a boy leaves you for other girl. then he wants you back.. what you do?

The answer is no. A big NO. That right off the bat is a trust issue. If someone leaves you and then wants you back, well, thats not good at all. That goes to show you that the person is a sneaky liar and will do it again when the opportunity comes up. So stay away from anyone who leave and then says they want you back.

omg... i think it`s normally we didn`t accept the man and it`s generally situation for every person when his or her lover cheated them because of another people...

Never. How could i ever trust such a scumbag again. Once is enough, twice is too much. It's something that I could never accept no matter what. LIke you, i share the same opinion. He left me for someone else and just because it didn't work out, he will come back to me again? If i accepted him again, he would never respect me anymore and would still treat me like trash. I value myself more and i don't like being treated like a trash. I'm too precious to accept someone like that back in my life again.

Well, it happened to me before, my ex boyfriend leaves me because he met a new girl and had a relationship with her but when he found out that girl cheating on him he called me and wants me back. I did not accept him because i have no feeling to him anymore and I do not want to waste my love and precious time to him.

Oh :) Haha I've been to this few months ago :$ My ex who broke up with me, started sending me nice sweet messages again. My heart was happy and wanted to give another chance but my mind disagrees. And yes, my final decision was moving away from him.. Try to listen the song "Jar of Hearts" but the version of Tifanny & Boyce Avenue. It's a song for people who broke someone, then wanting to return. lol=) miss ya dear!

i wont accept because she may go again if she find a better guy than me.she is not a trusted person in that situation and she may turn again as she done before.

I will never ever accept him. I will not even think about it. It is impossible to have such thought. For me, love is a serious matter and I am very possessive of my guy. If he leaves for another gal, my love for him will turn into hatred. I will always consider him a betrayer. If he comes back to me, I will give him a tight slap & say get lost. Also, the lines I had mentioned earlier in a comment to the first response to your discussion. I am a strong lady & not so emotional when it comes to practical matters. Guys can play around with emotional gals but not with me. Sorry, Dude!

Hi sweet love forever: I don't think so not only because I will feel hurt if that happens but because a person who do this to me don't even know what she wants and I can't think about a person who will leave me and go back when she needs me as someone serious. ALVARO

No, I wouldn't. I'd say, he'll only do it again and will only hurt me again. I'd say enough. I want a man who will love me and me alone. I want a man who will not make me as his second option if the first one won't work. I want to be the first and and only option.

When somebody leaves you for someone else it means the person didn't love you truly, therefore, the person fell for another partner. If someone would do this with me, I would never take him back in my life again. The person who can leave me once can certainly leave me again. Someone who has lost trust in my eyes can never earn it back.

I am glad that my fiancee did not do this or she would not be my fiancee. This happened to her and she told the guy that she will not be someone's second choice. He left her and she was hurt by it, deeply. It was hard for her to trust me, and the reason is because she believed that all foreign men were the same. She even told me that she was not sure if she even wanted to be in a foreign relationship... So, all in all, I am VERY happy that she didnt go back to him...

Just don't bother to accept that kind of person again. Because he's just making you an option. :)

well, it really depends on why He leaves you. Sometimes we won't know how precious things are until they are gone. If he comes back to you by knowing that he can't live without you, then why not? everything deserves a second chance, why not give our self one right? ^_^

In my Opinion NO....Never.... because if he cheated you once then he can do this anytime in future. If I was in place of you than I will never make any reconnect/rethought about him.

I think that if I had a partner who left me for somebody else then I would try to cut him out of my life right away. If you love somebody, and you are serious about them, then there is no way that you would treat them in this way and that means that you should never let him back into your life again. Remember that you deserve somebody who treats you well and in a good way, and if this person chose somebody else over you, even once, then at the end of the day you're better off without them and they're not worth knowing.

The initial reaction for that would be, "You're stupid to fall for that crap!". But then again if you truly love the guy, you would readily give him another chance.

hi sweet, I don't want to be a rebound ex girlfriend I can forgive him but I will never accept him a cheater will always be a cheater happy mylotting

Hi, This boy is suffering from psychological disorder. Many men and women are suffering from this problem. In Psychology, it is called "Id". When s/he sees anybody better/smarter/sweeter/tin ager, then s/he wants to get him/her for his/her own. It depends upon personality of an individual. S/He may come back for the time being, but when s/he will get better opportunity, again s/he will do the same thing. He may leave you further and will remain with the person till he gets better service from her. If the new girl cannot satisfy him, then he will come back again. However, it depends on relation, if he frequently changes his mind, then it would not be wise to accept him again but if it is felt that he has done it whimsically, then he may be given another chance to rectify himself. Have a nice day.

No you shouldn't accept him because in the first place he was the one who leaves you. So why bother on accepting him again if you know that he just wants you back because you're just his option. Don't try to accept him because you'll never no if his being true to or not.

If my partner leaves me for someone else and opt to come back after their break up then that is not really acceptable for me. I cannot accept her again the reason that it seems that she making fun of me.Like trial and error lol. I don't give her any chance for more. I think she better find someone else.She is just fooling around.