Do you think that a cyber love relationship will Last?
By LIENROSE
@LIENROSE (910)
Philippines
9 responses
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
11 Oct 12
Yes, I think so. It would really depend on the person as I believe that not all people here are doing role playing. Some are actually for real. I have personally experienced this. We started getting to know each other through chatting then started exchanging phone numbers. Soon after started calling each other at work and at home, be careful if they would only give their number at work and not at home because they maybe hiding something. One should be very careful in dealing with someone who she just met online and should think hundred of times before deciding to see or meet him personally. If you decided to meet him, ask a friend or a family to accompany you. If this guy is serious about you, he would definitely won't mind if you are with your sister or a friend during your first meeting. He would definitely understand. And of course, do not go to private places where you think you're safety could be at risk.
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
11 Oct 12
I think that it will also depend on how you see or value this cyber love relationship as for me, I think it is a real relationship and therefore should be maintain and treated as a real one.
@syoti20 (5292)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
In my own opinion, I don't think so. People will always linger to human flesh, You can more feel the care and love of the person in the flesh rather than words. It will only hurt each other in the long run. So I would rather stay away.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Oct 12
Most of that kind won't last for a couple of months or even years. There's a big difference in a relationship if your partner are near with you and can be reachable anytime. Not only conversation you need to a partner. You need also a person that you can touch everytime you are in need.
@GemmaR (8517)
•
12 Oct 12
I don't think that you can ever be in love with somebody on the internet without meeting in real life, but that's not to say that you can't meet somebody online and then meet up later in life and really like them for the person they are. The problem is that, whether we mean to do this or not, we are not the same people behind our computer screens as we are in person so we might not get on with the people in real life that we would if we were on the internet. But I always say that it is worth trying if you think it might be love.
@magicchou (163)
• China
11 Oct 12
Most of the times, no.
It is pretty tricky that many people feel romantic chatting with a "stranger". I do not know why. May be it is because they know little about each other and they can much to talk. They can talk about anything without give too much consideration. Actually, when they meet each other in reality. They will find that they do not love each other. And there are huge difference between what their dates actually are and their impression of them. It is the huge difference that make them stop chatting with each other even on line.
@khhhaaaat (112)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
Nah. Probably not.
A love that you found online is bound to be a fake one.
So many people online faking their identity, its hard to trust and when you actually trust, you've fallen so hard you can't stop.
A love that goes fast, ends up fast.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
11 Oct 12
I have seen cyber love last and they are happy together today. It really depends on the seriousness of the person and you also. There are people who have many persons on the net and they tell each one that they love them and this is just fooling. So if that person is serious it will last. Anyway you have to meet the person in person if you love him or her to make it last. Upon meeting you can decide. Sometimes the person you chat to, is something else altogether when meeting in person. To hold the cyber love relationship till the time you meet, you must be in contact by skype of email so that the gap is not felt. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.