heartaches

Sometimes, it is really impossible not to get hurt no matter how much we are careful. Just like what you have just said. You were not aware that your partner was married. I know that you must have loved him so much. But learn to let go of a person who was so selfish. He did not think of what you might feel. He shouldn't have pursued you when he very well know that your relationship with him will lead to nowhere.

You're still young. You don't have to keep looking around for someone to come and will just break your heart again. I know it's easier said than done but you will soon see that you don't have to search for the love it will arrive on it's own right time.

One of the worst things about being young is the fact that you can start falling in love with somebody who might not be in love with you in the same way that you love them. This can be difficult in a number of ways because it makes things a little bit awkward with the person who you love, and also it can break your heart if they don't feel the same. But as you say things do gradually get better and eventually we will meet somebody who we know is the right person for us and who will always be there for us.

I think you (and most people) are aware that whenever you fall in love, heartache is something that MIGHT bound to happen. There's no such thing as a perfect relationship but it would be how you would handle such issues. There could be a chance that you're feeling low right now is because the whole heartache thing is pretty fresh in your memory. That's why you dwell too much on the pain. I also went through the same problem and emotions. I had a boyfriend of 4 years then out of the blue, he just broke up with me without any closure, got her current GF pregnant and he's now married. It's painful and I really hated him at that time. I kept asking myself what I did wrong and all those bunch of questions you ask whenever you're heartbroken. I even break down whenever I hear love songs played on air. Eventually, I realized that I'm wasting my time and energy sulking and I personally decided to do something in order to move on. I went out a lot with friends, met new people and before I even knew it, I was able to move on. Right now I still think of him but the pain's not there and all that's left are happy memories. Even we broke up in a really bad way, I really am thankful that he came into my life and I learned a lot from him. Moving on takes time. You don't need to force yourself to forget him but at least try to get back on your own two feet. No one can help you move on but yourself. I hope you'll feel better soon :)

We really have to experience those kinds of realities in life. It's perfectly normal to have those as we go along in life. One thing, I could tell you is that just go ahead, cry it out and it will pass eventually. Talk to someone, go out and have fun with your friends or family. You will feel better, that's for sure. Time heal all wounds as they say and expect it that way. Easier said than done, I had been in that situation for so many times. Thanks

maybe he just want to make friend with you. it not a real bad thing for your. i think after this matter you heart will be strong! it good for your future!

Aw!! lovely.Such things happen and sadly but they may happen again.You have to be bold and not get too involved in anyone toll your are very sure.And let bygones be bygones and move on.Please pay attention on your studies please they will take you places like nothing.Be independent and make you parents s proud and don't cry for someone who did not care for your feelings.Chin up love we are today's women we don't need a man to be happy.Bless you love

Heartaches are inevitable once you are in love. It could be continuing cycle, lol! But seriously, having go through with it, the more you become a better person or the other way around. It all depends on how you can cope with reality, and the best way to do that is to fall in love over and over again.

yeah that the story of sad love. you love him but he love someone who you don,t know. that broke your heart,you will find a guy who,s better than him.