he laid on the top landing. At the new complex where we live now, I tried saying he could go out as far as to the end of where the stairs where but that did not work well. He found it too easy to go where ever he pleased, and when his little kittyness did not want to come in the house he would run and hide under cars. Well after many times of trying to teach him the rule without success, he finally lost priviledges to go out the front door when I went to get things from the car. We have negotiated that he can go out on the patio. Which he enjoys. I just leave the patio door open for him while I do work in the living room generally on the computer, go get groceries from the car, or take things out to the car. He will explore the patio, lay out side, and enjoy sun bathing. He looks so relaxed and enjoys his time on the patio. If people get to close to the patio he just walks back inside the apartment. It seems to work for us. He occassionally will jump up on the wall but since the consequence is that I pick him up and bring him into the house, which he sees as a consequence because he does not like to get picked up. He knows that he is in trouble when he does this he rarely does jump up on the wall. He knows the routine. Trust me when I say the minute that I get up he wants to be let outside on the patio. As I keep telling him, you first have to let me get dressed then you can go outside. Trust me even on morning when I have to go to work, all it takes is me walking out onto the patio and saying time to come in the house, and he will willingly walk back inside the apartment. Keep in mind, he will come in the apartment; then remind me that he wants can kitty food for breakfast before I leave for work. I totally believe our little kitties can be trained. Once they find a routine they enjoy, they will hold us to the routine everyday. I mean it my kitty is the best at prompting me at what I need to do. Whether it is a paw reaching for the kitchen drawer where the paper plates are kept when it is around dinner time. Even when the boyfriend was visiting, little Tigger was quite bold. Right after, I told him that he had to finish what was on his kitty plate. The boyfriend headed for the pantry. I heard the boyfriend surprised that Tigger was rubbing up against his leg. Well, the boyfriend decided to give into Tigger. He decided to give him a new can of kitty food. It was pretty funny as the boyfriend was trying to figure out where I kept the canned kitty food. Then, he realized that it was in the pantry. I commented to him why do you think Tigger was rubbing up and down you legs while you were getting into the pantry. It was because he wanted you to get him something out of the pantry and he knew where the kitty food was kept in the pantry. Well, perhaps it is our kitties that train us! Either way, we love them!
• Australia
15 Oct 12
Yep, both cats have been 'fixed' =D She hasn't been out since we moved here 18 months ago, which might be making things difficult for her too. We have a big screen TV and she actually does like watching TV with us. All different types of programs, so long as there are things happening she is normally interested. But only if I'm watching TV ;) Might have to find some DVD's for her, though, as that seems like another great idea that I can use during the day when the boys are at school. All the blinds are open during the day as are the windows. My partner redid all the fly-screens when we first moved so that they won't pop out easily if she presses up against it. Allegro used to spend a lot of time sitting up on the window sill. In a way, it's great because if anyone pulls up in our driveway, she freaks out and runs to me right away. Like she did just then, , ,
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
11 Oct 12
Poor cat , she want to be free and live life on the edge sound so sad looking through the window . Back when I had a cat I used to try and keep that cat inside but couldn't because she wanted to climbed tree , the only good thing it was not an apartment we had a big yard . I would suggest you but the bells on here and let her go out .
• United States
11 Oct 12
on her
• Australia
15 Oct 12
I do feel so sorry for her sitting up there at the window, looking down on the next door neighbour's birds. If they weren't exotic birds and if the dogs on either side weren't little yappers (and if Allegro was so "funny" with people), I might consider letting her out. Instead, I think I will invest in a really good scratching post/playground ;-)
@aireanna18 (1914)
• United States
13 Oct 12
My big boy kitty, Tigger insists on going outside. Well, he lost priviledges to go out the front door because he kept running under parked cars at the apartment complex. Being a very concerned pet mother, I grounded him. After his 2 weeks of grounding were up he did it again, so we had to negotiate a solution. Our solution is that he can go outside on the patio only. He actually loves going out on the patio. He knows that once I get up he gets to go out to lay out on the patio. He likes that the patio wall has little peek holes in it that he can look out through to see the what is going on in our part of the complex. He knows the rule that if he jumps up on top of the patio wall, which he call the top of the kitty wall it is automatic you are going in the apartment. He only goes out with semi-supervision. Keep in mind my little kitty only likes to go out if the door is left open to come bak in the apartment. He gets easily frightened by people if anyone gets to close to the patio he will just come back inside. Generally, I will sit on the couch and get work done on the patio while I keep an eye on him since the patio door is directly across the way. I guess you could just say I am an overly protective pet mother (LOL)! He only goes out during the day. Truthfully, we do not live in the best part of town, so I tend to make it the rule that we stay inside at night. Except the night the fire alarm went off, when we both took refuge in the car until it was determined it was a false alarm. If I could only teach him what to do in the event of a fire drill. He thinks the fire alarm plan is to hide in the apartment when the plan is that we both evacuate the apartment outside to the car.
• United States
17 Oct 12
I know what you mean about people doing bad things to kitties. When we were growing up we had a kitten Leo. That got his jaw broken (we think by one of our neighbors). Then he got dipped his whole underside in motor oil. Then there were all the injuries from the occassional kitty fights. That is why I decided when I got Tigger he would be an indoor only kitty. Trust me when I say that indoors does not mean that the stay injury free. To this date, I still do not know how it happened because I was out shopping. Well, I came home to find a hole in the bathroom wall and a missing kitty. It took hours to find him. Keep in mind it was a 1 bedroom apartment. Well, eventually I did find him. His face was all hurt. It was Easter weekend so no vets were open. When he went to the vet on Monday. We found out he had ruptured his eye, hurt his nose, andhis mouth. The vet thought that he had also broken a tooth, but I reminded them to check his chart that the broken tooth was a previous injury that he had done somehow play inside the apartment. Well, Tigger did recover from his household accident. He is just blind in one eye. That is why especially nowadays he is pretty much scared of people. Even once in awhile if I put my hand out on his bad side where he cannot see he will sometimes get spooked slightly just because it catches him by surprise. Maybe try to get some toys for Allegro. I know that when I first got Tigger he was always trying to climb the walls in the apartment. He was much happier being inside once he got his 6 foot tall tree house, which is actually just a round 6 foot tall by like 2 foot high scratching post with different levels for him to climb. He loves playing like toy mice from Petsmart which he will pick up and throw with his kitty paws. There were even the pair of fuzzy blue slippers that he claimed for his own that he would carry around the house. His latest has been playing with my flip flops were I have to search for where Tigger hasleft them. I think mostly our little kitties just have too much time on their littly kitty paws while we are at work all day. That was my theory after coming home in the past to find that Tigger had removed the keys from the laptop. After breaking the laptop keyboard he earned himself a permanent ban from using technology. It is like our pets our curious. For the most part that curiosity is innocent. Although Tigger did come to realize that curiousity might have a downside, shortly after we moved into the new apartment I guess he decided it would be a good idea to explore the new apartment while I was at work. I cam home, and could not find Tigger anywhere in the apartment. While it took awhile, but finally I heard a little kitty meows. Following the sound, I finally found him trapped behind the dryer. Aparently he had decided to jumb down between the dryer and hot water heater to explore. Well, once he jumped down, he could not climb back up because his kitty paws kept slipping on the metal of the dryer. It was not like a wall or carpet where he could attach his little claws to climb. Well it took me about 15 minutes to figure out how to pull the washer an dryer out to rescue him. Of course, he walked out like it was nothing. Like it was a completely normal spot to be at in the apartment. My kitty and I like to watch the Shark Tank, and Tigger says that it is amazing they are always coming up with products for dogs. He says that there are millions of inventions that the common kitty needs. He is wating for the paw activated kitty can opener system. Maybe, they will come up with a novel way for kitties to safely experience the outdoors.
• Australia
15 Oct 12
We used to do that with Allegro at the old house. Because it, too, wasn't the best part of town (similar to here) I used to stress beyond belief if we couldn't get her in before dark. If she caused me too much stress, she would be grounded. Allegro doesn't like people too much either. She used to hiss and twist herself inside out on the driveway every time our friend across the street would be outside his house. Too many bad things happen to animals these days. I would hate to think of something like that happening to Allegro. Sometimes being over protective is the best way to be ;)
• United States
11 Oct 12
Since she has already had a taste of freedom I doubt she'll ever really stop trying to get outside. I have two cats that I rescued from where I work(A factory environment, all kinds of animals get in there.)They both come from being outside but I've gotten lucky with them because they seem much happier indoors. I'd say keep her inside. Cats are smart and very resourceful but she can't be ready for a car. Even if she is smarty cat there are just things that can't be avoided.
• Australia
15 Oct 12
Good on you for rescuing your cats =D I guess it is because she has had a taste of freedom and wants to get back out there and wreck havoc on the world again. She isn't savvy, though, when it comes to cars, , , or people, or lots of things for that matter. Just killing birds and beating up dogs lol! Will be keeping her inside but with bells on, just in case ;)
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
22 Oct 12
From the description, I can see that your cat is very lovely. I love cats and we have a lot of cats on campus. They live by themselves as they can find food easily on campus. This summer a mother cat gave birth to several kittens with different colours. Now after three months, they are growing happily and healthily to me. They love to sit on my e-bikes during the night. In fact, every morning I see one cat sitting on my e-bike. One of the things that I don't like is the cats damages my seat with their paws. Anyway they are safe on campus. Thanks for the discussion.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
11 Oct 12
As a huge animal lover I'd ask you not to, and if you do to neuter/spay them first cause there are already so many abandoned animals already (I adopted/rescued six) and people don't adopt, they buy them. Also if they are male you ought to, it would not be fair for the poor females outhere, and to spay a male is cheaper.
• Australia
15 Oct 12
Don't worry, I am a HUGE animal lover too and most definately believe in spaying/neutering before I would even consider letting them outside. I've also been a big believer in "kitty curfews" and, when I did have an outside cat, I made sure she was in before dark. My Dad recently rescued a cat that was in kitten. She has had the kittens, which he has found homes for, and has gotten her spayed. I hate people who abandon animals, especially seniors =(
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
10 Oct 12
No keep her in cause she safer indoors. I have a cat like this and she has gotten out many times, but how frustrating to get her back in and luckily there are so traffic here. Still, I don't feel comfortable letting her out cause the cat I had prior to her got into all kinds of fights and mischief outside. It was horrible. I think I'm traumatized with it and thats why I truely don't want this cat out. I feel bad for her but I know she is safer and my stress about it is lowered. As for making her not dash for the door I don't think there is a way to stop it. Mine still tries to do it no matter how I yell or pretend to spray water on her with my hands. I would actually know if anyone else has any ideas on this as well, as she gets older she slows up a tiny bit with it but not much. You're doing the right thing by keeping her in cause she could get killed or maimed in that traffic. I have seen too many animals as road kill in my lifetime.
• Australia
15 Oct 12
I, too, have had many cats that have either been run over or killed (baited) when I was living out in the country as a child. My last cat used to go outside but as she got older I decided to keep her in for her own good too - she lived to the age of 13 and seemed happy enough laying in the sun coming through the window. This cat, though, she is determined. I have decided that I will keep her in but put lots of bells on her "just in case". Allegro doesn't like people too much either and can get a bit "funny" with strangers. Might be best for all concerned if she stays inside =)
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
11 Oct 12
Wow that is one tough kitty to catch those birds like that and also beat up on a huge dog! I would think you're doing a smart thing by keeping them both indoors with the traffic. There is nowhere you could let them out safely without them getting out then?
• Australia
15 Oct 12
She sure is one tough kitty-cat. We don't have a very big yard anymore. Where we used to live, the yard was HUGE and she had a territory of about 4 house yards - one house, she used to hang off a cockatoo's cage O.o I might have to keep an eye out for a cat run or something similar I think.
• Greece
11 Oct 12
Have you had your cats spayed? I ask this because I wonder if the female is looking for a mate. The kindest thing is to pay a visit to the vet. the male won't get into so many fights and the female will not come into season and need a mate. Your oldeest cat is just behaving like a cat, hunting is in her genes, she did not have to learn to catch a bird, she just needed the opportunity. I have two cats, both spayed females,one of them would go mad if she could not get out. She loves it, she cries for it and I suspect values her freedom over her food. She is an outdoor cat unlike the other one which is happy to stay in most of the time. I let them out when they ask and I call them in at night if they have not come home. They respond to that unless the night is warm and then they occasionally choose to stay out all night. I worry when they are out but I have to let them live naturally and take a few risks. It is better to give a cat a happy and fulfilled life than to keep them safe but miserable. It depends on the cat and you know if your cats are happy or not. It sounds to me as though the male is but the female isn't.
• Australia
15 Oct 12
Thank you for you reply. Both cats have been 'fixed' - the female has had a fight with a neighborhood cat through the fly-wire door, which I think she won as the cat hasn't been back since. I think this has made her determination all the more urgent as she is fairly territorial - she was not a happy camper when I rescued the younger cat from a friend on Facebook (nearby suburb). They have had some fairly big fights and seem to have sorted out their "pecking" order for now. I really feel for Allegro. Seeing her stalking around the house, watching her at the back door looking up at the sound of the birds, it's sad when one of the furry-kids isn't happy. I have been spending more time with her and so has my partner. She is allowed in the main part of the house as often as she wants - the male likes to live in the laundry when the kids get a bit full on (they have autism). There is a lot of traffic around here. The street that we live on is also part of an industrial area and the local businesses get a fair bit of traffic. Also, our road is part of a "detour" for traffic whilst a major intersection is shut off for upgrade on the highway. Drivers around here (Perth) are very inconsiderate when it comes to animals/wildlife - they don't care if they hurt an animal =( Thank you for your reply =)