There are things that are simply obvious!

@sharksfin (1091)
Philippines
October 26, 2012 6:28pm CST
Twas a Thursday and twas a lazy day for me. I just stayed in bed most of the day til early afternoon. There was no special plan. No agenda, at all. Monday that same week, I was able to chat with a girl friend who I thought was just into chatting with me. Only later to find out that she just had to because she needed to know something. Guess, am really not that interesting, huh?! So, we were chatting and I tried to confirm whether our planned movie marathon will push on Thursday. Yeah, that lazy Thursday I mentioned earlier. And, she gave a quick answer that she's busy. Great! So, I finally decided to cancel. So, Thursday came and around late in the afternoon, I received a text message from "her" asking me if I was available to go out as one of our newest "male" friends wanted to hang out. Wow! Twas that easy for her to forget about how busy she was when asked by our male friend! As easily as how she turned me down without hesitation when as far as I can remember, they were the ones who set that movie night out! tsk tsk ...and yeah, I also received a text message from this "male" friend, by the way. But, I didn't bother replying to neither of them. Firstly, it's kinda late and it's gonna take me a few hours to get ready and the text message was sent 3 hrs earlier. I have very bad signal in my unit, by the way. And this is something "she" knows. In fact, whenever she needed to contact me, she'd rather leave a message on Facebook to make sure I got her message on time. But, this time, twasn't like that. So, I figured, she prolly didn't want me to join them. Sounds really negative, but well...there are simply things that are too obvious to deny! Any other view on this, maybe?
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4 responses
• China
27 Oct 12
Maybe there's some misunderstand with you,if such things often happen you should think about whether she's your truly friend.
@stealthy (8181)
• United States
27 Oct 12
It seems like your analysis is right. Of course as a guy, I may not fully appreciate the interactions between female "friends." I'm not sure I ever really noticed such things with my friends. But then I have never been particularly adept at picking up on such things. I tend to take things at face value which can be good and can be bad. I'm sure I missed out on noticing when some girls were attracted to me until the it was too late. You seem to have better observational powers when it comes to friendship. So it seems that you should trust your instincts.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
27 Oct 12
Based on your description on how things were up before and after the said movie marathon, I think she just texted you just so she can say that she did text you and she tried to include you in their plans. and I also think she doesn't really want you to be with them, I mean if it's a sudden thing and she really wants you there, she could have called knowing that it's such a short notice. I know I would just to make sure that the message is passed on on time. Well, one thing for sure, if I have a "friend" like that, I don't think we will be hanging out often after that incident.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
27 Oct 12
Seems like she wants you only when you are needed. Not much of a true friend there.