My partner wants to break up with me but I don't want to let her go.

If you truly love her, you would prefer the things she wanted to do. Keeping her for yourself is not good either for you might be ending up hurting yourself more.

Woman mostly turn like that if they have low self esteem . It takes a man like yourself to make her feel even worst.. You don't love her ..you need her.(when u can't find one to cheat)

im sorry for that. i guess you love her for who she is. even if she is fat. anyway if she doesnt make you happy you have to let her go. it can hurt you but we should always fight for our happiness. there was a guy i loved so much. i didnt want to accept that he was with other girl and ignored all the promises we made to each other. but now i realize that he just was unfair to me. i loved him so much and instead of fighting for us to be together he prefered to find someone else. i cried a lot and tried to talk to him many times to know why he did that but i still dont know. i guess he just never loved me. anyway im telling you this for you to understand that we get hurt when we love someone but everything can be good again. as long as we keep being strong and believe that someday we find the right one. talk to your gilrfriend and tell her how you feel. maybe things can be solved yet. fight till the end. if then you see there is nothing to fight for anymore, let her go.

Just let her go. You think you cant live without her for now but as time goes by the pain that you feel because of the break up will go away. Time heals.

Honestly, it isn't up to you. If she wants to break up, then ya'll are through. And talking like that and haven't thoughts like that, no wonder. She doesn't deserve that kind of crap. You don't love someone and also Hate the person they are. It's one or the other. Yes we all have habits and stuff we do that our partners don't like, but usually we have them before we became a couple. She's trying to take herself away from you herself, so what's the big deal. You just want her to go nowhere, even though you don't want her. That's just stupid, dumb and petty. If she was all those things before, then what even attracted you to her; at least she opened her eyes and saw the kind of person you really are. You'll be lucky if find anyone at all, talking like that. The two of you are DONE, let it go and move on. When one person wants to end the relationship, just let it happen.

Love is not measured what things you hate about her, you cannot go on without her because in your heart you deeply inlove with her. those negative descriptions you have mentioned it means you are not actually count on her appearance. and there is something about her that you can't let go. love is in your heart, a real true love... so without you cannot go on. for me love is not actually an obligation and not depends on her appearance. those things she is lack off. If she want to break up with you try to analyze how you can manage life without her otherwise you need to compromise.. Happy mylotting!

I wish matters of the heart were that simple.. But in reality you are mouring the lost of your girlfriend.. Yes it sounds like you two shouldnt be together anymore but there are strong memories/feelings that are keeping you tied to her.. It does seem to make it easier to let them go by degrading the good memories the good times that you had with her.. In the long run it will just make things worst.. Depending on how long it does take for you to get over her some of the lies that you are telling yourself so you will move on may become your truth... When it was anything but the truth in the first place.. Regardless of who breaks up with who first it will affect the both of you the same.. just may be in different aspects of your lifes... Hating a person because they dont love you anymore doesnt work either.. I still love my ex husband and we have been divorced now for five years.. Theres a difference.. you can love a person forever but its are to stay IN love for the same amount of years.. people fall in and out of love all of the time.. That is one of the reasons its been said that it is not a good idea to start a new relationship right after a break up.. It will just be a rebound relationship.. regardless of how long you knew the next person etc. etc. etc. It happen to me last spring.. Giving yourself time to heal is good, not going to sugar coated it or anything... Its gonna hurt like hell.. but over time it will get easier to manage..

When we love someone, we feel that way. We are too blind to see the wrong until our heart get tired of it. Just bear with it, one day your heart will get tired and one morning you will see yourself you have forgotten her and you can't even remember the feeling anymore.

Since your girl has so many faults why do you still find hard to break off with. Love is really blind. Get a note book and list down all the bad faults she has in the first column. On the second column list all the good habits she has. Then balance them off. If the faults out-balanced off the goods then say good bye to her. Good riddance of bad rubbish.

Hi friend, good to know about your feelings, i think you are mad about your love. As you mentioned you try to forget her and don't have the ability to do it, i think you are in serious and sincere love with her. Don't worry, you have the ability to forget her by diverting your concentration with other things. We are the boss of our mind and heart and have the ability to control them. So control it and come out from your issues. All the best

If you do not like her and the way she is and if she wants to break up with you than you are in the win win situation. Just be strong and don't think much. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.

I can't really say on what to do since I kinda feel the same way last night. He broke up with me for a lame reason and I thought he really took it seriously but just today, he said sorry and he was just pissed last night because I wasn't able to answer his call a few times. Right now, I still feel a little not in the mood. But what i did last night to get out from pain was watching some shows or movies that inspired me and that I like. Well, I love animes and there is a certain anime that talks about being a comic artist soon. That is actually my dream so I just watched it all the way till the end of the season. I feel kinda relieved and just wanted to think about fulfilling my dreams instead from the pain i am hurting. You should also try doing that friend, aim for your dreams ^^

Just take heart,but you'll have to accept the truth.If she doesn't want you anymore it might be for the best.who knows? you might find your best match yet.

I don't think thinking about bad things about her would help you to forget your feelings for her.. We all know that if we love a person, we do accept all whoever he/she was..no matter what are his/her looks, his/her attitudes.. If we love a person, we do love him/her because we JUST love him/her.. as we all know "LOVE IS BLIND".. I don't know how would you forget your feelings for her. But one thing I'm sure is that If you really love her, you would give her all that would make her HAPPY.

I think you are young to deal with such case, anyway, life has to move on, you have to forget her and find you new life. In general, people don't behave rationally after one relationship was broken, but the best choice for you is to go ahead! Just forget the pass. When someday you find you new love, you will find the world is so wonderful!