Cheater will always a cheater

Okay, it depends. If it is once, I believe someone could change because that someone could not be develop the art of cheating consistently. However, if it is twice I would be in doubt but there will be a hope to be considered. If it thrice, well, it's up to me to leave him or not. That's what I want to do then. What I believe is Once is enough, two is too much and thrice is I better stop with him. lol, that's what I think for me. Just a comment on your post.

I used to believe a "once a cheater is always a cheater"... Now I dont.. If a person continues time and time again.. Then it is true. But there are different reason why people cheat. It doesnt make any of it right; still it happens.. I know this much it isnt worth it..

I don't believe in it. I believe everyone deserves a second chance and with guidance, one can really change for the better. I truly believe in the saying that there is nothing constant in this world. Everything changes and everyone changes.

I agree with you, men are born to cheat. I know women who go back to a man after he has cheated. I never would do that. i could never trust him again. Have a great day there.

You classify the discussion in the "lover". Does it mean that your boyfriend or your husband cheated you? And now, you have decided not to trust him. If my supposition is correct, then you should make the decide that you must never trust him again. As you have said, if he has done it once, he can do it again. You should insist on it. But if the person is only a ordianry person to you, you should give him the chance again. Because they are not so important to you .

We must ask this question,why do people cheat?It may be due to reasons such insecurity etc.That person known as a'cheater' was not made that way but rather circumstances that made them so. I believe that with TIME they will change.

I do not believe that once a cheater, always a cheater. If people deeply evaluate themselves, the current state of their lives, their partner and the state of their partner's life.. They can usually figure out what led their partner into cheating. Some people do it simply because they are not getting enough affection. Others find out that they are not emotionally/mentally/spiritually/sexually compatible with their spouse... Instead of calling it quits, the end up running to the first person that they meet who is more like what they desire. Other people have deeper psychological issues, such as past abuse, that almost lead them into it. Others simply do not discuss things in their relationship... One person may prefer an open relationship and the other does not. One person may see marrying a character in an online game as cheating.. Others may not. Some consider an online only relationship during an already established relationship cheating. Cheating is breaking an established rule... So it really depends on the couple!

everyone deserves to change. i guess I will not agree with you because a person can always change his bad habits if he/she really likes to. Discipline is the key for a successful character change.