Did you see your husband cry?
By youless
@youless (112621)
Guangzhou, China
October 19, 2012 2:54am CST
Actually I have not seen my husband cry. Whereas I often cry, even due to a touching movie. And at that time he will tease me. One day we watched a documentary from TV and it is about the education. It is moving and I seemed to hear a little bit sob just stayed in a second from my husband. Perhaps he had tear drops? I didn't know and at that time I didn't look at it. Otherwise he might feel it embarrassed
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21 responses
@joycseer (845)
• Malaysia
19 Oct 12
Hi youless, so far i have never seen my husband cry over any touching movies. he thinks that touching movies are not real in life, and it is just a show, for the sake of acting. hence, he has no feelings in it. i guess i am the one who is more sentimental. maybe it is normal that women are more sentimental than men? hahaha...
in my case, i have seen my husband cried many times. he only shed his tears in front of me. no matter how sad he is, he will never shed a tear in front of other people although he feels so badly. i remembered him telling me that he will only cry in front of me, and only i can see it because i am his wife. he does not feel embarrassed in front of me. =)
Have a nice day!
@joycseer (845)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 12
yes, i wonder why they do not feel sad as the movie or drama is so touching. sometimes i think is it because their heart is really so hard that they do not have feelings. hahaha.. some people in life learn things the hard way in order to touch them in life experience. anyhow, maybe i really put myself into the show, that is why i am so easily moved by touching movies or dramas.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
19 Oct 12
I have seen my guy cry. One time it was tears of joy. The other times it was tears of pain. It didn't make less of a man to me. It showed that he loves and trust me. He loves me enough to let me know how he really feels. He trusts me enough to cry in my presence. I felt truly connected in a way No paper or ceremony could do.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
19 Oct 12
yes i have seen my husband cry tears of joy and i have seen him cry tears of sorrow. I don't like to seem him so upset that he crys. It's only happened once. I pray we won't have to see him cry like that again
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Oct 12
hi ouless yes I have see n my husband c r y at movies that make me cry and it did not embarras as it was really a very toucbhing
movie. gosh men are humans too and humans do cry so why mot
a husband and there is nothing wrong with that either.In fact if I had married a man sour and dour and never even smiling I would have gone bananas. I was l ucky to marry a hapy man instead.
our life was full of laughter and smiles and good feelings miss him even though hes been gone for a long time.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
19 Oct 12
Hi youless! I remember several years ago when my husband was so lonely because of the demise of his mother. He cried all day and I can feel the pain he was undergoing through that time. That was the only time that I've seen him cry.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
My wife seen me cry for several times now. There are moments that I feel so emotional that I need to release those disappointments and frustrations. It's really a human nature to cry and we can't help it. It does not necessarily mean that we are weak when we cry, I believe. What matters is that we have an outlet and we fight back to whatever problems we have. Solve and make peace with ourselves and everyone. Thanks
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 12
Hi youless, whether my husband would cry or not I don't have any idea For I haven't seen him cry once in front of me. Might be he would but not to reveal in front of some one. In man's eyes, it would be really embarrassed for them to cry in front of his woman or any other people.
Happy posting
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@captinjack (788)
• China
19 Oct 12
LOL,typical husband. Being a man is tough, let alone in front of his wife. I can totally understand your spouse. On one hand, we have to avoid showing fear and face all kinds of obstacle. On the other hand, we are obliged not to appear sympathy or get moved by something or someone. Please walk in our shoes, Youless.
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@soorajsrs7srs (636)
• India
19 Oct 12
hey dear i am a husband. i too cries . but i try to hide it frm my wife because most of the husband like me dont like to show our worries to wife. so dnt think that ur hus always is happy
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
My husband is like me... easily touched by sentimental movies. so when we are watching a movie from the tv, and the drama comes in, he will immediately switch the channel to prevent him from shedding tears... because he knows i will tease him for that.
But I also saw him cried so hard, we were not yet husband and wife then. I think that was some 6 or 7 years ago... That was when he knew his father got sick and the damn doctor told them that their father only has 2 years to live. I really would like to go back to that doctor and sue him! But he already has flewn abroad. He really cried so hard like he has forgotten that he is a man... But for me, seeing him that way made him a real man...
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@41CombedaleRoad (5962)
• Greece
19 Oct 12
I have noticed that my husband cries over things that really matter. I don't - something kicks in and I if I do cry it is always much later. I am more likely to cry over something trivial and when I do I make sure no-one sees me.
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@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Yes, I already saw men who are crying. I saw my father crying one time praying for help for that time we are so down and helpless. We are running out of financial capability and he doesn't have work that time. I felt as if my heart was melted and I pitied my father so much.Thanks to God we survived on that misery.
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@boricuamama5963 (3)
• United States
20 Oct 12
i have caught my husband crying a couple of times while we were watching movies but i never said anything because i also didnt want him to be embarrassed but they alway say something when you start crying off of movies i kno exactly how u feel
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Many times I catch my ex that he cried when we are seeing a movie that is
very touchy only when I mention it he always denies it.
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@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
26 Oct 12
I have never seen my guy cry over a movie no matter how sad it is lol but I have seen him cry with real emotions like if I am sick . He also cry if I am crying over something sad , that is one of the reason why I love him because I am never alone nor have to cry by myself .
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
24 Oct 12
Hello youless, I met my husband when he was 15 and now he is 42. I´ve seen him crying since he knew I was pregnat, 14 years ago. He has become very emotional. Her mother says that we cry more as we get older.
I have seen my husband crying many times. When we have problems or he cries with kids movies, like ToyStory. I just try to support him if there´s a problem, and I respect always his tears. Tears aren´t sign of weakness. Are they?
Blessings youless... dainy
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@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 12
so far I never saw him cry. even sometimes he told me that he is very sad, I always look him as strong man -or may be always try to look stronger in front of woman. most of men are too shy to cry in front of woman, and my husband is one of them
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@Manasha (2824)
• Pondicherry, India
19 Oct 12
Husbands will always cry when they have family burden but unnoticingly. You might have seen those things because husbands want to hide those. So, there is no meaning saying that your husband cried at the documentary because it is a silly issue for others.
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