What do most women want in a man?

Those qualities are required for the long run. You can fall in love in a man that is poor and has no friends if he knows how to make you happy and thrilled. If he knows how to make attraction you will be attracted to him. Your mind will tell you to stay away, but, your heart will tell you to get him. I think you talked about requirements for marriage and not for how to create the attraction.

Hey subho. Yeah, they always look for looks first because it matters if they are attracted or not. Yeah. Second would be financial security. Even though it's very greedy of them that they need money, it's very practical now. Of course trust and respect must be there.

Yeah. For having a relationship, I think you have to know how to make her happy. It's about being charming.

I hope many more women will tell their honest answer so we, the men can make an average and start to do something about it lol. I think you have a wonderful relationship if your man is funny and share some interests with you. Let's assume there are many more men like your man. What will make you love him more than the others ? A professional guide would say the feelings that he brings up in you are the thing that makes the difference. What do you think about it ?

Yeah. Having a good sense of humor is important because it makes the conversation going. You should also share common things to keep something to talk about. It will become boring in the long run. Majority of women also like their man to be muscular. That's why it is a good investment to go to the gym and lift weights. That's true stringer. It's the feelings that make the women feel secure and comfortable with. It makes the total difference.

We are expert on that man, specially if we like also the girl

Yeah. Most probably they will like a guy that way. The common is they have to be a gentlemen and a good sense of humor.

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Yes. It's true. You need to bring up emotions and be romantic. In most women they are vulnerable so it is quite fast for them to fall in love. Attraction is really important. For me, How can I present myself and improve my looks so that she'll be attracted to me?

Thank you for replying. Yeah. I hope I can have a good sense of humor. I am learning to be more conversational with women. I also like to have nice teeth but braces are expensive. Eventually I will have braces in the future if I have enough money. How can I have nice hands?

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Keep your nails trimmed. A new hairstyle might help too. And here are some links you may find helpful: www.webmd.com/healthy-beauty/advances-skin-care-9/men-nails-hands www.wikihow.com/Be-Good-Looking and www.seductionflirt.com/site/1391530/page/3132056 These should help you out. In the wkikhow site ignore step 5 about makeup. I think that one's for women! And the last two sites have pictures. Notice the difference in the 2 guys with only minimal changes. And some women find a little shyness in men attractive. Remember - I said a little. Friendly and helpful are appealing too. I know you didn't ask for advice on behavior but I'm throwing that in for free.

I was exactly what you have just described here. I accepted my girlfriend even though she was fat and felt bad about herself. I told her about the books that I read. I took her to a theater. She liked me too, but, as a friend only :(

Well yeah. You have to be respectful to women. And accept them for who they are. Then they will accept you for who you are.

I must say my boyfriend is cute and the hottest guy at school but we were beyond that because we were also friends before becoming a couple . We love each other inside and out . I am just lucky to have find my soul mate at a early age and we share everything together .

Yes a good personality will out shine anything . Every girl is different and will like different thing but one thing most of us have in common is the need to be love and treated with affection . Dont be afraid to show her how you feel because that is what she may want a guy that is brave enough to take chance , if she ignore you once it just to see how much you may like her lol

That is one of my weaknesses. It's hard for me to make a girl smile. But sometimes I am successful, most of the time I am not. They always look for your personality. If you have a lot of personality then surely your appearance can be ignored and girls will like you.

You have brought up a good point about the powerful position. A man can feel good and feel like he is the best prize for the ladies and that brings the ladies to get attracted to him. Guys with good economic status and position have all the proofs and reasons to feel successful and they do act like they are successful and ladies like that kind of confidence and they feel he is the Alfa male around.

Yeah. I like to become the status of the alfa male. Because you feel like you have all the confidence in the world. You feel powerful and secured. Surely you will become a magnet for women.

Yeah. That's why many relationships do not continue. But appearance is as important because it's the first impression to attract a woman.

What you mean by that, friend. I didn't say anything about women wanting to see me. I just share my opinion about it. I am a humble man and I don't have any material to give any women that see me but my love.

Yeah. You said it. But what do women get when they see you?

Okay. Thanks for commenting.

Yeah. Thanks for responding. Anything in particular you like in the appearance of men?

Thanks for replying. If I get attracted to a crazy girl and I am a decent guy, how can I pursue her?

Well, thanks for sharing. I also want an average girl because she may attract a lot of guys so that is very dangerous. hehehe That's the common answer, they want financial security. Well, as of now I haven't gotten it yet but hopefully women would want me for who I am and not for the money. It's hard to find those kinds of ladies now because they are into financial security now.

Hehehe I guess it will depend of what type of girl you're going to date with wether she is good looking or not, if she chose to look on the other side (cheat) then it will happen. Again I wouldn't say it's for money, I think financial security is the right definition, because for me, if I get involve with a man for his money alone (which I havn't done and I don't think I will) maybe I will not risk other emotions and wouldn't plan on spending my future with him. When I say future that includes to marry and have a family, without the financial security, you can't be sure if your family will have food to it until when, or if your children will have a good education, stuff like that, that is why love and other emotions is not enough for me, if it's only myself that I will have to worry about I wouldn't mind because I know how to earn on my own. On the other hand if all you have is money without an emotion it couldn't be called a relationship at all. Thank you .

Sorry for the typo I meant "eat".

It definitely depends on what she needs. It also depends on who she is. When you started the discussion you mentioned appearance. A woman who keeps herself tidy will not be attracted to a man who is untidy.

Okay. Of course. Thanks for your response.

Okay thanks. I am just taking the opinions of every woman here in mylot. hehehe Of course, it depends on the needs of the girl.

Attracted to a guy? Well, his personality and character. His outside appearance that reflects his personality and his character. Overall, in general and thats why I see him as handsome guy

Thanks for commenting.

But for you, what makes you say you are attracted to a guy?

Kinda....I don't like guys wearing long hair. I just don't feel comfortable seeing guys that way. I guess I want to see is a typical guy. The ruggedness of a guy is fine but still, it is a turn off if you come up with real filthy clothing!

Thanks for your opinion.

Well, yeah. You like neat and clean guys. I am in the middle. I have the clean look and the rugged look. So hair is most important to you?

yes, men are considered money making machine.

Oh, really. Thanks for the confidence.

Well, it's kind of harsh but it's true. Men always have the pressure to provide for their family. The men have to be the ones that earn more than the women. I hope this changes.

well, if a man is good looking then he has a great character that is really a plus. but also a man can be attractive even if he's not really good looking as long as he knows how to present himself well. being good looking and attractive are different. good looking means you are born with a beautiful or handsome face but being attractive means to attract in terms of character also someone who knows how to take care of themselves in terms of proper hygiene and wearing presentable clothes that can add up and make someone appealing and attractive to anyone.

Yeah. All those are important and that makes a women fall in love. In terms of appearance, what do you look for in a man?

Yeah. Thanks. I need to consult my clothes so that I can wear attractive clothes. I also need proper hygiene and something that is attractive to ladies.

Thanks for your response.

Well, I have to have a consultant for my fashion statements. I am not really into fashion so I need it so that I will be dressed appropriately. I am also trying to exercise and maintain a nice body. Of course, my hair is important and my face.

Well you should consider going for simple fashion for a start. Exercising is good and I do it twice per week. Yep face and hair are both important.