How to have peace at heart?
By wongchoiyee
@wongchoiyee (7413)
Malaysia
October 17, 2012 9:40am CST
I believe a peace at heart can gives us happiness to do things, without peace people do things they do not want, especially when the mind is troubled, I am one of them without peace at heart. What ways do you think you can have peace at heart except from meditating and praying to God?
1 person likes this
12 responses
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
23 Oct 12
That is good. So far no one has ever ask for fight with me also, but I feel uneasy last time because some friends just did that, which leads me to depression. However, I am feeling better now, I don't know why.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
19 Oct 12
However, if people are looking for fights with you, how do you reject them?
@smtrsv (186)
• India
23 Oct 12
First of all I should know who breaks our peace at heart. If I am afraid that I should be successful or not, I shall be hurting my peace at heart. Lord Krishna says in his holy book SRI MADBHAGWAT GEETA, we should make all the efforts, and the results should be left for the lord. What we can do, that is the effort.
Thus I can have peace at heart. I do agree that it is difficult but not impossible.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
23 Oct 12
Dear smtrsv,
You are right. By what you said, we must take some efforts to regain our peace at heart, the rest leave it to God. I must say that I do this also, and I am feeling better.
1 person likes this
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
17 Oct 12
I live with severe depression which I feel is a kind of troubled mind. To have peace of mind is to know yourself well and have a positive frame of mind even when things are negative in your life. It is a strength that comes from within. Yes, having peace of mind comes from knowing oneself and being totally honest with what you need and want in this life.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
18 Oct 12
Yes, inner strength are hard to developed nowadays, it can happen if we are happy.
1 person likes this
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Oct 12
Inner strength is a virtue that we can develope if we try. Keep trying and it will happen.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Nov 12
To have a peaceful heart and mind is to trust everything to God.
When we have complete faith that God will guide and provide- then you will always have security and confidence that life is good ahead.
We should trust ourselves , rather trust the Lord with all our heart and ask for God's guidance and help in everything we do.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
18 Oct 12
I personally get my peace from my relationship with God. I wouldn't be able to find it any where else. I find it very peaceful to spend time in prayer.
there is probably different ways people fin dpeace but the main thing i wonder is how long does it generally last for others.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
19 Oct 12
I find praying to God give me peace, but nowadays people are stress more than the older age.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
19 Oct 12
Well maybe just try your hardest to over come that kind of stress. People will always be in your life but if you can release the stress, you will feel much better.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Yes... when you have peace in your heart you can do things well. When you have peace in your heart you also have a peace in your mind. I think the only way we can acquire peace, as in inner peace when we pray, when we surrender everything to God. That's the only time I got peace when I cry out to God how I feel.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
17 Oct 12
hello there wongchoiyee,
with regard to your post, generally, most people find it difficult to have the peace at heart. as they always hold on the heartaches and pains instead of letting it go, they tend to sensationalize the situation. so as a result, those people seldom achieve the peace that they are longing for.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
18 Oct 12
Which is why people should achieve peace at heart since everyone can't do the things they like anymore when their mind and heart is troubled.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
19 Oct 12
Yes you are correct! Mind peace is something a human needs, not like money and material things. Without peace nothing is won in this world.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
17 Oct 12
hi, try to read some books ,what ever you like. I understand , when ever we are disturbed , meditation , praying to God, nothing works. I have undergone this situation, during such time i try to read some books any book which i feel like reading , as i go on reading i for get about the disturbance and pain ,when and why it happened. I can understand we cant even or don't even like to talk to people. so better read a book or listen to music, or go out for sight seeing.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
18 Oct 12
Ya, prashu. It is hard to even meditating or praying when your mind is disturbed. It is a good idea to read a book, and I also work on mylot if my mind is disturbed that day, I can release my tension here, mylot friends are cool, they understand each other and help each other where no sites like this are the same.
@toxic_lifestyle (1213)
• Philippines
17 Oct 12
We can achieve peace only if we just know how to release and let go of our negativity in our life. :)
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
24 Oct 12
Hi friend, i agree, if we don't have peace of mind we don't have the ability to do our work in a proper way, every one needs calm and concentration to do their work properly. I will get peace of mind while praying God and prayers are my way to get peace and gain new energy
@lymsnb (223)
• China
18 Oct 12
listen to music ,take it easy .and paly with the little children .or watching movies with your best friends forever , in fact play with the children you can very happy ,and relaxe yourself. never lose the innocence let nature take it cause .happy every day .
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
19 Oct 12
I have a dog and he is loving me very much, everyday he just plays with me and I feel happy, free from stress, I also listen to lite music, featuring songs from 80s-90s which I like.