What did or will you do after being dumped by your lover?
By Oldsix691418
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
China
October 22, 2012 7:34am CST
Around two days ago,there was a vedio news that said an American guy named Sunny,who had been in love with a girl,was dumped by that girl in the end.And in his frame of mind he went to the lottery shop.But little did he think he had the opportunity to win thirty million five hundred thousand dollars!He must be one of the people who God loves best!
Well,what did or will you do after having to break up with your lover?Share your idea.
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28 responses
@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
22 Oct 12
Lol, I wonder how that ex-girlfriend feels now, ha ha ha ha.
In my case, we stayed friends, shared secrets and visited each other for a while, until she met another lover. I guess there was no too much love between us, we had more of a friendship.
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@TheCatLady (4691)
• Israel
23 Oct 12
I'm on good terms with my ex boyfriend. It helps that we live on different continents. When he came into some money, not millions, but a sizable chunk, I warned him to be careful that women want him for himself and not his money. I still love him as a person, but don't want to marry him.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
3 Nov 12
Hi,Stringer321!I can see it was very tolerant of you that you let your girl find who she loved.Yes,if there's really no love between a man and a girl,we had better give each other more chances to find the lover.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
3 Nov 12
Hello,Catlady!I know love never means money,if a man gives you sizable chunk instead of his true love,he's not worth chasing.Have a nice day!
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
27 Oct 12
Hiya six,
Saying from this Country unlucky in love lucky in money sounds like that is true for him.
Although maybe he still loves her?
Who knows?
I was happy when I lost one of my Boyfriends best thing that ever happened to me I found another much better suited to me and I am still with him today.
However I did win myself enemies but they bother me not that is up to them who they like or dislike.
It was at a time that I neither wanted another Boyfriend or get married I just wanted to be on my own after all that.
However I did not win the lottery I wish I had of done both for him and for me.
But again I won something much better him one who is sitting across there a chair away from me.
I hope Sunny finds a new Girlfriend that stays with him for life.xxx
I am so glad he has won the Lottery good for him.xxx
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
8 Nov 12
Hiya six,
See what you mean, what I mean is that Sunny finds a different Girlfriend and it all goes well for him.
Good luck to him as well you can have money and love as well it all depends on the attitude you have in life I think so anyway.
Thank you six but I don´t need any more handsome guys than the one I have with me thank you so much anyway.
Good luck to you too and have a great Day.xxx
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
8 Nov 12
My!For us Cinese I don't think a man can accept that his girlfriend is still with her ex-boyfriend!Do you want to watch them fight some day?
Well,I can see you are so charming that you can easily win handsome guys.I hope you can win what you want to win.Good luck and have a nice day!
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@jhogenlids (16)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
there is a big difference of breaking up and being dumped. if i broke up i still give the relationship a chance until such time i can see if it will still worked out. when dumped, it is a very different story. it means moving on and look for another... God bless us all indeed...
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@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
5 Nov 12
Oh,what you stated is very right,breaking up doesn't mean being ddumped,they are not equal.So if you don't want to give up someone who you still love,you'd better judge it well before chasing someone else.Have fun!
@chellakutty (69)
• India
22 Oct 12
ya .........we have to do tat oly for a good life....
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@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
I will just move on with my life. Easier said than done but that's a reality I must face. I believe that we have someone out there intended specially for us. Do my best to work toward my goals and be successful. Good luck to all of us. Thanks
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@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
5 Nov 12
Wow,that's the spirit,my friend!you will not spend the whole life on someone else who never love you at all.Of course you have to do your best to win the one who may become your lover later.
@chellakutty (69)
• India
22 Oct 12
superb...nice suggestion......ya we should be lik this oly guys:)
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
• Bangladesh
22 Oct 12
If I get dumped by my lover then I would think this girl is not perfect for me and I have come to a wrong place. I wont get any bad mood.
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@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
5 Nov 12
Yes,since she decided to leave you,that meant there's no love in her heart.So you didn't have to stay with her any longer,and saying goodbye was the best for both her and you.Have a nice day!
@chellakutty (69)
• India
22 Oct 12
love means we hav to show our true affection n feelings...so if we love anybody ,,,then we should be very sincere to them.....or else we should not love anybody,.........
if they break up their love then they should concentrate oly on their works n not on their past love or xgal fren...
after tat if any gal attracts u ...then u can go for second with ur true love else u should nt go for time pass also,......
so pls concentrate on ur works to achieve somethin in ur life....n dont waste time by thinking ur past love....
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@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
6 Nov 12
I agree.If someone who is serious with love want to find the cup of tea,then I believe that he or she should do and can do what you metioned above.But those who have no true love inside never do like that.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
22 Oct 12
I bet she is disappointed that she dumped him now! She would have lost out on his good fortune for sure. I hope she doesn't want him back, because she would only want him for his money. I much prefer to be dumped rather than doing the dumping because when you are dumped by someone you have no regrets, it was their choice not yours. I enjoy my freedom too much, so after I have been dumped I will do all the things that I like to do, and not having to do what they wanted to do. I spend more time in the gym!
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
3 Nov 12
If the girl dumped the guy just because of his poverty then she must be extremely disappointed for her wrong decision.But it's too late,and that's what she deserved!
I agree.If you are not the cup of tea for someone,you may be dumped,but that means he's not your proper spouse,you don't have to regret.Well,spending time in the gym is much more graceful than sobbing.Good luck!
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@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
3 Nov 12
Yes,you are frank and right.When I was in love with my girlfriend(now my wife),I directly told her that I was poor as hell,if she never loved me,she could leave me as early as she could so that both of us would be hurt.But by now,she hasn't wanted to go away from me.
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@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
3 Nov 12
But if there's not a breakup between them,the guy might not touch lotteries,so the girl "was to blame" for the young's winning lotteries,hehe.I've ever bought lotteries,but I lost more than two thousand yuans.
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@asyria51 (2861)
• United States
23 Oct 12
I have had two "hard" break ups from long term relationships. The first one ended amicably. We just did not have enough in common to keep making it work. The second big break up in my life did not end so amicably. I found out that he had been cheating on me and had been too much of a jerk to just call it off with me. I did not handle that one too well. I threw a lot of things. Mostly the figurines that he gave me. Those shatter really well.
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@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
6 Nov 12
Oh,sorry for bringing you the two "hard" things.Yes,since there's no too much in common,saying good-bye is better,and once you find the one who you love is lying on purpose or more than that,you have to break up the relationship at once.Hehe,at that special time,you didn't want to see that man as well as those things he gave!
Good luck and have a nice day!
@Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 12
Wow, he must be one lucky fella! Probably if he was still with that girl, he wouldn't be getting that lottery.
Well, it shows that after a break up, life still goes on. That's what I did, get on with life but I wasn't that lucky to win a lottery.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
2 Nov 12
If anyone who had to break up can win a big sum by lotterying,then no one dare set up a lottery site!Yes,encountering a break up never means finishing your life,it just tells you that you haven't found your cup of tea.Good luck and have a nice day!
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
22 Oct 12
I wonder if the girl came running back to him...
I had several break ups; but I've been with my spouse now for almost thirty years, so I can't quite recall what I did after those break ups except perhaps being sad.
And I certainly wish I will never have to experience anymore break up at this stage.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
2 Nov 12
Hey,Sishy7!Did you have to break up so many times?Yes,any break-up contained more or less sadness,and that's normal.
Before getting married,I really thought it over in case I wasted too much time since life is so short.I'm sure I don't have to face any breakup.
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@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
23 Oct 12
Hi friend, the story is very crazy. most of the persons will be depressed and take some unwanted decisions if they break up with their love, but this guy is different and bought a lottery ticket to check his luck. If i have break up with my love and the mistake is from my side, i will ask sorry for my mistake, otherwise, if the fault is from my lover's side i will tell about her fault and made her to realize it
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@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
7 Nov 12
Well,there's another crazy affair in China yesterday!A young woman won 60 million yuan by buying China welfare lottery just as she qualling with her husband!
But someone will break up for no reason,then how do you do?
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
7 Nov 12
I agree.Anytime we must be clear enough and make a right decision for the future.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 12
Truly it is a blessing in disguise for this man. He would not have been an instant millionaire if he is still with his girlfriend. He is definitely not lucky in love but should thank his lady luck for that great fortune. If am not fated to be with my lover then I just let him go and move on to wherever my heart brings me.
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@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
1 Nov 12
Few people met such a great fortune,but it really happened.Yes,sometimes we have to believe in the fate and let something go along the way that God leads.Good luck and have a nice day!
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
4 Nov 12
Oh he was a lucky man, I recall also the said "unlucky in love, lucky on money" This guy had it in mind! Good for him. But I wouldn´t like my hubby dump me so I can became a millioner, I prefer to be poor.
When I was dumped I felt so sad, as never in my life. And til them I decided to follow Jesus, each day of my life. Since then has been 17 years of following Jesus daily.
Blessings friend dear Old... dainy
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
5 Nov 12
Wow,staying with your hubby the whole life is absolutely equal to becoming a millionaire?!
Well,nothing is worse than being dumped by the one who you ever loved deeply inside your heart,but if sadness cannot help you,moving on is the best,right?
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@andy77e (5156)
• United States
22 Oct 12
Actually wining the lottery is a curse. G-d must really hate this man, to let him win the lottery. It's the worst thing that can possibly happen to a person.
You should read the stories of people who won the lottery. The end up more miserable than ever, and regret winning.
As for what I would do:
I would never have a lover unless I was married to them. And only when I was married would I have a lover. So what happened to this man, would never happen to me.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
6 Nov 12
Well,here I can meet a people who is criticizing "winning the lottery".There's no doubt that winning the lottery is a good thing for someone who can stop going to the lottery sites,but it's a piece of bad news for a man who can not control himself,for the winning is the beginning of losing till he'll be a poor gambler!
Hehe,what you said about a lover here is closely similar to what I had thought before!Before falling in love I seriously thought over what and who I wanted,then I started my "looking for love" plan.And till now it's been quite fine.
@chellakutty (69)
• India
22 Oct 12
well...nice suggestion n i wish u to get a good life n a nice man:)
@pokumon (644)
• United States
23 Oct 12
For most of my break ups I have cried a lot. I believe I have only had one relationship end amicably. It is definitely easier to be on the other side as the person doing the dumping. After the only amicable break up I remained very close to my ex-boyfriend. Even after we broke up that day we still held each other's hand. I believe it is for the best when you break up with someone. If you fall out of love or have too many fights, it is best to break up even though it hurts temporarily. I was single for almost 2 years, but I believe the wait was worth the wait. I am happy and in love and sincerely hope that I don't have to go through one more breakup.
I will say that I wish that I had my first heartbreak during high school, but I did not start dating until I was 18 and in college. I became so depressed after the break up that I started to fail a lot of my classes because I just did not care anymore. My parents were sitting all the kids down in the kitchen and asking serious questions like Are you getting married? to my sister when she brought her boyfriend home. She said well what about Po? She has a boyfriend! I had been too afraid to tell my parents about him because Asian parents can be quite strict. My dad's advice was only to not let it interfere with my studies. I guess I did not listen sadly. The first heartbreak is the hardest and it gets easier. I think I would still cry a lot if my boyfriend broke up with me.
@pokumon (644)
• United States
8 Nov 12
I have only been in love 3 times including currently. It takes me a while to love someone like 5 months or so and whenever I fall in love I am afraid of saying it first because the feelings may not be reciprocated. I think most breakups are unforgettable but maybe they are because I won't remember the words verbatim. I just remember my reaction to them.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
7 Nov 12
Hey!How many times have you ever been in love receiving so much crying?So an amicably breakup is unforgetable,right?I say,before loving and being loved,sometimes we can never have chances to choose.
Well,too early falling in love is obviously not a good thing since it can easily interfere the study,especially you might win neither love nor study!And that would make our parents rather sad,too!Hope you don't have to encounter another heartbreak.
Hehe,in high school I really didn't know and have spare time to love though some of my classmates did it so well.I started my love plan just as I had got my collage diploma by teaching myself.Good luck and have a nice day!
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
22 Oct 12
well i would take to her again,or else just ignore her and move on ,since we also have our own self respect
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
5 Nov 12
See?Chellakutty said that there's no ego in love!But what I experienced is self-respect brought me a good wife.Have a nice day!
@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
22 Oct 12
Wow!! I'm so jealous, but in a good way
I think that it is always a good idea to do something nice for yourself right after a break-up. Few things can be nicer than winning the lottery! Sunny is truly blessed.
All of my break-ups have been blessings in disguise. At the time of any breakup I am all bummed out, but after the fact I look back on things, and I am able to see that the break up was exactly what I needed.
Breaking up with the wrong one makes way for the right one, and that is always a good thing.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
5 Nov 12
Hehe,anyway it was that guy who won the lottery but not you and being jealous can not help you share his sums.
Especially when someone who you loved dumped you,you mostly felt bummed out.But once you wake up from it,you'll see you did a right thing.You cannot stay with someone who never loves you the whole life.