Are you putting nay part of your life on hold?

Hi silverfox! Personally, there are really some things that I can't do because of some reasons like time availability. Two years ago, I really wanted to go back to school to take up law but since I have to wait for my training, I cannot decide on this matter. Now that my training was over, I would have to reconsider this things again. I know I have a little knowledge on my job at present and going back to school taking up related course could somehow help me. While it is good to decide that we have to do a particular thing today but because there are several things to consider, we end up not doing what we planned. But anyway as long as we are not wasting our time for some things that will not bring us any benefit, it is quite okay for me. By the way, what is that particular thing that you supposed to do but your were not able to?

There are several things in my life that I've put on hold. One of them is really pursuing a life partner. I'm not 100 percent where I want to be at in life, so I'm working on getting there before really trying to find a potential wife. You are correct though, life is a lot shorter than we think. I was hanging out with one of my friend's, who had a birthday on October 24. I was telling him how it seemed like the first 18 years of our lives went by slow, but after that life just seemed to speed up. We definitely should do all that we can while we're able.

It is a sort of procrastination putting things on hold and do it in another time. We should think that there are unexpected time may happen. What if you put onhold a certain things and you will die, it means all of that works will be pending because you didn't do that while you are still alive

Hello Silverfox, I agree that the moment spent can never be relived and therefore, I enjoy everyday to its fullest. There are things that I do not put off for tomorrow like calling someone, creating moments of happiness, enjoying with family and friends. There are things over which I have no control. Whether I like it or not I have to wait for them, for days, for months also for years.

Hi Silverfox I admire your enthusiasm. Unfortunately I put a lot of things in my life on hold. I procrastinate a lot yeah. I know I should stop but each time I say I will stop procrastinating I say I will do it next time lol. Your right about taking advantage of the moment because we will never have that moment again the day will not repeat itself. Thanx for this inspirational conversation.

We are planning to have a child this year and if not early next year. That's why I have a hiatus with my career for now. Because we have a very stressful life. Just to focus on on my baby. My husband is working hard and I'm helping through this online things, to augment our earnings one way or the other. I hope my husband could find time to rest for some time. I hope we will be able to achieve our goals for life is indeed short just to be wasted for nothing. Good luck. Thanks.

hi silver fox. I have been putting off getting myu blood work done for my diabetic checkup next month and for the appt with DR Duckor for my diverticulitis. why do I d o this then kick myself because I did not do it? these have to be done and neither one of them is going to be unmpleasant s o have to do it this coming week.yes I have been just to mylot. shame on me.

I am putting some of my life on hold at the moment, because of the fact that I am having to work so hard right now. One of the things that I am trying my hardest to do is to be able to afford a flat, and because of this I am having to work every hour that it is possible to work in order to gather together the money that I need to be able to make the purchase. I know that it is going to be hard, but I think that it is worth just making the effort for a short amount of time to be able to reap the rewards of that hard work in the future.

Hi silverfox Well, I feel there are two approaches on this one. First says/believes - Do everything right this moment as there is never a next. Hmmm... if I try this one, I will be unable to do anything right - because there are so many many things and I am not a normal multi-tasker forget the great one So I will end up with nothing. The other belief - Everything has a moment prescribed for it. So wait until its time comes and it will happen - no matter what you think or no matter how you need or even dont need. - I believe in this theory as at least I can have something done (despite my liking or non liking). Then there is another set of things for me - which didnt happen the way I wanted them to happen. On these, when I was healthy, I would return back to them and re-try to get them done the way I wanted them to be. But today, my limitations dont allow me that flexibility

Well, in your discussion, you have expressed a concept entirely clear. In fact, the time we have already spent, will never come back again! We will have much to think about this. Let's be clear, the decisions should never be taken as risky, so we run the risk of making mistakes. However, we must still try to realize the things in our lives when it's time, expect too much sometimes could be counterproductive. Obviously, every decision must always be taken with full knowledge of the facts.