I Get Jealous With Other myLotters

Since she is your friend, try to send her a private message and tell her what you wrote here. There is nothing wrong giving information to newbies as long as they listen. There are newbies who doesn't listen to vets rather they find it offensive (lols it happens with me) hahaha So, I suggest you send a private message to that mylotter to make her aware and send her the Mylot FAQ's link as well.

There is plenty to go around her at mylot. i sure dont feel that way at all. Have a great day there...

You get paid for whatever you post. So why should it make a difference to you which mylotter has posted the discussion. Just concentrate on the topic and if its something you can contribute to then go ahead and earn. Dont be jealous of what others post. I too am not able to take part in many of my friends discussions because they are on topics that I have nothing to contribute to. The loss is finally mine. But I dont bother who responds to my discussions and who doesnt. As long as there are enough discussions for me to respond to. Ofcourse the more responses I get for my discussions the more I am able to earn by counter commenting on each of them. But sometimes time does not permit me to be online everyday and I am not able to respond to comments on my own discussions. Thats okay becuase the loss is finally mine and no one elses. So others should not be bothered. Because finally we are all here to earn.

You don't have to feel jealous about this,rather be pity to her.She posted a lot and thinks she can earned from all of her post but not to replies back maybe she doesn't read the guidelines and how to earn here in mylot. I can see a lot of mylotters doing the same but we cannot do anything about it unless we are able to tell them to get back and review the mylot earning pages.I'm on my clearing process too and I'm not able to start a new one unless clearing has been completed. In these few years I've stayed here in mylot there was only one case I deleted one mylotter who was added in my list.I'm not easy to be pissed off but I think its the right thing to do. I deleted her into my list so I'm no longer engaged with any of her activities. I accept friends requests and vise versa but this mylotters had reach my bottom line.So, I think I did the right thing. You can decide whether you delete her or not you can just send her a persnal message and advise her or otherwise.. Take care and Happy mylotting..

Don't get jealous. You still earn by commenting on her. But if you really care for her, you should tell her to respond and participate in her discussions. Or maybe, to remove the guilt, just delete her on your friend list.

What's the reason to be jealous, anyway? If I were you, I actually don't really mind if he/she doesn't reply me back. No further discussion might means there's fewer chance for us to earn, but at least we earn from what we have already wrote. And if we are really interested in that discussion, we could try to give reply on another responses. Maybe they'll reply back better, even though we got no notifications if they are doing so..

Well, i always avoid such starters and never even give a look on their topics. It irritates me and if someone starts more than three consecutive discussions, then s/he pays less attention from me in future. I dont know why some people dont tend to read the guideline and irritate others. Have a nice time.

Have you already informed her of MyLot's rule? Or even advised her to read the site's faqs and guidelines? There is no reason to get jealous with this MyLot user. In fact, I agree with one commenter here. We should take pity to that user and inform her of the rules instead of just letting her be.

Boy this is ignoring! First all I would sent her a private nessage saying earning comes from mylot program and it based on quality of discussion and replies she should make and she need going back to by reading all terms and faqs. If problem still persist, you can ignore her discussion or temporary remove her! I recall one my friend, started lots of discussion by complaining who one replies, after going through replies, I noticed she didn't responsed to any of those! That member is not a newbie and simply remove! I hope this help.

hi, it is also happen to me,i have referred a friend here in my work to join here and yes she joined but she never response to any of my created discussions but its okay with me,and i don't feel jealous because she more response to other mylot user discussion because i can earn from her participation.

Hi julyteen I also had the same thought when I was new here. But I had some good people here who gave me some good advice. So now when I come across such people, I always share what I learned. What you can do is to advise her that she will not earn much if she doesn't comment back to her responses in her discussions. Helping out a friend to earn is always a good thing, ya?

Hi Julyteen, no don't be jealous of her because you are doing so much better than what the person did. If she abandoned all the responses she received and lost the chance to earn better, I dont think it is something to be jealous for. Because she is a newbie, I think the best way is talking to her about this problem. Maybe she doesnt know how mylot works and maybe she get the wrong guidance about mylot, I saw some people said make this xx comments in a day then you will earn xx money in the following day, that is totally wrong and misleading because there is no fixed rate for every post we made here, it is all depend on the quality of our participation. You can start a conversation with her like, hey I have a secret to share how to earn better income on mylot, would you care to know? The secret is not posting a lot of discussion in a day because mylot is not a writing site where we get paid based on page view or how many responses we get, nor making XX post to earn XX money but the key is to make a quality participation, comment back to the discussion you started, build a conversation with other members in the response box, it will give you better chance to earn higher earning than when you only post a discussion then leave it never comment back there. If you are tired from the notifications whenever she started a discussion you can turn it off, so you dont have your email inbox flooded by notification from her discussions. I like adding active people who likes to start new discussion, but people on my friend list doesnt started 50 discussion in a day...that's a lot.

If I were you I would either tell them these things, remove them from your list or turn off the notification for them in the friends list.

Hello julyteen I think you don't have to be jealous. Since she's new here perhaps she doesn't know the rules. I know how you feel. You might disappointed with her, and that's a normal reaction. Maybe it's better to inform your friend what she suppose to do and give her suggestions to increase her earnings. That's a kind deed..:) Thank you for sharing and have a great day ahead!

i do not think you should be jealous of her, you thinking about her is just giving you more anxiety and aggravation..let her be and move on.

There are many new Lotters here that don’t know that they don’t earn by our responses to them. They don’t realize they have to actually RESPOND in order to earn. They don’t realize they have to participate in a discussion and not just post a discussion. The more we type the more we earn. It’s as simple as that. If you know your friend is behaving this way, it is best you inform her of this rather than just complain about it. You may think she knows how to earn here, but if she isn’t doing it… she isn’t earning much. She would earn much better if she participated. Don’t worry so much about her not commenting on your discussions. If you have good discussions people will come and leave a comment and you will have a chance to be a good host to your own discussions. Newbies often have to learn how important it is to be a good host, because we will not bother with them if they never come back and respond to their own discussions or respond to our own. Those that never learn will eventually leave here. I’ve seen so many give up because they don’t know how it works or they don’t want to work to earn.

You can choose to be kind and tell her how mylot actually works. Don't get upset that she didn't reply to your posts. Besides, we only earn from our own participation. Her problem is hers. Don't let it bother you. If you really dislike this lotter of course you are free to block her any time you want.

Thanks for posting this discussion! Now, I'm already aware on another of the do's and don'ts here in MyLot! Have a great day to all! :)

Hello dear- no need to get jealous at anyone here. we are all here having fun and earning a few dollars. You have a great day there. See you here soon.

awwww :D maybe she doesn't know that's why =) when I joined mylot, I honestly didn't know how this work too. But I am just conscious enough about such things. I actually hate spam so seeing such would look like spam. but anyway, maybe she would learn upon staying here few more days =D