53 Cents Is a Big Lost For Me - I Just Did A Favor For Everyone!
By rberon1985
@rberon1985 (5359)
Philippines
October 18, 2012 9:52am CST
It was so sad that one of my discussions that gave me a big earnings here was deleted. I was just asked by a lot of members not only from our country but from other nations to post the result of the Second Meet-up of Filipino Mylotters. I did it during the meet-up that was last Saturday,so everyone will be updated. Last Tuesday, I saw a lot of responses and comments. I tried to accomodate everyone by answering all their responses. Few hours, the discussion was deleted. I know I have posted a similar discussion but since this is an event, this should be given some consideration. Events needs follow-up and update.I just did a favor for everyone so they would see some pictures of the event. I know doing some meet-ups and gatherings help streghten the friendship of all the members here and make them stay longer here in the site.Sometimes we really have to think first before we report someone. It's okay if the admin decided who deleted the discussion. It means their reasons are valid why they deleted it. I also want to apologize for those members who exerted their effort for responding on that deleted discussion.I don't know that discussion will be deleted. let us just enjoy here.
happy mylotting everyone!!
i am not mad. i just want everyone to be fair.we are family here.
i am not mad. i just want everyone to be fair.we are family here.5 people like this
14 responses
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
18 Oct 12
I was also shocked when it got deleted. I think I responded almost as soon as it was posted. I did not imagine at all that it would be considered duplicate discussion; yes, I know it was one of several topics you had about the gathering, but, as you said, it was an update which we all have been waiting for.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
I really don't know what was the reason behind it why it was deleted. it is an update for an event that everyone has been waiting for. i did not copy my old discussion about the second meet-up. the wordings posted on that discussion is totally different from my post. anyway, we cannot do something about that. we have to anticipate that it really happen. i just have to be careful next time. i apologize if you were affected by that deleted discussion.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
yeah, it's fine with me. I am happy in the site and I will not leave the site just because of that issue. it is not a big deal for me. i am just upset because it was not justified. it is an event and will need an update to the member. i did not make the similar discussion.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
I respect the guidelines of the site, I've beem here for four years and I know how the site works. maybe i am just upset because it is actually not a copied article or post but a follow-up or the final result of an event which eveyone has been waiting for it. i will not send an e-mail. it's fine with me.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
It was really so sad that I lost that big amount. You know I should be hitting my pay out today but I was surprise to see that deduction on my earnings. I don't see any problem on that discussion. it was an event and would really need a follow-up and update the members of the site. I don't see why they are not getting my point here.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
there is a way, and that is to send an e-mail to the management. i don't want to waste my time. I'll just make quality post instead of sending them an e-mail. Maybe they have enough reason why they have deleted that discussion. I will just be very careful the next time so it won't be deleted.Let us just enjoy posting here.
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@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
21 Oct 12
Losing 53 cents because of one discussion deleted? What a loss 
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I wish you'll get more in the future as the substitute, then.
At least you've interacted with some friends here through that discussion. Talking with friends can be really invaluable.
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I wish you'll get more in the future as the substitute, then.
At least you've interacted with some friends here through that discussion. Talking with friends can be really invaluable. 1 person likes this
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
People,members and we friends here cannot be exchange by any amount with the fun and happiness that we get from the site.our friends here are like our friends in real life. they are very supportive in all our post. they respond to discussions whole heartedly and give their point of view as best as they could be.that is one of the reasons why I am in the site. this can't be exchange in any forum sites in the internet.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
I was already able to move on with it.what is upsetting that time is that will complete my pay out that day then suddenly, my earnings went down that day and of course require me to work again so i can reach the minimum. sometimes it is really sad especially if you work hard for it.
@jdalaqui (1073)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
Hi rberon, I understand what you feel but the rule here in my lot was laid down before any member joined this forum site. I think you cannot make a valid complaint about this but all of us not only you can learn a lot out of that experience. The rule of the conductor must be followed at all times.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
I am actually not complianing about this. I've been here for for four years and I already know how this site works. I am actually just upset because that discussion is not similar with the discussion I posted before. It is an event and would require an update to all the members.I'm sure you also wait an update on that event, right? I just do a favor on all the members here. anyways, i just shared my stories, nothing to worry about. i just shared my sentiments. this is the best thing about this site, we can share whatever feelings, emotions and ideas we have on different interests or topics here. happy mylotting!
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
I actually don't blame anyone here about that scenario. Sometimes it is just so disappointing that you work hard for something and you know to yourself that you deserve something on that, then suddenly this would happen. but I was able to move on already and learn from my experience. experience is really a great tool to learn a lesson from what we do.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Hello Rberon1985, I have read this in our Philippine Group, that is really sad because we are truly saddened. we have so many post there because our success, i guess some one doesn't really like us showing off that we can meet each other and put it in facebook. was the last discussion in our 2010 mylot conference deleted too? maybe we can just avoid making it much of a public in this meet up situation. my advise right now probably we should meet up with out much discussion of it, some people are getting jealous out there.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
I agree you on that. someone has reported to the admin who really envy us because we can do or organize events like this. we cannot really avoid crab mentally.those are the people or members who are actually insecure.what makes me upset is that, that amount will complete to meet my pay out. but i already move on to it since I already meet my pay out yesterday.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
WOw sorry to hear that and yes 53 cents is not easy to find here in mylot though just post it in your blog site then so we can get to see you guys and your pictures. Hope we can have time to meet together with other mylot members again this coming December though the only problem is the schedule.
though just post it in your blog site then so we can get to see you guys and your pictures. Hope we can have time to meet together with other mylot members again this coming December though the only problem is the schedule.1 person likes this
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
The next conference will be next year already.A lot of members are asking me to do a Christmas party this december. i am not so sure if I can do it because I will be busy this holiday season.next year, i will make it sure that it would be one of the biggest events. it will be held in a popular hotel in the country.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
I had 4 responses that also got deleted because the discussion violated the rules.But, I don't really know why and i can't seem to figure out what rule violates it. But now, I see my earnings went back up. I think they have made a mistake or something because earlier I already saw my earnings from yesterday, when I went home I saw my earnings increase so I was thinking maybe they got those discussion back on and did not violate the rule at all (I am not sure if this is possible, but I just don't know why my earnings would increase all of a sudden) We have lost some earnings but i'm sure it is also for our good.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
It is possible that they can bring back the discussion, maybe the discussion starter fight for it and explain why it won't be deleted. I'm glad that your earnings went up again after it went down. With me, I am no longer expecting it and I don't want to send an e-mail with the management regarding this matter. I'll just continue posting and enjoy the site. anyway,the only purpose why we are here is to enjoy!!
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
maybe they would treat as a similar discussion. i am really upset because that will complete my pay out that day.but this time i am already okay because i already reach the pay out. it is a great experience for me.i've learned a lot of things from that experience and told myself to be very careful the next time.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
Its good that you are aware of those even you are just new here. welcome to mylot community. Just enjoy the site. I'm sure you have already check all the guidelines here.let us know if you have some concerns about the site.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
19 Oct 12
53 cents is a hell lot a big amount here. it is like a days works for many so it all going to vain is depressing,. I think I had responded to that discussions also since I see a decrease in the number beside my name. I did not encounter and decrease in my earnings though. I have never encountered and decrease in my earning as yet in these four month but I have encountered an increase in the day time. Yesterday it was like 5cents bonus in the day time but I have no idea how i got it. I feel sorry for you and I hope you have learnt from this one. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
it is really deppressing on my part especially that time i am about to reach my pay out. i was really hard headed that time and made me make this post. most of the time, i can write well especially when i am mad. i can even write 3 to 4 paragraphs. but don't you worry because I already move on to the situation.i learned a lot from that discussion and promise myself not to make any discussions that will be deleted
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
18 Oct 12
Sorry to hear it was deleted. But how do you know you lost so much money? Is that the only post you made?
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
18 Oct 12
I actually based it on my earnings yesterday and when I logged in today before the update of our earnings today, so the result ends up with 53 cents lost. it is actually quite big. It's fine because I can still earn that this coming days. I am just upset on those people who reported it and not thinking that it is not a similar discussion. if the admin were the one who deleted the discussion, it's fine with me, maybe they have some basis. I'm sorry, I think you were included and one of the responders of that discussion.
