What attracted you to your partner?

I really go for tall guys if we are looking at superficial things. I have been married twice, both were over 6'2". I really look at personalities more, though. Both my guys were very respectful and caring. I am widowed once. Both of my husbands have been super intelligent, but very down to earth and common to get along with. I will say that a character trait my current hubby has is his attitude is the same as his blood type--B positive.

Ofcourse I have but fact is that what I like most I never dated or was married to. Might sound strange but it also means that if it comes to something else is more important.

I've found over the years that the men that I'm most attracted to have dark hair (or once did). I did date a blue eyed blond guy for a short time, but that was back in high school. I was attracted to a man for some time that was a blond, but his hair had gotten darker, but that was years ago. I like a man's eyes eyes, and his smile. I like that they make me laugh. I've been attracted to different body types too-the guys I used to date were rather thin, but I think that was because I was a lot thinner then; now I don't mind if they're a bit bigger. I DO like my guys with broad shoulders and narrow hips-the typical athletic build!

Before when I was still young, I after the looks but when I become mature I change. I dated most of them have a good loos and pretty but our relationship ends after many years due various reasons that I refuse to do like they are one proposed for marriage to me which at that age I am not yet ready. I end up to a partner who has an average looks but she treated me like her king.

Thinking back, I think that it was the fact that he was so different from me. Now don't get me wrong, there are some things we have in common but we are very different in aspects that other people find very important to achieve partnership..lol.

I was watching the news last night and at the end of the program there was a survey. It was asking if a girl is easily attracted to a funny guy. And I thought to myself, yeah, I think so. My husband was really a funny guy. He is my exact opposite coz I tend to be quiet just most of the time and he would be the ice breaker.

I think what attacted me to my husband at first glance... He is very handsome and tall. I love that. He is spanish, which I love. He was very sweet and always cared about how i felt and what i was thinking and doing. Next month we will be together 9 years. I love him more today then I ever did. I am very blessed

I think first and foremost, he must be handsome in my eyes, it is not necessary for all the people who come to the same standard of handsome, he should be the one graceful in appearance just for me. Secondly, he must be a less-talker, I don't know why, but I'm just tired of man who talks so much and blames one thing again and again, that makes me crazy, and if he is also a loud-speaker, the abomination climb to the top. Lastly, he must love animals like cats and dogs, that sometimes infer he is a guy with kindness. OK, That's all.

My boyfriend drew me in with his smile and his personality. He is a math and science geek, and there is something just so appealing about that. In many ways, he isn't like my previous boyfriends; he isn't as athletic, has no interest in watching sports, doesn't drink at all, is white, is Jewish, is older than my previous boyfriends and was married before. Unlike my previous boyfriends, he truly loves my cats--and they love him. He doesn't always get things right, but he really does try to make me happy; he does sweet things for me such as taking me out to eat when I'm feeling down, and, even more importantly, he stays by my side when I have to face things that I haven't enough bravery to face on my own. That is a real difference from my last boyfriend--a guy who always left me to struggle to deal with things completely on my own.

Thanks for this nice discussion, I am a retired Professor from India, we have a group we meet on sundays usually in one members home ; we discuss this and that, in one this was the topic The gist is girls attracted towards tall, medium weight not chubby guys and guys get attracted towards slim tall girls too I am 6 feet 2 inches, my wife is 5 feet 8; we were married in 1966 lol

I think my partner nature is very helpful nature and I attracted on this part even he is handsome but more like his nature. He helps me in every work like household or market work and not annoy on me for small mistake but I hate him sometime because not tell me I love you because he is shy man hheehe....and I am open minded talkative women tell him many times I love you love you he feel bores.

Mine was good looking and full of charm. Thats what got me hooked to him. We are divorced now. But he gave me a great son. I will always remember him by this.

For me, looks really counts. Of course, who would want to be with somebody who is not good looking? Good conversationalist and with sense of humor are plus factor. But most of all he is kind hearted.

So many things.. when I first met her I love her smile and her personality. she is beautiful, has great skin, great build and she has the best personality. of course she is sexy.. Happy mylotting!

Their arms and hands....the lower arm....and I like it when they roll the sleeve up exposing their wrists...crazy huh? LOL....but I like arms.

i Dont have any specific traits im looking for at all. Ive dated the jocks and the not so jocks in school LOL. I dont think any where ever dorks or anything like that at all and were all pretty popular where i live i would say. The boyfriend i have now was one of my brothers friends growing up in high school and they drove the same truck and did alot together but since my brother got married there hasnt been any of my brothers friends around or they dont talk to him at all but they do talk to me LOL. Well i would say im attracted to him because we both like cars and dealing with them and going fast and we like the same tv shows most of the time and there are things we like together and somethings we both disagree on but its life and we get along and thats what matters.

The person has to have long hair and be decidedly feminine. My husband has a light androgynous look to him and other such small but fantastic feminine qualities. I guess what attracted me was that he looks somewhat more to the female perspective. I do rather like women. Any guy I have ever dated has had long or wavy hair, non-muscular very soft builds, and yeah. Now that I actually think of it... they all looked like women. They all also shared some female personality traits which went along perfectly with my more rough around the edges personality traits. With women I kind of like fun, flirty, and yet serious types and feminine dress and more.

His funny looks! I got really attracted to it. I don't know why. But that's what makes me really attracted to him ever since. :)

I always attracted to his sweet smile and beautiful eyes.

I have never been one to go only for looks. I look for intelligence, a good sense of humor, and someone that takes the time to get to know you. Someone that has a caring nature and a good heart. A person I can have good conversations with and that shares some of the same interests as me.